# Another Dad is here freaking out!!!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-dad-is-here-freaking-out/451434>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [June 2, 2008, 4:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-dad-is-here-freaking-out/451434 "2008-06-02T04:02:24Z")\
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**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2008, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-dad-is-here-freaking-out/451434/41 "2008-06-05T16:32:36Z")

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Not one person has slandered the girl or called her a slut. My concern would be that a 17-year-old boy would not appreciate the difficulty and vulnerability of her circumstances, not that he would be morally tainted.

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**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2008, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-dad-is-here-freaking-out/451434/42 "2008-06-05T16:37:13Z")

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[QUOTE=Diogenes the Cynic]  
Or maybe it should be phrased that he shouldn’t _treat_ her as a slut or go into something like this looking only for sex (and for a 17-year-old that can be a tricky thing. A lot of young guys imagine they’re in love with the first girl they sleep with). I think it needs to be impressed on the kid that this is a _family_ he’s getting involved with, not just a chick who might put out, and he needs to respect that.  
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Yes, that. Thanks!

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Fight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Cat\_Fight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Fight)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2008, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-dad-is-here-freaking-out/451434/43 "2008-06-05T16:46:01Z")

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[QUOTE=Diogenes the Cynic]  
Or maybe it should be phrased that he shouldn’t _treat_ her as a slut or go into something like this looking only for sex (and for a 17-year-old that can be a tricky thing. A lot of young guys imagine they’re in love with the first girl they sleep with). I think it needs to be impressed on the kid that this is a _family_ he’s getting involved with, not just a chick who might put out, and he needs to respect that.  
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Good point.

Also, if the boy’s sexually active, there’s always the chance he’s impregnated a few teenage girls himself.

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