[QUOTE=Shodan]
But don’t you understand? He yelled at her over the phone!
Everybody knows that when this happens, it is a sign that this is the best possible deal available, and that the person you are dealing with is guaranteeing that you will never lose money no matter what. I think it says somewhere that you are legally obligated to borrow money from anyone who raises his voice to you.
Come on - that’s just common sense.

Regards,
Shodan
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I don’t know any real specifics about her situation. But I imagine it is something like this:
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She enters into a real estate contract with the seller of the home (or probably a real estate company.)
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This real estate contract requires her to put $20,000 down as an “earnest money” deposit. This isn’t uncommon, because the house is now “off the market” if her and her husband end up not buying then the seller is out weeks-to-months of time he could have been offering the house to other buyers. A $20,000 deposit would have been somewhat outrageous in the past, but in during the housing boom in areas that were particularly “afflicted” with rapidly rising home prices, it wouldn’t be out of the ordinary.
Either way, Shayna and her husband went into this contract knowing three things about this deposit that:
- It was nonrefundable
- They didn’t yet have financing for the home
- If they didn’t get financing by some date specified in the contract, they could very likely be out their earnest money deposit as they would be in violation of the real estate contract they sold
Now, then the lending company comes into play. They give Shayna terms she isn’t happy with. She either looks for other lenders to get better terms or she signs on with this lender, she signed on with this lender. Come to the closing date on the real estate contract she and her husband signed, and the lending company explains that she owes $7,000 in fees she was unaware of, this leads to two possibilities:
- These fees were never mentioned anywhere in any of the paperwork she signed with the lender.
- These fees were somewhere in the paperwork she signed with the lender
If number 1 is the case, then she had legal recourse, if number 2, shame on her. Anyone who has taken out a large loan knows there is paperwork to be signed, this is essentially you promising to pay the loans under X terms, and then further information about what the lender can and cannot do. Lenders can’t just arbitrarily say, “oh yeah, we’re charging you a $7,000 fee.”
There is one more option, and that was she hadn’t actually finalized any of her agreements with the lender until the closing date, and thus hadn’t seen all of the details of the loan until that point.
If that is the case, shame on her. She should have had her financing under wraps long before then and should have known all the details of her financing by then, including the terms, any fees and et cetera. If the lender was dragging its feet, you go to another lender.