We know that ALL of the then-exant non-avian dinosaur clades were terminated by the results of Chicxulub, so why do you find this unbelievable or unrealistic?
OUR civilization developed this way, but is this a necessary precursor for some other civilization?
Remember, humans spread around the globe mostly by walking; we evolved in a geologic era in which there were no vast ocean gaps between the continents we settled. Even the gap between Timor and Sahul (Greater Australia) was less than 60 miles at times. We can prove true long-distance seafaring, purposefully sailing to a place you couldn’t see from your starting place, only beginning with the Austronesian expansion ca. 3000 BC, by which time there were Sumerian city-states already several thousand years old.
Meanwhile, in the late Cretaceous period, India for example was out in the middle of the Tethys Ocean hundreds of miles from the nearest landmass; Australia and Antarctica were joined to each other, but not to anything else; Africa had separated from South America but wasn’t yet close to Eurasia. Any terrestrial lifeform would not be able to see there was any other place out there, so why would they have gone looking? HOW would they have gone looking, given what we know of the development of seafaring from island-hopping to long-distance voyaging?
Why would their tools have necessarily been stone?
That’s part of thinking about what a civilization not just like ours might look like: what makes stone tools a necessary step in their evolution? I don’t see any real path to, say, space-faring that doesn’t include stone tools, but is space-faring a necessary part of being a civilization? No.
Abundant artifact evidence in a very constrained geographic area in a time that is but a geological eye-blink separated from us. Everything we know about Easter Island civilization, e.g., is contained in 63 square miles and the last thousand years (maybe 1500, maybe). What is the likelihood that any given 63 square miles will survive for 65 million years?
Picked it up off the ground? Broke it off living trees? Pulled up saplings out of the ground? If you live in or near a woodland, there’s wood all around.
No, they were processing those materials with their hands. We already have evidence for dinosaurs that could grasp materials with their hands.
I think Gobekli Tepe does qualify as civilization, but if you don’t, then just move ahead to the first civilization you do recognize: Sumer, Mohenjo Daro, ancient Egypt, whatever. There was a point in human history where “civilization” was not a globe-spanning thing, but instead geographically confined to one or a handful of locations. If another asteroid came by and caused a Chicxulub-scale catastrophe during the Egyptian Old Kingdom, what is the likelihood that in 65 million years evidence would be found?
I don’t understand where you’re going with these statements. If human civilization had never developed at all, that doesn’t mean the fruits, berries, grains, nuts, seeds, roots, shellfish, mammoths, etc., etc., on which the various primate species have been feeding also vanished. Most of the ecosystems and bioscapes and geology in which we developed would have looked pretty much the same if we’d never existed at all, because it is only in the last ten or fifteen millennia that humans have made large-scale changes to our environment in ways that are unambiguously “us.”
No, all of the steps need not survive: the fossil record contains lots of gaps that will never be filled. (For example, South African caves are a major source for early hominid fossils, but the caves [only accumulated fossils during dry eras (U–Pb-dated flowstones restrict South African early hominin record to dry climate phases | Nature)] (probably paywalled PDF); the steps that happened during wet eras did not survive.) Even if all of the steps do survive, however, how many would be recognizably and unambiguously leading to dinosaur civilization before the last couple?