I dunno. Seems to me as tho he received some amount of info and a variety of opinions, on an issue that IMO lacks a single definitive answer.
Everyone has to decide for themselves whether or not they are satisfied with their alcohol consumption.
A couple of thoughts:
First off, if I have any activity that I suspect might possibly be interpreted negatively, I’m gonna be careful how I disclose it to whom. Certainly not gonna be entirely open on an initial visit for a well-patient exam with a doctor I don’t know. I would have said something like “Most nights I’ll have a beer or 2 after work, but never more than 3 and never to point of drunkenness.”
I also agree with what others have said that the “habitual” aspect of the OP’s drinking (as well as the pace) are factors that tend to nudge him into the category of “heavy drinker” IMO. During my heavier drinking days, more often than not I would put down 4 beers on a 40 minute train commute home. Afterwards I might or might not drink more. I had no problem characterizing my train beers as “heavy drinking.” Whether or not it is “problem drinking” is another matter.
And it might be relevant why you drink your 3 beers a day. Sounds almost like a ritual. Especially pounding them in 30 minutes.
3 beers a day equals nearly a case a week. To a drinker, that might not seem like too much. But I’m pretty confident that the vast majority of Americans drink nowhere near that amount week in and week out. So by denoting you a “heavy drinker”, in my mind it accurately reflects that you drink more heavily than most people.
I also agree that someone who drinks 3 beers a day might want to think about what effect that has on your liver and brain over the course of years. Especially if you are taking any medications. As I passed 30 and 40, that kinda long-term question seemed more important to me.
In your opinion, does it make any difference how you view an individual’s drinking if they drink 3 beers every day, or 7 beers every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday? I don’t know that one is any better or worse than the other. But I’m not particularly troubled by describing both as heavy or habitual drinking.
In short, I think the term “heavy drinking” is somewhat useful in describing the OP’s drinking habits - putting it in perspective compared to the Alerican public.
I’m not trying to be judgmental - just expressing my perspective.
Full disclosure - I drank way more than 21 beers a week for many years, and have been sober for 3 years.