# A very subltle fuck you **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [February 27, 2018, 3:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651 "2018-02-27T03:27:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Superdude](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/superdude/32/13450_2.png) [@Superdude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Superdude)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/21 "2018-02-27T04:14:54Z")
> [@somepumpkin](#): > > Dude… alcohol and Oxycontin and soma and weed and nicotine and chicken… what a rush. Nah. Just take an Ambien and stay awake ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/22 "2018-02-27T04:18:11Z")
Nah. Took an ambien about 30 mins ago. Euphoria ensues. And mis-guidededness. ---
**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/23 "2018-02-27T04:19:17Z")
Yeah, you’ve got us concerned. I mean, booze, oxy, ambien 'n cigs, that’s a basic Monday night, but you’re mixing in chicken? Dude… tell us it’s not [Junglee Murgh Buffalo Wings](https://food.ndtv.com/recipe-sailana-junglee-murgh-381468). Sorry about the job, man. You need friends and counseling and maybe rehab. A messageboard is not going to help. ETA: Hide your car keys so you don’t sleep-drive on Ambien, and get some sleep. ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/24 "2018-02-27T04:19:27Z")
I love you guys who have taken the time to reply ! ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/25 "2018-02-27T04:20:35Z")
messGebord /= support ---
**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/26 "2018-02-27T04:28:25Z")
> [@TruCelt](#): > > Subtlety fail. He was trying for subltlety though. I think it worked. ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/27 "2018-02-27T04:28:35Z")
> [@digs](#): > > Yeah, you’ve got us concerned. I mean, booze, oxy, ambien 'n cigs, that’s a basic Monday night, but you’re mixing in chicken? Dude… tell us it’s not [Junglee Murgh Buffalo Wings](https://food.ndtv.com/recipe-sailana-junglee-murgh-381468). > > Sorry about the job, man. You need friends and counseling and maybe rehab. > A messageboard is not going to help. > > ETA: Hide your car keys so you don’t sleep-drive on Ambien, and get some sleep. Wow. The chiken sounds good. I’m okay. Thank you, though. Now that i’ve time off, maybe I’ll cook that for the wife. I’m a shitty message-board paricitant, but I’m a good coo0k. After a couple of blunts. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/28 "2018-02-27T04:29:55Z")
In an attempt at seriousness. I really appreciate your concern. ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/29 "2018-02-27T04:34:51Z")
Have you guys heard the Whigs… r[ight hand on my heart?](https://www.youtube.com?/watch?v=SfL5XJ0RhoE) ---
**Author:** ![kambuckta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kambuckta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kambuckta)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/30 "2018-02-27T04:36:12Z")
Eat, drink water, sleep, then die of embarrassed mortification when you open this thread in the morning. Haaaaaaaaaaaa. 😃 Nah, take care dude. We do care about one of our own, even eejits like you. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/31 "2018-02-27T04:38:49Z")
You’re so right… i’ll probaly regret this when I’m sober. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![fervour](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ce7236/32.png) [@fervour](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fervour)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/32 "2018-02-27T04:41:19Z")
Shunpiker, you have a right to be pissed (both meanings: drunk/angry). I’m sorry about the job. Please consider going to bed. I’m not going to pretend I know your tolerance for the drugs you’ve taken. You know that better than I do. But ambien, oxy, booze, mj, and ?------Take a break. You had a bad day. I can’t even imagine. I almost didn’t respond because I don’t want a response. This is probably not your last chance. You are probably blowing off steam and dealing with the loss of your job. Stop. Go to sleep. -----or if you’ve had too much, go to the ER. But my guess is that you need to go to sleep and think about this tomorrow. ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/33 "2018-02-27T04:46:07Z")
Thanks **fervour**. You’re what i love about the `Dope.You guys do care. And I know that. I love you guys. I’m not driving. I’m going to sleep soon. Knowing that most of you care about your fellow man. Thank you. And much love . (heart smiley) ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 4:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/34 "2018-02-27T04:57:02Z")
just fyi… i’ve progressed from the Montenegro + Aperol to the Voss. I’m working toward a positive Feb 27th. I appreciate the love; i really do. ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 5:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/35 "2018-02-27T05:13:45Z")
It was really surprising, the hate got from my last thread about Aly. I didn’t mean to instill such hate. My concern was with human trafficking and the exploitation of women and such. That’s really where i was coming from; I don’t have a beef about women or about their independence. But i didn’t do an adequate job of expressing my issue. My own fault. But, admittedly, I feel bad about my post. I think that the respondents were shit for the things they said, but I thought my heart was in the right place. However, I’m man enough to take you guys calling me a worthless piece of shit. I know I’m not, but rock on, mutherfuckers. ---
**Author:** ![somepumpkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@somepumpkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/somepumpkin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 5:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/36 "2018-02-27T05:20:51Z")
oh shit… it is Feb 27th. I need to go to bed. I should crawl-up with a nut-loving squirrel. Because I know no one else will see any value in me. Fuck… my boss didn’t. And, atfer reading what (s0me of you worthless fucks) wrote about me, why would my wife invest any more in me? ---
**Author:** ![E-DUB](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/e-dub/32/403_2.png) [@E-DUB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/E-DUB)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 5:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/37 "2018-02-27T05:23:51Z")
I generally don’t even open threads that don’t interest me (duh), so I haven’t seen the thread you’re referencing. However, I was intrigued by the title of this thread and wanted to see a “very subtle fuck you”. Instead, I get an invitation to consume your unsurprisingly shit-stained underwear. Where’s the subtlety in that? I am disappointed. Now, the scene from the first JJverse Star Trek film where Spock tells the Board of the Vulcan Science Academy to “Live long and prosper”, _that_ was a subtle fuck you. ---
**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/38 "2018-02-27T05:32:09Z")
> [@somepumpkin](#): > > It was really surprising, the hate got from my last thread about Aly. I didn’t mean to instill such hate. My concern was with human trafficking and the exploitation of women and such. That’s really where i was coming from; I don’t have a beef about women or about their independence. But i didn’t do an adequate job of expressing my issue. My own fault. But, admittedly, I feel bad about my post. I think that the respondents were shit for the things they said, but I thought my heart was in the right place. However, I’m man enough to take you guys calling me a worthless piece of shit. I know I’m not, but rock on, mutherfuckers. Having read some of that thread yeah people were insulting. However I think for a lot of people, living in a sex positive society is one where women are empowered and their rights respected. Access to porn supposedly lowers rates of sex crimes and sexual abuse. Basically it seems that, in general, the more libertine societies are the ones where women are respected and empowered, while the sexually repressive ones are the ones where women are abused and mistreated. As someone who has gotten his share of verbally abusive pile-ons here, it hurts to feel like tons of people hate you and you don’t know who hates you and who doesn’t when you comment on a thread, which just makes you paranoid. ---
**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/39 "2018-02-27T05:32:45Z")
I’m confused. 😕 Is this a flounce? ---
**Author:** ![Covfefe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ee7513/32.png) [@Covfefe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Covfefe)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 5:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651/40 "2018-02-27T05:37:45Z")
> [@E-DUB](#): > > I generally don’t even open threads that don’t interest me (duh), so I haven’t seen the thread you’re referencing. However, I was intrigued by the title of this thread and wanted to see a “very subtle fuck you”. Instead, I get an invitation to consume your unsurprisingly shit-stained underwear. It’s this one. [https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=20803614&postcount=12](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=20803614&postcount=12) [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-very-subltle-fuck-you/809651.md?page=3)