# Advice on Proposing

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 3, 2006, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124 "2006-04-03T19:29:56Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 8\
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**Author:** ![Lionne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Lionne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lionne)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 6:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124/41 "2006-04-04T18:32:08Z")

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Hooooray! Wonderful news - my best to you both!

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**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 7:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124/42 "2006-04-04T19:28:29Z")

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> [@silenus](#):
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> Congratulations! Was the time between you asking and her saying yes the longest 3 seconds of your life? 😃

I’m delighted to hear the good news. But he didn’t actually write that she _said_ yes. 😛

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**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124/43 "2006-04-04T19:37:39Z")

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Yay for **Gangster Octopus**!

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**Author:** ![corkboard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e9bcb4/32.png) [@corkboard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/corkboard)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124/44 "2006-04-04T20:44:59Z")

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Way to go, **G O**. Your touching story of the proposal inevitably reminded me of the night I proposed to my wife, and the circumstances were eerily similar. It wasn’t my wife’s birthday, but other than that, very similar.

Enjoy your lives together.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124/45 "2006-04-04T20:54:11Z")

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Congratulations 🙂 May the two of you grow old and cranky together.

Wow, lots of good news around here lately, that’s nice!

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**Author:** ![Rebo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rebo/32/13005_2.png) [@Rebo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rebo)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124/46 "2006-04-04T21:20:27Z")

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Congratulations!

My husband proposed to me on my birthday. We went to Renfest and got rained on half the day, drank a bunch of beer, and had a fabulous time. Then we went to dinner, and out for drinks after that.

He surprised the hell out of me with a ring box, and it was a perfect moment. In a series of perfect moments that make up our marriage.

I wish you both much happiness! (And we went to Vegas and got married in a cheapo chapel. Heaven!)

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**Author:** ![scotandrsn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a4c791/32.png) [@scotandrsn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scotandrsn)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 10:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124/47 "2006-04-04T22:01:32Z")

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> [@Gangster Octopus](#):
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> Then the idea of planning and paying for a wedding hit me and I barely slept a wink.

We got most of our vendors and sites together ourselves, but in the end, we hired a wedding planner to coordinate the actual activity of the day. I strongly recommend it, and I know a good local one.

Congrats, GO.

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**Author:** ![Scuba\_Ben](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Scuba\_Ben](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scuba_Ben)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2006, 10:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/advice-on-proposing/351124/48 "2006-04-04T22:51:47Z")

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What a wonderful story, GO. Congratulations and mazel tov!

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