# Another IndyDopeFest, DAMMIT!!!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [June 10, 2003, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970 "2003-06-10T21:38:37Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![papergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aca169/32.png) [@papergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/papergirl)\
**Post date:** [July 1, 2003, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/21 "2003-07-01T23:00:09Z")

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July 19…July 19…

Lemme talk to Todd and see what’s what that weekend. We both have to work early the next morning, so I guess the time factor will come into play.

Do we have a particular time in mind yet?

It sounds great so far!

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2003, 1:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/22 "2003-07-02T01:25:21Z")

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I’m thinking later afternoon and on into the night. Mingle and chat for a while, then eat and party down!!

Sorry **Munch** - my only single friend is hardly nubile - unless you’re using the more Latin definition (big, poofy, and lumpy like a cloud).

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2003, 2:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/23 "2003-07-07T14:03:50Z")

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shameless bump …

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**Author:** ![VunderBob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/839c29/32.png) [@VunderBob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VunderBob)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2003, 2:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/24 "2003-07-07T14:11:59Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Avarie537 \*  
> \*\*Ok - four days later …
> 
> What shall we do for food? As I said, I have no problem doing the planning, purchasing, and preparing (so long as y’all will pitch in a couple of bucks) of the food. I’m thinking we should stick to pretty basic grillin’ stuff. Chicken, burgers, brats, hot dogs (if someone insists) with potato salad, slaw, baked beans, corn, salad, etc. If you have any special requests, let me know.
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If it’s OK with you, I’d rather bring something to eat than require you to do it all. I realize people with a long drive can’t do that, but I’m willing to help relieve the burden.

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**Author:** ![CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crankyasanoldman/32/11670_2.png) [@CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrankyAsAnOldMan)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2003, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/25 "2003-07-07T14:23:09Z")

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Hmmm. I just got my IKEA trip bumped from next weekend to the same weekend you are talking about. So I’m iffy.

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2003, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/26 "2003-07-07T15:00:32Z")

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**vunderbob** , please realize that I _like_ doing this kind of thing, so don’t feel like you’re “requiring” anything of me. So help me God, I may be out of the restaurant business forever, but I have always enjoyed the planning and preparation of gatherings. I’m sure glad to get some help in the form of purchasing, preparation, or any way you feel comfortable, though.

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**Author:** ![VunderBob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/839c29/32.png) [@VunderBob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VunderBob)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2003, 3:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/27 "2003-07-07T15:06:52Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Avarie537 \*  
> \*\ ***vunderbob** , please realize that I _like_ doing this kind of thing, so don’t feel like you’re “requiring” anything of me. So help me God, I may be out of the restaurant business forever, but I have always enjoyed the planning and preparation of gatherings. I’m sure glad to get some help in the form of purchasing, preparation, or any way you feel comfortable, though. \*\*

And I come from a rather cohesive family that always potlucks, so that’s a reflexive response in me. Still, I’m willing to help. Maybe the Vunderkind can mow your back 40…🙂

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2003, 3:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/28 "2003-07-07T15:31:40Z")

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Well, the grass is as TALL as the back 40, although it’s not quite that big. 🙂

What’s your specialty dish?

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 9, 2003, 2:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/29 "2003-07-09T14:58:44Z")

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Ok, let’s try a slight change of plans.

We bought a honking big boneless pork loin last night, so we’ll slice that bad boy up for chops.

I think **vunderbob** ’s idea of a pitch-in/potluck sounds good. What say you?

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 14, 2003, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/30 "2003-07-14T20:38:29Z")

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Alrighty then - Five days to go!

I would like to have a decently confirmed # of attendees as well as a definite list of those who will need to stay over due to inebriation.

So far, the tentative guest list is:  
**Me  
vunderbob** (and vunderfamily?)  
**Ruby** (and hubby?)  
**Munch  
traindrain  
AskNott** (and wife?)  
**JimSox5  
inertia  
Cranky  
bodypoet  
politzania** (and hubby?)  
**todd33rpm**

I also need to nail down whether I’m providing food or if you all will be pitching in.

If we’re doing a pitch-in, we’ll need a tentative menu so we don’t end up with three cole slaws and no potato salads! (PLEASE no jello with fruit in it!)

If not, I need to know who wants what (be as specific as you like - mustard vs. standard potato salad, etc.).

P.S. If you guys bail on me this weekend, I swear I’m gonna cry!! The only time I’ve managed to get more than 6 people to come over at one time was for my briday shower. Every other time, asshats bail on me. And y’all don’t wanna get pitted by ME!!!

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**Author:** ![Munch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/munch/32/5281_2.png) [@Munch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Munch)\
**Post date:** [July 14, 2003, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/31 "2003-07-14T20:51:09Z")

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I’m not showing up unless there’s a baby pool filled with jello and fruit.

I have a couple packets of Johnsonville brats in my freezer. I’ll bring those. And I’ve been making salsa like a madman lately, so I’ll bring a batch of that. I suppose I can be forced to bring chips as well to consume the salsa.

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 14, 2003, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/32 "2003-07-14T20:55:25Z")

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You bring the pool, **Munch** - maybe we can get some jello-wrestling action!!

Mmmmmmmmm … Johnsonville brats.

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**Author:** ![AskNott](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asknott/32/5790_2.png) [@AskNott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AskNott)\
**Post date:** [July 14, 2003, 11:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/33 "2003-07-14T23:52:29Z")

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I can bring Cherry Spoon Pie. It’s not really pie; it’s a confection made from cherry pie filling, pineapple, yellow cake mix, and butter.

What time of day will this gathering happen?

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2003, 12:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/34 "2003-07-15T00:52:32Z")

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Well, I figured it would be nice to gather in the late afternoon (like 3 or 4) for socialization before dinner (sixish?), and then y’all can stay as long as you like!

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**Author:** ![papergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aca169/32.png) [@papergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/papergirl)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2003, 1:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/35 "2003-07-15T01:36:43Z")

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Hey all…looks like **todd** and I will probably be staying home that weekend. Between work issues and kid-care issues, things are a little dicey.  
If it changes, we’ll just bring a whole buttload of various foodstuffs, so as not to disrupt the food plans, okay? 🙂  
I’ll keep you informed…

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2003, 1:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/36 "2003-07-15T01:49:37Z")

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Hey, no problem **bodypoet**. If you can’t make it, :(, but if you can :D.

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**Author:** ![Ruffian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/71e660/32.png) [@Ruffian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruffian)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2003, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/37 "2003-07-15T02:19:52Z")

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Aw man…well, this former Hoosier will be with you in spirit. Make a few jokes about Carmel for me in my honor (that’s where I grew up).

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**Author:** ![JimSox5](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b5a626/32.png) [@JimSox5](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JimSox5)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2003, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/38 "2003-07-15T02:52:46Z")

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I’m terribly sorry, **Avarie** , but I’m not going to be able to go. I don’t particularly want to go into detail, but know that it wasn’t my choice.

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**Author:** ![alohaaloha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@alohaaloha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alohaaloha)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2003, 4:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/39 "2003-07-15T04:39:45Z")

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Maybe we can convince the SDMB Gods to create an entirely new category devoted only to SDMB DopeFests/Reunions!

I am a Hoosier born and bred now living in “a land far, far, away” and always looking for an excuse to go back home BESIDES illness, death, etc! I have 2 sisters in Indy, one in Franklin, one in Bloomington and Mom and Pop in Spencer. I’m the only one that left the area.

Unfortunately, I just found this thread tonight…too little time for cheap airfare and I have plans this weekend. DANG!

Wish you all the best! Someone face the West and raise a Mai Tai (or glass of White Zin) for me!

Mahalo Nui Loa!

AlohaAloha

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2003, 5:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-indydopefest-dammit/180970/40 "2003-07-15T17:05:45Z")

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**Ruffian** , I love to make fun of Carmelites any time I can!!

\*_How many Carmel housewives does it take to change a light bulb? \*\* \* Two - one to make the martinis and the other to call the electrician!_😃

**JimSox5** - no problem. Shit happens. ☹ on your absence, though.

**AlohaAloha** , does it _have_ to be White Zin? I’m really in a Shiraz mood for the last three months - will that do? 😛

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