# an Au Revoir

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 2, 2002, 3:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023 "2002-08-02T15:16:33Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Bad\_News\_Baboon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5fc32e/32.png) [@Bad\_News\_Baboon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bad_News_Baboon)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 3:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/1 "2002-08-02T15:16:33Z")

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To my pals here on the Dope,

I wanted to Thank You all for the fun times here on the Dope.  
I have learned a lot and a few of you have become genuine pals.

But I met one here who has not made this board very fun for me.  
I am simply tired of the hassle of dealing with it.  
I have tried to be friends, but I have found that it is simply not possible.

Mods:  
I am really sorry for all the trouble.  
You guys have way more than enough to do.  
I don’t need to be adding babysitting on top of your thankless jobs.  
I don’t mean for this to be one of those infamous Dope ‘suicide’ notes.

I have had a lot of family issues come up as of late and this proves to be the proverbial straw that broke the Baboon’s back.  
This and the fact that following an arguement with said person, my website is mysteriously hacked.

I need to disconnect from the net for a while.

I felt I owe it to my pals here to not simply vanish without a trace.

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**Author:** ![screech-owl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/82dd89/32.png) [@screech-owl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/screech-owl)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 3:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/2 "2002-08-02T15:21:23Z")

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Wow. I’ve enjoy reading your posts. I wish things would have worked out for you to stay, but thank you for taking the high road and not causing an undue mess.

Would liek to see you back at some time. Thanks for the fun, and I, for one, will miss you.

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**Author:** ![Max\_Carnage](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/max_carnage/32/12775_2.png) [@Max\_Carnage](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Max_Carnage)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/3 "2002-08-02T15:23:12Z")

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☹ I really hate to hear this. I’ve enjoyed reading your posts in the short time I’ve been a member and your absence will definitely be noticed.

Your beautiful picture will always hold a place of honor on the picture page, and I eagerly await the day when you come back to us.

Please find some way to keep in touch from time to time to let us know how you are.

Bye, **Baboon** , I hardly knew ya.

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**Author:** ![alice\_in\_wonderland](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alice_in_wonderland/32/176_2.png) [@alice\_in\_wonderland](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alice_in_wonderland)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 3:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/4 "2002-08-02T15:24:42Z")

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☹

I hope things work themselves out for you.

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**Author:** ![Gorgon\_Heap](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f475e1/32.png) [@Gorgon\_Heap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gorgon_Heap)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 3:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/5 "2002-08-02T15:37:04Z")

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Ditto. I always liked your style. Good luck and don’t forget about us.

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**Author:** ![Rue\_DeDay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/41988e/32.png) [@Rue\_DeDay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rue_DeDay)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/6 "2002-08-02T15:57:23Z")

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'Bye **Babs**. Hope the family stuff works out for you. Come back sometime, when it’s better for you?

I’ll miss you.  
-Rue.

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**Author:** ![Munch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/munch/32/5281_2.png) [@Munch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Munch)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 4:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/7 "2002-08-02T16:11:50Z")

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Sorry. Unacceptable. You had me at “Have you labelled your labelmaker?” and I haven’t looked back since. I wasn’t even the one who owned a labelmaker, but from that moment I knew two things:

1. I really wanted a labelmaker so’s I could label it; and
2. Bad News Baboon makes my rainy days bright.

I don’t know your history with whatever poster you have a problem with, and I haven’t experienced such a problem myself on the boards, but there are ways to deal with that in your settings. I for one hope you reconsider.

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**Author:** ![purrplebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/90ced4/32.png) [@purrplebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purrplebear)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/8 "2002-08-02T16:28:31Z")

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I’m sorry to see this happen to such a wonderful person. I haven’t even gotten to meet you yet, though I’ve been to some DFW dopefests. Hopefully, you’ll keep in touch with **Zy** or one of the other dopers in the area, and still show up at the occasional dopefest.

Take care. I’ll miss you and your posts. I commend you for taking the high road on this. Hope to meet you sometime.

purrplebear, slightly blue at the thought of the SDMB without **Babs** in it.

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**Author:** ![pezpunk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@pezpunk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pezpunk)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 5:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/9 "2002-08-02T17:01:10Z")

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☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹ ☹  
This is the saddest post I have seen in a long long while. The poster that is bothering you in a jackass.

Don’t lose touch ☹

[sub]the last statement was directed at BNB, not the jackass[/sub]

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**Author:** ![mouthbreather](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a698b9/32.png) [@mouthbreather](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mouthbreather)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/10 "2002-08-02T19:09:47Z")

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"The poster that is bothering you is a jackass. "

I’ll second that. :mad:

Hope this doesnt mean you’re off of AIM, too. Hit me up and let me know how things are going sometime .

Good luck and come back at some point, please. ☹

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**Author:** ![Jorel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f19dbf/32.png) [@Jorel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jorel)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/11 "2002-08-02T20:52:24Z")

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I’m sorry to hear you’re leaving BNB…I enjoy reading your posts.

I hope you come back, and that the family problems work themselves out.

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**Author:** ![MannyL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba8739/32.png) [@MannyL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MannyL)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/12 "2002-08-02T21:18:01Z")

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BNB if I may make a suggestion (if you are still around to read this) perhaps the mods may allow you to retire this SN and male a new one as sort of a witness protectio0n plan. You would have to disavow all knowledge of your old identity and just be your new person from now on.

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**Author:** ![rocking\_chair](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rocking_chair/32/2918_2.png) [@rocking\_chair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rocking_chair)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 9:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/13 "2002-08-02T21:47:50Z")

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i’m sorry to hear this. i enjoyed your posts.

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**Author:** ![Ringo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/779978/32.png) [@Ringo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ringo)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 9:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/14 "2002-08-02T21:50:09Z")

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This is bad news, **Babs**. I hope things improve for you.

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**Author:** ![Ice\_Wolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/dfb087/32.png) [@Ice\_Wolf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ice_Wolf)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/15 "2002-08-02T21:54:33Z")

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Sorry to hear the news, **Bad News Baboon**. I hope your life situation improves – and maybe, sometime later, you’ll come back. Please?

Oh, and yes. Your harrasser is a jackass.

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**Author:** ![Forbin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5e9695/32.png) [@Forbin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Forbin)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 11:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/16 "2002-08-02T23:15:07Z")

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I think it’s bad news. I’m sorry somebody is ruining your enjoyment of the boards.  
I’ll miss you.  
Bye.

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**Author:** ![Siege](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dbc845/32.png) [@Siege](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siege)\
**Post date:** [August 2, 2002, 11:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/17 "2002-08-02T23:31:37Z")

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Just one more person who’s sorry to see you go, especially because of the reason you’re leaving. I’m going to be doing prep work to avoid family issues coming up this weekend, so I understand your need to see to them, but I do hope you’ll come back some day.

Take care of yourself,  
CJ

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**Author:** ![Robot\_Arm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/robot_arm/32/18280_2.png) [@Robot\_Arm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Robot_Arm)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2002, 12:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/18 "2002-08-03T00:09:20Z")

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Well, damn, you’re going to leave a big hole here, you know. We’re losing a poster with an absurdist streak and the cutest peekaboo 'do since Veronica Lake, people like that don’t register every day.

[sub]Hell, the cutest peekaboo 'do **including** Veronica Lake.[/sub]

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**Author:** ![Flamsterette\_X](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/41988e/32.png) [@Flamsterette\_X](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flamsterette_X)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2002, 2:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/19 "2002-08-03T02:20:17Z")

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Sorry to hear the news, **BNB**. It’s always a sad thing when this happens. I’ll miss you and your posts, and hope that you get your family issues and such resolved, and maybe you can come back.

[size=1]I really hope she’s not referring to me! :eek:[size]

F\_X

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**Author:** ![Rockford](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ac8455/32.png) [@Rockford](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rockford)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2002, 5:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-au-revoir/122023/20 "2002-08-03T05:06:57Z")

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Sorry to see you go, BNB. I read the boards a lot even if I don’t post much myself, and I’ve always found you to be an upstanding poster. ☹

\*“What we call the beginning is often the end  
And to make an end is to make a beginning  
The end is where we start from.”  
—T. S. Eliot \*

Take care and good luck. 😉

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