Let me be clear that I am, in fact, (moderately) pro-choice. I have absolutely no problems with a woman having an abortion in the first trimester, for whatever reason she thinks is appropriate. An embryo in the first trimester is a lump of cells, and she can do what she likes with it.
Over the course of the second trimester, it becomes increasingly unclear, as noted in this thread, what faculties of personhood a fetus has, and it becomes correspondingly fuzzy morally. I am very strongly disinclined to insert my own feelings on the matter into what is very obviously a very difficult and personal choice. I am even more disinclined to inject government intervention at this point. If a woman were to ask for my personal counsel in choosing whether to abort in the second trimester, I would urge her (among other things) to weigh the likely stage of development of the fetus against the situation she is in, while strongly emphasizing her right to make a descision herself, even one I would disagree with. I would feel comfortable modifying my position based on scientific evidence.
By the third trimester, I would argue that an abortion should take place only under extreme circumstances, which I understand is the case today. I would not make it my mission to persuade women not to have abortions at this stage, because I am not in a position to pass judgment, never having been (and never likely to become) pregnant (being a man, and all). If asked, I would encourage a woman to learn about the development of the fetus at that stage, and to seriously consider other options; however I would respect whatever descision is made. I would not object in principle to legal restrictions on or prohibition of abortion during the third trimester, but I would be very cautious about creating uninteded consequences of any legislation. I would support efforts to make third term abortions rare by providing a strong support system to mothers through private initiatives and government programs, and by promoting adoption and other alternatives to abortion, which I think is more likely to have a positive outcome than criminalization.
I don’t expect anyone to give a damn what I think, except for people who read message board threads about abortion and people who ask for my opinion.
Let me say again that I don’t care what anyone does to their own body if it doesn’t affect another person. If it DOES affect another person, then it would be immoral for me to keep silent, just as it would be in cases of rape, slavery, abuse, or murder. The difference is whether a person is being harmed. Feel free to rape or enslave any zygotes, trees, plastic dolls, coffee mugs, or brine shrimp in my vicinity. You’ll get no guff from me. Do it to a PERSON, and I’ll speak up.