# An early Mothers' Day tribute

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-early-mothers-day-tribute/62294>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [April 17, 2001, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-early-mothers-day-tribute/62294 "2001-04-17T14:51:48Z")\
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**Author:** ![Vestal\_Blue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/5e9695/32.png) [@Vestal\_Blue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Vestal_Blue)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2001, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-early-mothers-day-tribute/62294/1 "2001-04-17T14:51:48Z")

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Just thought I’d pass this along…

This is for all the mothers who froze their buns  
off on metal bleachers at football games Friday  
night instead of watching from cars, so that when  
their kids asked, “Did you see me?” they could  
say, “Of course, I wouldn’t have missed it for  
the world,” and mean it.  
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This is for all the mothers who have sat up all  
night with sick toddlers in their arms, wiping up  
barf laced with Oscar Mayer wieners and cherry  
Kool-Aid saying, “It’s OK honey, Mommy’s here.”  
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This is for all the mothers of Kosovo who fled in  
the night and can’t find their children. This is  
for the mothers who gave birth to babies they’ll  
never see. And the mothers who took those babies  
and gave them homes. For all the mothers of the  
victims of the Colorado shooting, and the mothers  
of the murderers. For the mothers of the  
survivors, and the mothers who sat in front  
of their TVs in horror, hugging their child who  
just came home from school, safely.  
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For all the mothers who run carpools and make  
cookies and sew Halloween costumes. And all the  
mothers who DON’T.  
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What makes a good Mother anyway? Is it patience?  
Compassion? Broad hips? The ability to nurse a  
baby, cook dinner, and sew a button on a shirt,  
all at the same time? Or is it heart? Is it the  
ache you feel when you watch your son or daughter  
disappear down the street, walking to school  
alone for the very first time? The jolt that  
takes you from sleep to dread, from bed to crib  
at 2 a.m. to put your hand on the back of a  
sleeping baby? The need to flee from wherever  
you are and hug your child when you hear news of  
a school shooting, a fire, a car accident, a baby dying?  
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So this is for all the mothers who sat down with  
their children and explained all about making  
babies. And for all the mothers who wanted to but  
just couldn’t.  
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This is for reading “Goodnight, Moon” twice a  
night for a year. And then reading it again.  
“Just one more time.” This is for all the  
mothers Who yell at their kids in the grocery  
store and swat them in despair and stomp their  
feet like a tired 2-year old who wants ice cream  
before dinner.  
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This is for all the mothers who taught their  
children to tie their shoelaces before they  
started school.And for all the mothers who opted  
for Velcro instead.  
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For all the mothers who bite their lips sometimes  
until they bleed when their 14 year olds dye  
their hair green. Who lock themselves in the  
bathroom when babies keep crying and won’t stop.  
This is for all the mothers who show up at work  
with spit-up in their hair and milk stains on  
their blouses and diapers in their purse.  
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This is for all the mothers who teach their sons  
to cook and their daughters to sink a jump shot.  
This is for all mothers whose heads turn  
automatically when a little voice calls “Mom?”  
in a crowd, even though they know their own  
offspring are at home.  
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This is for mothers who put pinwheels and teddy  
bears on their children’s graves. This is for  
mothers whose children have gone astray, who  
can’t find the words to reach them. This is for  
all the mothers who sent their sons to school  
with stomach aches, assuring them they’d be just  
FINE once they got there, only to get calls from  
the school nurse an hour later asking them to  
please pick them up, Right away.  
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This is for young mothers stumbling through  
diaper changes and sleep deprivation. And mature  
mothers learning to let go.For working mothers  
and stay-at-home mothers. Single mothers and  
married mothers. Mothers with money, mothers  
without.  
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This is for you all. So hang in there.  
Please pass along to all the moms in your life.  
“Home is what catches you when you fall - and we all fall.”  
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HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY TO ALL OF YOU!

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**Author:** ![purrplebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/90ced4/32.png) [@purrplebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purrplebear)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2001, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-early-mothers-day-tribute/62294/2 "2001-04-17T15:17:55Z")

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\<speechless, very shiny eyes, purplebear has a lump in her throat too big to get words around, so she just hugs her dear friend silently\>

{{{{{{{{{{VB}}}}}}}}}}  
{{{{{{{{{{all Moms everywhere}}}}}}}}}}

[sup]_Miss you, Mom_[/sup]

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**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2001, 4:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-early-mothers-day-tribute/62294/3 "2001-04-17T16:15:52Z")

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This mother, who is wiping a tear away, thanks you.

I’m going to go call my mother now.

Thanks, **VB**.

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**Author:** ![Simetra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Simetra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Simetra)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2001, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-early-mothers-day-tribute/62294/4 "2001-04-17T17:45:46Z")

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It is a bit early, but thank you **VB**.

Just thought I’d add a song that I remember that fits well:

**Faith of Our Mothers**

\*Faith of our mothers, living still  
In cradle song and bedtime prayer;  
In nursery lore and fireside love,  
Thy presence still pervades the air:  
Faith of our mothers, living faith!  
We will be true to thee to death.

Faith of our mothers, loving faith,  
Fount of our childhood’s trust and grace,  
Oh, may thy consercration prove  
Source of a finer, nobler race:  
Faith of our mothers, living faith,  
We will be true to thee till death.

Faith of our mothers, guiding faith,  
For youthful longing, youthful doubt,  
How blurred our vision, blind our way,  
Thy providential care without:  
Faith of our mothers, guiding faith,  
We will be true to thee till death.\*  
I love my mama. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Simetra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Simetra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Simetra)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2001, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-early-mothers-day-tribute/62294/5 "2001-04-17T17:50:48Z")

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It is a bit early, but thank you **VB**.

Just thought I’d add a song that I remember that fits well:

**Faith of Our Mothers**

\*Faith of our mothers, living still  
In cradle song and bedtime prayer;  
In nursery lore and fireside love,  
Thy presence still pervades the air:  
Faith of our mothers, living faith!  
We will be true to thee to death.

Faith of our mothers, loving faith,  
Fount of our childhood’s trust and grace,  
Oh, may thy consercration prove  
Source of a finer, nobler race:  
Faith of our mothers, living faith,  
We will be true to thee till death.

Faith of our mothers, guiding faith,  
For youthful longing, youthful doubt,  
How blurred our vision, blind our way,  
Thy providential care without:  
Faith of our mothers, guiding faith,  
We will be true to thee till death.\*  
I love my mama. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Girlbysea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Girlbysea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Girlbysea)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2001, 10:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/an-early-mothers-day-tribute/62294/6 "2001-04-17T22:41:04Z")

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PB, pass the tissue… VB, that was beautiful. I thank you for the sweet words. I hope on Father’s Day you receive the same honor. You deserve it my friend…
