Am I using my watt meter correctly?

Though that only works for loads that are somewhere on the spectrum of pure inductive and pure resistive, which isn’t always the case (like with many dimmer switches).

I’ve been running the Emporia system for a couple of years now and it works well:

Main downside is that it’s not very open. I wish I could directly access the data, but it’s all app/cloud based. It is cheap, though.