I am a total yellow bellied coward when it comes to authority, but I got pretty close to getting arrested by the TSA at the airport in Orlando. I was returning from a vacation with my six year old daughter.
She walked happily through the scanner ahead of me, and no problems. I walked through, no problem. Then the TSA guy said “Sir, we’ve selected her for extra pat-down screening” or whatever the term is for when they look under your clothes.
I thought I’d misunderstood. “Okay, where can she wait while you search me…”
“No, we’re searching her. You can be present while we…”
“No,” I said.
The guy stiffened. “Well, sir, we are.”
“No,” I said, “You’re not, sir. You are not searching my little girl.”
“We have to. If you’ll…”
“I don’t care. You aren’t searching her. It’s not happening.”
I’d say “I don’t know what got into me” but of course I do know what got into me; I was a man protecting his daughter. My fight or flight response had been triggered, and what I was doing was objectively risky and stupid, but I could no more stop myself than I could grow a new arm.
“Well, sir, you’ll just have to…”
“Oh, I don’t think so,” I said, and crossed my arms.
Well, the guy could have gone one of two ways, I guess. One way is he could quite “rightly” have tried to search her and then I would have tried to physically stop and gotten tasered or shot and it would have been all over the news and I wouldn’t sued if I’d survived, or I could have at least gotten arrested and they’d have had to call the Canadian consulate and it would have been in the news.
The second way was he could have decided he was asking to do an objectively stupid and insulting thing, apologize, and just carry on.
He chose Option 2, thank heavens. So he was an okay guy. I’m not proud I did that, because I didn’t really feel like I chose to.
So anyway, to answer the OP’s question, this is going to get worse until people stop flying. My wife no longer wants to travel to the USA for vacation, in part because of this shit. I won’t fly anywhere I can possibly drive to in the USA, because of this shit, and my enthusiasm for travel to the States is declining fast. If it gets worse, Americans will stop flying domestically as much as they currently do - it’s happened before, as it did after 9/11.