# Amazing but trivial coincidences **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [August 28, 2021, 5:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682 "2021-08-28T17:41:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![KMS94](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ad7895/32.png) [@KMS94](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KMS94)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2021, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/81 "2021-11-25T16:09:26Z")
I was a police officer in a town on the coast of Maine. One day, a guy comes in to ask some touristy questions, and I discover that he was from the same city in New Jersey that my college roommate was from, and he knew him! My friend had moved over to Pennsylvania by then, but his parent’s still lived in the same NJ house. Several years later, I’m visiting my buddy in PA, and we shot over so I could visit his parents in nearby Jersey too. After dinner at his parent’s house, my buddy and I go to a little, nondescript cinder block building with no windows and a buzz/passkey kind of entry called the “Italian-American Social Club” there in the town he grew up in. We’re sitting at the bar, and my friend gets up to go use the restroom. Halfway there, he bumps into the guy I spoke to at the police station up in Maine a few years earlier. They hadn’t seen each other since our encounter, though of course I had told my buddy about it. They were close enough to me that I could hear the conversation. As he tells my friend the story of meeting me in Maine, my friend goes, “Yeah, he’s right over there,” and points to me. I go “Hey Joe” and wave, and the look on the guy’s face was absolutely priceless. ---
**Author:** ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2021, 10:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/82 "2021-11-25T22:17:11Z")
> [@Maserschmidt](#): > > . . . I had made a rare trip into Boston that night to meet some friends at Faneuil Hall . . . Do we have any consensus on how to pronounce Faneuil? I always wanted to pronounce it “fanny-oil”. I saw somewhere the pronunciation is “Fane-yul” (where fane rhymes with plane). ---
**Author:** ![Maserschmidt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/maserschmidt/32/18829_2.png) [@Maserschmidt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maserschmidt)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2021, 11:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/83 "2021-11-25T23:23:02Z")
> [@Senegoid](#): > > Do we have any consensus on how to pronounce Faneuil? > I always wanted to pronounce it “fanny-oil”. > I saw somewhere the pronunciation is “Fane-yul” (where fane rhymes with plane). I’ve been here 24 years, and have never heard anything in actual usage other than rhyming it with “manual”. Supposedly some people rhyme it with “flannel”, but I haven’t actually been in conversation with those people. ---
**Author:** ![Author\_Balk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Author\_Balk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Author_Balk)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2021, 1:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/84 "2021-11-26T13:04:28Z")
> [@WildaBeast](#): > > My Wednesday night routine of late has been to watch a couple of episodes of _Brooklyn 99_ on Peacock. Coincidentally tonight, the night before Thanksgiving, the next episode up was a Thanksgiving episode. My Wednesday night routine of late has been to watch an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond. This week the schedule was off, and I watched it on Thursday (Thanksgiving). The next episode up was a Thanksgiving episode. So, having two people with a similar coincidence is another coincidence. ---
**Author:** ![commasense](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/commasense/32/3017_2.png) [@commasense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/commasense)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2021, 4:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/85 "2021-11-26T16:47:58Z")
In high school I became best friends with the guy who sat next to me in home room. His sister and my sister, both two years younger than us, met and became friends independently at about the same time in middle school. Their mother met our mother independently in a local chorus. And our fathers had known each other professionally for some years, although none of us had known that when we met our counterparts. My other coincidence involves my wife, whose father was a U.S. foreign service officer in the Middle East when she was born. It turned out that my stepmother had lived in the same city at the same time, and was in fact nanny for the children of the ambassador at that station, my father-in-law’s boss. ---
**Author:** ![Honolulu\_Lulu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/87869e/32.png) [@Honolulu\_Lulu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honolulu_Lulu)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2021, 2:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/86 "2021-11-28T02:06:06Z")
20? years ago, I was reading a book of trivia questions. One of the questions was, “What is the only state capital who’s name consists of three four-letter words?” Going from east to west in my head, it took me a few minutes to get the answer. The next night, a bunch of us were watching “Wheel of Fortune”. One of the puzzles consisted of four four-letter words and a clue of “place”. I blurted out the answer before any contestant had touched the wheel. ---
**Author:** ![JKellyMap](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jkellymap/32/15880_2.png) [@JKellyMap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JKellyMap)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2021, 12:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/87 "2021-11-28T12:46:21Z")
Has anyone mentioned how Paul McCartney was composing a song called “Let it Be” just as Jagger and Richard were composing one called “Let it Bleed”? (This was around New Year’s Day 1969). That these would become nearly-simultaneous ALBUM names (about a year later) as well might not be entirely coincidental — the Stones and Beatles were on friendly terms, and seeds might have been planted in conversations — but still, it’s pretty amazing, and underscores the public perception of the Stones as a more outré, sinister version of the Beatles. ---
**Author:** ![MikeF](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@MikeF](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MikeF)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2021, 1:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/88 "2021-11-28T13:59:21Z")
The wife had a dream about wanting our neighbor’s generator removed from the crawl space under our house where we have allowed him to store it. A couple of days later we smelled gasoline and, sure enough, the thing had started leaking and had dripped several ounces onto the floor. ---
**Author:** ![RealityChuck](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/realitychuck/32/195_2.png) [@RealityChuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RealityChuck)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2021, 3:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/89 "2021-11-28T15:40:47Z")
My wife’s maiden name is a very unusual one, ranking way down among the common names in the US. One day, I overheard my grandmother mentioning her name. I wondered why she was talking about her, and discovered that my grandmother’s grandmother had the same last name. ---
**Author:** ![carrps](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carrps/32/2957_2.png) [@carrps](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carrps)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2021, 5:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/90 "2021-11-28T17:06:49Z")
> [@KMS94](#): > > I was a police officer in a town on the coast of Maine. One day, a guy comes in to ask some touristy questions, and I discover that he was from the same city in New Jersey that my college roommate was from, and he knew him! My friend had moved over to Pennsylvania by then, but his parent’s still lived in the same NJ house. Several years later, I’m visiting my buddy in PA, and we shot over so I could visit his parents in nearby Jersey too. > After dinner at his parent’s house, my buddy and I go to a little, nondescript cinder block building with no windows and a buzz/passkey kind of entry called the “Italian-American Social Club” there in the town he grew up in. We’re sitting at the bar, and my friend gets up to go use the restroom. Halfway there, he bumps into the guy I spoke to at the police station up in Maine a few years earlier. They hadn’t seen each other since our encounter, though of course I had told my buddy about it. They were close enough to me that I could hear the conversation. As he tells my friend the story of meeting me in Maine, my friend goes, “Yeah, he’s right over there,” and points to me. I go “Hey Joe” and wave, and the look on the guy’s face was absolutely priceless. What a perfect little story! ---
**Author:** ![Cheesesteak](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cheesesteak/32/3694_2.png) [@Cheesesteak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheesesteak)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2021, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/91 "2021-11-29T17:40:42Z")
I was taking a business class in Rochester, NY (in the mid '90s) when the professor asked us a question with the answer being the name of a huge corporate employer in the area. His hint, the company’s name began and ended with the same letter. Turns out, all 3 of Rochester’s big corporate employers had the same beginning and ending letters: -Kodak -Xerox -Bausch and Lomb ---
**Author:** ![Hypno-Toad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b2d939/32.png) [@Hypno-Toad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hypno-Toad)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2021, 7:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/92 "2021-11-29T19:46:20Z")
I was watching an episode of either Nova or American Experience about the opioid epidemic. It was about how ordinary people get snared in addiction for over-prescription of oxy and other pills. So a segment of the show starts in a WVA county and I think, “Hey, I have cousins there.” Then the episode mentions a guy who worked in the mines and he had the same name as my cousin. And it was a common name with an unusual spelling just like my cousin. Sure enough, there’s my cousin, along with pictures of his sibs and his parents. My other cousins and Aunt and Uncle. Well, shit. This is how I found out he lost his leg from the knee down in the mines. Our two branches of the family have been somewhat estranged since his mom, my moms sister, died a few years ago. Made sure to call my mom and sister and tell them. ---
**Author:** ![Limmin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f04885/32.png) [@Limmin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Limmin)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2021, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/93 "2021-11-30T15:15:05Z")
> [@Kent\_Clark](#): > > Neither one of them lived in Chicago, or knew the other one was in town. Actually something like this _almost_ happened to me. I live in West Lafayette, IN and for some reason I was driving around the University of Illinois campus at C-U, having visited a somewhat nearby county park earlier that day. Just a random trip across the border, about 50 miles from home. (Yeah, there’s not much to do in WL.) I found out a couple of days later that my best friend and his wife, who live way across Illinois, close to St. Louis, had been _at the same UI campus on the same day_. She had been looking up some research materials (she’s a professor) and he was along for the ride. Neither party was aware of the intentions or movements of the other, so we missed a reunion. ---
**Author:** ![commasense](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/commasense/32/3017_2.png) [@commasense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/commasense)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2021, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/94 "2021-11-30T18:33:19Z")
I once looked up at the changeable marquee-like sign of a bank (with which I had no connection whatsoever) to see the message, “Happy Birthday Commasense [i.e., my real first and last name], April 14,” which is not my birthday. I had no idea that I had a namesake living within a few miles of me. Later, once Facebook was available, I found that there are dozens of us, all unrelated to me, except for a man in Canada with the same first, middle, and last name, who is my second cousin once removed. We had not previously known of each other’s existence. ---
**Author:** ![Treppenwitz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/treppenwitz/32/3445_2.png) [@Treppenwitz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Treppenwitz)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2021, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/95 "2021-12-04T19:38:30Z")
Two caveats here: (1) I have no idea how well this might be known in the US (but it amazed me); (2) this British person is about to explain stuff about US sports, and I apologize in advance for any gaffes I may make. I mentioned in passing to Trep jr today that almost-never-seen score in football, the [one point safety](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safety_(gridiron_football_score)#Conversion_safeties_(one-point_safeties)). That got me wondering if there was video on YouTube of such a score. There is. It has happened twice in NCAA Division 1 football - a November 26, 2004, game in which Texas scored against Texas A&M, and the 2013 Fiesta Bowl in which Oregon scored against Kansas State, and both scores are on YouTube. The coincidence? Both games were called by Brad Nessler. Here’s video of lightning striking Brad for the second time, and his disbelieving reaction. [![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/jp4TeP4rw0s/maxresdefault.jpg "1 point safety Oregon vs. Kansas State") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jp4TeP4rw0s) j ETA - so far as I can tell, this hasn’t come up on the boards before. ---
**Author:** ![aurora\_maire](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aurora_maire/32/328_2.png) [@aurora\_maire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aurora_maire)\ **Post date:** [December 5, 2021, 1:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/96 "2021-12-05T01:27:38Z")
Yesterday was a beautiful day - high in the 70s - and I wanted to get a bunch of errands run before it turns cold again for good. I was driving home and thinking “ok, all done, everything is fine”. I looked to my right and saw a big sign in front of a building that said “No Worries”. 😁 ---
**Author:** ![commasense](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/commasense/32/3017_2.png) [@commasense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/commasense)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2021, 1:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/97 "2021-12-09T13:20:11Z")
Thought of another one. Years ago, a new hire was coming to join our office, and security needed to know what kind of car he’d be in, to let him into the parking lot. I had no idea, and since he was already on his way (this was mid-80s, before cell phones were common), no way to find out. I told security that it was a blue Ford Focus, just to tell them something. He arrived in a blue Ford Focus. ---
**Author:** ![Q.Q.Switcheroo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/q.q.switcheroo/32/5713_2.png) [@Q.Q.Switcheroo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Q.Q.Switcheroo)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2021, 1:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/98 "2021-12-09T13:22:42Z")
Two famous American songwriters had nearly identical names: **Sammy Fain** and **Sammy Cahn**. Fain was born on July 17th, and Cahn was born on July 18th. ---
**Author:** ![Roger\_That](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/roger_that/32/8505_2.png) [@Roger\_That](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roger_That)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2021, 1:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/99 "2021-12-29T13:59:06Z")
My younger daughter went to a women’s college outside of Boston, and while visiting her there, I decided to get in touch with a woman I’d gone to grad school in Boston three decades earlier. Over dinner, it came out that she had a daughter who just graduated from the same women’s college my daughter was now attending. One of us said to the other one (I forget who began this conversation, but it doesn’t matter): “My daughter is really into printing.” #2 said: “Mine too.” #1 “Works in the old-fashioned printing shop the college has.” #2: “Yes, she does.” #1: “She got a fellowship in fact that the college has set up for students who were really into old-fashioned typesetting.” #2: “How in hell would you know that?” #1: “Know what? This is my daughter we’re talking about here.” #2: “Your daughter? We’re talking about MY daughter.” etc. Turns out that both girls were freaks about the same geeky subject at a college neither of their parents knew the other one attended before resuming contact, and held the same position, sequentially, among thousands of students at that college. (My daughter got the fellowship when her daughter graduated, and had heard her name being uttered all semester: “Mary liked to do this THIS way, but you may not want to follow Mary’s example…”) ---
**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2021, 4:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682/100 "2021-12-29T16:36:36Z")
> [@Roger\_That](#): > > Turns out that both girls were freaks about the same geeky subject at a college neither of their parents knew the other one attended before resuming contact, and held the same position, sequentially, among thousands of students at that college. (My daughter got the fellowship when her daughter graduated, and had heard her name being uttered all semester: “Mary liked to do this THIS way, but you may not want to follow Mary’s example…”) I once dated a nurse who had recently moved to town and worked for a company that had nurses visit people in their homes for health care. The place was toxic so she finally quit and got a job at a hospital. A few years later I dated another nurse who was new to town and worked for the same place (and eventually quit). We were talking about it and realized that she was the replacement (on the job) for the first nurse I dated. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682.md?page=4) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/amazing-but-trivial-coincidences/949682.md?page=6)