# Adoption of adults. Why is this legal? Was it always?

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**Created:** [February 1, 2001, 12:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/adoption-of-adults-why-is-this-legal-was-it-always/52630 "2001-02-01T00:24:20Z")\
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**Post date:** [February 1, 2001, 12:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/adoption-of-adults-why-is-this-legal-was-it-always/52630/2 "2001-02-01T00:38:39Z")

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Gay people have used adoption as a way of preserving their rights. For instance let’s say your S.O. was in the hospital and they will only let “family members” in. Your lover isn’t a wife or husband so your S.O. could be dying and you wouldn’t be able to see him.

But if one of you adopted the other, you would be a son or father (daughter or mother) so you could see them.

It would also work for inheritance(SP?). At one time way back I believed they used to allow a person to differentiate between an illegitimate child and a legitimate one in a will.

This would also make an illegitimate child legitimate. Though that stigman isn’t much today.

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