# Abusive relationships? **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [December 4, 2012, 2:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956 "2012-12-04T14:29:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![missyzilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@missyzilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missyzilly)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 2:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/1 "2012-12-04T14:29:54Z")
When you get your first punch out of the blue what did you do? ---
**Author:** ![Happy\_Fun\_Ball](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_fun_ball/32/17664_2.png) [@Happy\_Fun\_Ball](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Fun_Ball)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 2:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/2 "2012-12-04T14:31:32Z")
Left. Fuck that. ---
**Author:** ![missyzilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@missyzilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missyzilly)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 2:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/3 "2012-12-04T14:34:50Z")
I was 18 he was my first boyfriend. Im not proud of this but he hit me and I snapped and beat the crap out of him. ---
**Author:** ![Jack\_Batty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jack_batty/32/3201_2.png) [@Jack\_Batty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jack_Batty)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/4 "2012-12-04T14:35:59Z")
Did you hit him with your big troll club? ---
**Author:** ![missyzilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@missyzilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missyzilly)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 2:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/5 "2012-12-04T14:48:13Z")
My foot hit hit his face. ---
**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 2:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/6 "2012-12-04T14:50:49Z")
A word to the wise: You are going to be on everyone’s shit list here if you keep posting these dumb, one-liner OPs. If you’re looking for verbal abuse, you’re doing a great job of trolling for it. ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 2:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/7 "2012-12-04T14:54:50Z")
> [@John\_Mace](#): > > A word to the wise Wrong thread. ---
**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/8 "2012-12-04T14:56:33Z")
> [@VinylTurnip](#): > > Wrong thread. :smack: You are correct! ---
**Author:** ![missyzilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@missyzilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missyzilly)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/9 "2012-12-04T15:00:21Z")
> [@John\_Mace](#): > > A word to the wise: You are going to be on everyone’s shit list here if you keep posting these dumb, one-liner OPs. If you’re looking for verbal abuse, you’re doing a great job of trolling for it. If it does not suit you why stop . ---
**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/10 "2012-12-04T15:02:44Z")
Np soap. Radio. ---
**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/11 "2012-12-04T15:03:53Z")
Is it Christmas vacation already? ---
**Author:** ![Chimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Chimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chimera)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/12 "2012-12-04T15:07:14Z")
Stayed for far too long. Eventually filed an Order for Protection and had her removed. She responded by filing for Divorce. I accepted that proposition, much to her surprise. ---
**Author:** ![missyzilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@missyzilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missyzilly)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/13 "2012-12-04T15:09:43Z")
This is a very real problem that is horrific to go through. I can not understand how you can think I want verbal abuse ??? I did not ask for physical abuse? It hurt. ---
**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/14 "2012-12-04T15:13:15Z")
> [@missyzilly](#): > > This is a very real problem that is horrific to go through. I can not understand how you can think I want verbal abuse ??? I did not ask for physical abuse? It hurt. You got the only answer you need in post #2. It’s all just gravy after that. ---
**Author:** ![missyzilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@missyzilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missyzilly)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/15 "2012-12-04T15:13:53Z")
I might not be allowed to come back to this site and that is fine. But I still got abused ---
**Author:** ![missyzilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@missyzilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missyzilly)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/16 "2012-12-04T15:17:02Z")
> [@John\_Mace](#): > > You got the only answer you need in post #2. It’s all just gravy after that. you are not happy about this topic. ---
**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/17 "2012-12-04T15:19:38Z")
Yes, John Mace, let missyzilly delve into your psyche. ---
**Author:** ![Machine\_Elf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@Machine\_Elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Machine_Elf)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/18 "2012-12-04T15:23:23Z")
> [@missyzilly](#): > > I can not understand how you can think I want verbal abuse ??? [“Look, I came in here for an argument!” “Oh…I’m sorry, this is Abuse.”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQFKtI6gn9Y&feature=player_detailpage#t=40s) You posted in The BBQ Pit. Why would you post in here and NOT anticipate being heaped with abuse and derision? ---
**Author:** ![missyzilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@missyzilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missyzilly)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/19 "2012-12-04T15:30:37Z")
Are you two on some type of Medication ? This is not great debates . It does not matter where I posted this topic it is not funny for you too try to start a fight. ---
**Author:** ![missyzilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@missyzilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missyzilly)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2012, 3:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956/20 "2012-12-04T15:33:18Z")
> [@Machine\_Elf](#): > > [“Look, I came in here for an argument!” > “Oh…I’m sorry, this is Abuse.”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQFKtI6gn9Y&feature=player_detailpage#t=40s) > > You posted in The BBQ Pit. Why would you post in here and NOT anticipate being heaped with abuse and derision? Do you beat your partners? [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/abusive-relationships/642956.md?page=2)