# An "A List" celebrity sent me a friend request on Facebook this weekend.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [April 30, 2018, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355 "2018-04-30T15:57:59Z")\
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**Author:** ![Lamar\_Mundane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/85f322/32.png) [@Lamar\_Mundane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamar_Mundane)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/1 "2018-04-30T15:57:59Z")

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I can’t be certain that it is her or a Russian spy. I never asked her to friend me but the two or three times I have commented on her posts have elicited thumbs up. I just read her posts. I can see all of her personal posts right now. I’m a little freaked out.

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**Author:** ![RickJay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bb73d2/32.png) [@RickJay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RickJay)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 4:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/2 "2018-04-30T16:00:39Z")

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I was pretty happy when Dwayne “@therock” Johnson followed me on Twitter. Then I realize it was @TheRorck. Not as exciting.

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**Author:** ![Lamar\_Mundane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/85f322/32.png) [@Lamar\_Mundane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamar_Mundane)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 4:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/3 "2018-04-30T16:15:08Z")

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She has a fan site that I didn’t realize existed until this morning. But this is from her personal account. Tons of pictures - someone is great at photoshop or hacked her account or it’s real. (pictures are just everyday photos, nothing remotely sexual)

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**Author:** ![Ashtura](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ashtura/32/2963_2.png) [@Ashtura](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ashtura)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 4:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/4 "2018-04-30T16:18:14Z")

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Is there some reason you can’t say who it is?

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**Author:** ![Lamar\_Mundane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/85f322/32.png) [@Lamar\_Mundane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamar_Mundane)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/5 "2018-04-30T16:24:07Z")

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No. Just waiting for some more confirmation, I guess. Not sure how I’ll get it, though. Maybe she’ll send me her phone number.

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/6 "2018-04-30T16:25:30Z")

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She’s just trying to get into your pants.

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**Author:** ![Lamar\_Mundane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/85f322/32.png) [@Lamar\_Mundane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamar_Mundane)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 4:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/7 "2018-04-30T16:30:39Z")

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> [@kayaker](#):
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> She’s just trying to get into your pants.

That would take all of about three seconds (minus the plane fare to LA). She is single and about my age, though.

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/8 "2018-04-30T16:50:11Z")

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> [@kayaker](#):
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> She’s just trying to get into your pants.

I don’t think we wear the same size.

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 4:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/9 "2018-04-30T16:51:50Z")

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> [@Lamar\_Mundane](#):
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> That would take all of about three seconds (minus the plane fare to LA). She is single and about my age, though.

Don’t be _too_ easy!

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**Author:** ![Intergalactic\_Gladiator](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/intergalactic_gladiator/32/112_2.png) [@Intergalactic\_Gladiator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Intergalactic_Gladiator)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/10 "2018-04-30T19:07:00Z")

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I have two celebrity-types on my friends list in Facebook. Fred Hembeck accepted my friendship several years back, I’m not sure why, but he’s pretty chill on Facebook and he mostly shows and sells prints of his work. He has sent me birthday messages though, which I think is pretty neat. I’ve mentioned to him a few times that I really dig his work and love the way he does knees.

The other celebrity-type is Kevin Matthews, who was a Chicago radio personality during the 80s and 90s. I assume he accepted my friend request because he’s an idiot.

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**Author:** ![JackieLikesVariety](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackielikesvariety/32/296_2.png) [@JackieLikesVariety](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JackieLikesVariety)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/11 "2018-04-30T19:09:39Z")

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> [@Ashtura](#):
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> Is there some reason you can’t say who it is?

to drive us crazy? :dubious: in case we say she is on the B list? 😛

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**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/12 "2018-04-30T19:12:44Z")

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Come on, just admit it. It’s Barbara Streisand, right?

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**Author:** ![Bijou\_Drains](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bijou_drains/32/2814_2.png) [@Bijou\_Drains](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bijou_Drains)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 7:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/13 "2018-04-30T19:23:18Z")

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> [@John\_Mace](#):
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> Come on, just admit it. It’s Barbara Streisand, right?

she married James Brolin in 1998 🙂

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**Author:** ![MovieMogul](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f08c70/32.png) [@MovieMogul](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MovieMogul)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/14 "2018-04-30T19:31:04Z")

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Celebrities who follow me (for some inexplicable but wonderful reason) on Twitter include Ron Perlman, Illeana Douglas, Ava DuVernay, and David Caruso (all confirmed accounts).

The funny thing about that last one is I’ve never followed him, and still don’t. But there he’s been for the last several years, keeping an eye on me!

Closest thing to a celebrity “friend” on Facebook (outside film critics and documentary directors) is a super wonderful woman who’s a regular cast member on a network TV series procedural drama.

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**Author:** ![That\_Don\_Guy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/that_don_guy/32/538_2.png) [@That\_Don\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/That_Don_Guy)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 7:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/15 "2018-04-30T19:32:16Z")

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> [@Lamar\_Mundane](#):
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> She has a fan site that I didn’t realize existed until this morning. But this is from her personal account. Tons of pictures - someone is great at photoshop or hacked her account or it’s real. (pictures are just everyday photos, nothing remotely sexual)

It “could” be a fake site, with the photos copied from the celebrity’s Twitter feed.

Then again, maybe it’s somebody who believes in, “You can’t have enough publicity.” Can you access the celebrity’s home page and see how many friends she has?

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**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/16 "2018-04-30T19:34:35Z")

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> [@Bijou\_Drains](#):
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> she married James Brolin in 1998 🙂

Hollywood actors/actresses never cheat? 🆒

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**Author:** ![Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hilarity_n.suze/32/6223_2.png) [@Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hilarity_N.Suze)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/17 "2018-04-30T19:37:09Z")

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Does her name start with a K?

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/18 "2018-04-30T19:38:49Z")

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> [@John\_Mace](#):
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> Hollywood actors/actresses never cheat? 🆒

They do, but take my word for it, you don’t want to go where Josh Brolin has been.

I’ll say no more.

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**Author:** ![suranyi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@suranyi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/suranyi)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 8:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/19 "2018-04-30T20:09:07Z")

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Best I’ve got as Facebook friends are some local politicians. Mayors and such.

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**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2018, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-a-list-celebrity-sent-me-a-friend-request-on-facebook-this-weekend/813355/20 "2018-04-30T20:37:54Z")

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I get form emails from Diane Feinstein every few months. There’s even a convenient link to donate to the DNC or her re-election campaign!

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