I can’t speak for the whole of england but IME Terry, Adrian, Jamie = male, Vivian = female (though I see someone disagrees, so I’m probably wrong.) Evelyn = male if I think of Evelyn Waugh, female otherwise.
Can I check - people really use these as female names?
BTW one no-one’s mentioned yet, but I think might be different - Sean (pronounced “Shawn”) is completely male.
You can name your child or yourself anything you like as long as it isn’t offensive, a trademark or a copyright, I think, so it’s only cultural conditioning that makes names boy’s or girl’s.
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Besides the already-mentioned Shirley Crabtree, there was Shirley Povich, a longtime Washington Post writer and the father of USA television personality Maury Povich. This page contains links to many articles written by, and about, Shirley.
quiltguy154: Not literally “Florence”, but Florenz Ziegfeld was the head of the Chicago Musical College and the father of a namesake son who became a showman of considerable renown. The younger Ziegfeld was nicknamed “Flo”.
I haven’t seen the name Kim on this list. I’ve known male and female Kims. And to the discussion of Andy , I’ve seen the variant Andie used for a girl (ie Andie MacDowell).
I’ve been reading through baby name books these days and have found a number of names in the boys section that I think of as girl names including Ocean and Cassidy.
The name Evelyn seems to be pronounced differently for a male versus female (at least to the best of my observation). The male pronounciation seems to be Eave-Lyn as in Evelyn Waugh. Whereas any female I have known with the name has been Ev-i-lyn
A few weeks ago I went to the Tate Britain gallery and looked with interest (although not 100% admiration) at the exhibition of sculptures by Lynn Chadwick.
“Hmm… some unusual stuff she’s done there,” I thought.
Imagine my surprise when, reading a newspaper article a couple of days ago, I discovered Lynn Chadwick was a bloke! Oops.
Another good example of this phenomenon is Beverley Goodway, a “glamour” photographer for Page 3 of The Sun newspaper, who retired recently. He was a man, too. (And a lucky one, some might say.)
famous(ish in some cases) Vivians:
Richards (cricketer)
Stanshall (professional eccentric)
Anderson & Busby (footballers)
Campbell (Def Leppard)…
Carol: Carol Reed the film producer (Third Man etc.) and King Carol.
I was reading the birth announcements once, and there was one in which both the father and mother were named Kim.
(I’ve known both female and male Kims)
Last year, I was reading [City of Joy](www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/ detail/-/0446355569?v=glance) by Dominique LaPierre. He mentions in the acknowledgements section that his wife is also named Dominique.
I am quite aware that my first name can be used for both males and females… I even had a male schoolmate who was a year higher than I was, that had both the same first and last names as I did.
Haven’t seen the name Dana on this list yet… there was a guy named Dana in one of my college classes. (plus of course the ex-Vancouver Canuck Dana Murzyn)
I also used to know two female Danas. One of them had a sister named Shannon, which can also be a male name… Mindy Tran’s accused killer had that name, if I rememver correctly. The other one had a sister named Lee, which we all know can be a male name. (in fact, one of my good male friends is named Lee)
In the United States, you can name your child anything, period. Many European states have rules on naming, but I’d be surprised if trademarks entered into it. Copyrights definitely would not enter into it, because you can’t copyright a word or phrase.
A good site for the origin of names is Baby Namer .
For example, per the site, the origin of Vivian is Vivianus, a male Latin name meaning “Lively.” Stacey comes from Eustachios, a Greek name meaning “Bountiful grapes.” Shirley was orginally a British aristocratic surname and came from scir leah, an Old English phrase meaning “Sunny glade.” Marion is probably derived from Myriam, originally a female Hebrew name which was adopted by Christians as a male name in reverence for the Virgin Mary, who was known by this name.
Many female names are derived from male names in the first place, by adding a “y”, “ette” “ine”, and so on. So it should be no surprise that male names that end similarly are eventually adopted as female names. Also, any made-up name that sounds “cute” tends to be given to girls.