# Advice on living with a SO... Please!

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**Created:** [June 3, 2002, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-living-with-a-so-please/112239 "2002-06-03T21:37:49Z")\
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**Author:** ![China\_Guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/779978/32.png) [@China\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/China_Guy)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2002, 1:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-living-with-a-so-please/112239/21 "2002-06-05T13:45:48Z")

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I would also reiterate that what may be a GIANT deal to you, amy be completely insignificant to him _unless_ you clearly spell out how you feel.

it’s part of picking battles. More like drawing a line in the sand \*in advance \*

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