I found my copy, but it would be nearly two full pages, which miiiight be pushing the limits of Fair Use. I’ll instead just edit it down to the list and their before/after circumstances. Unedited, it’s much better, so that’s good reason to read it!
[ in dropdown, because, of course there be spoilers! ]
Miles confession of past loves
“The usual progression, I suppose. Hopeless first love, this and that over the years, unrequited mad crushes.”
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“Elena. The daughter of one of my father’s Armsmen, who was my bodyguard when I was young.”
“Is she still on Barrayar?”
“No, she emigrated years ago. Had a galactic military career and retired with the rank of captain. She’s a commercial shipmaster now.”
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“There was Elli. She was a free mercenary trainee when I first met her.”
“What is she now?”
“Fleet Admiral. Actually.”
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“There was Taura.”
“What was she, when you first met her?”
“A Jacksonian body-slave. Of House Ryoval - very bad news, House Ryoval used to be.”
[snip] So what is she now?"
“Master Sergeant in a mercenary fleet.”
“The same fleet as, um, the this?”
“Yes.”
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“mm…there was Rowan. That was…that was brief.”
“And she was…?”
“A technical serf of the House Fell. She’s a cryo-revival surgeon in an independent clinic on Escobar, now, though, I’m happy to say. Very Pleased with her new citizenship.”
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“Do you notice a trend in all this, Lord Vorkosigan?”
“Yes,” he replied glumly. “None of them would marry me and come live on Barrayar.”
“So…what about the unrequited mad crush?”
“Ah. That was Rian. I was young, just a new lieutenant of a diplomatic mission.”
“And what does she do, now?”
He cleared his throat. “Now? She’s an empress.” He added, under the pressure of Ekaterin’s wide stare, “of Cetaganda. They have several, you see.”