Accusing a Group of Malice in GD

I’m of the opinion that they aren’t being consistent. And this is the place for me to make that claim.

For example consider this mod note, and this goes to @superdude’s point as well (thank you for making it):

Why was it against the rules for Ruken to say bringing up irrelevant source materials constitutes fear-mongering? Because this was a backhanded insult against Stranger_on_a_Train. The latter member had cited the source materials. Fear-mongering is an accusation of bad faith, purposely exaggerating a claim to create unnecessary fear. Since Stranger_on_a_Train clearly made the cite, and one can reasonably infer that Ruken was referring to him since the post quoted Stranger_on_a_Train directly. Ruken did not explicitly single out Stranger_on_a_Train in that remark but he was clearly the target. It follows that Ruken indirectly accused him of fear-mongering. What_Exit described the post as attacking the poster, not the post.

There is no difference between what Ruken wrote and “people who bring up irrelevant source materials are fear-mongers”. Now look what happens when I do a little substitution. People who think being gay is a choice are malicious. I’ve replaced “bring up source materials” with “think being gay is a choice”, and “fear-mongers” with “malicious”. What if instead of “people who think being gay is a choice”, I just write “conservatives are malicious”? What have I done that makes the rule no longer apply? What difference is there?

~Max