# Another Old Timer checking in

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [December 4, 2020, 8:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232 "2020-12-04T20:16:01Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![Munch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/munch/32/5281_2.png) [@Munch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Munch)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2020, 2:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/21 "2020-12-07T02:35:58Z")

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I recognize your name as well, but don’t remember any interactions. We likely crossed paths in a Tolkien thread, back when the board was obsessed with all things LOTR. Welcome back!

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**Author:** ![Tristan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tristan/32/18058_2.png) [@Tristan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tristan)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2020, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/22 "2020-12-07T17:40:25Z")

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Ah, the worst Dopefest possible.

I am not a particularly organized man. But I kept seeing threads on Dopefests, with folks posting about meeting other Dopers and having a great time hanging out, having a few drinks and all that jazz. Sounded amazing!

At the time, I lived in Sacramento, CA. And I knew there were a handful of us there. So, I got the great idea to start a thread about having a get together for Sacramento area Dopers, and posted about having one. A few folks seemed interested, including a few of the Bay Area Dopers.

The problem was, I was 1- a broke dude with no idea what I was doing and 2- I got as far as planning a get together at the Fox and Goose, and then just figured we would wing it from there.

Which is exactly what we did. There was a couple that came up from the Bay Area, there were a few of the Sacramento folks, myself and my wife.

But I had exactly zero planned for after the initial meet up. I figured we would have a meal and a few beverages, and see where the night took us as we all got to know each other.

I was (am?) a homebody by nature, so I had no idea what else we could go do.

It kinda fizzled out after that. I was mortified that I had so badly failed to figure out things to do, and everyone was very polite about it.

Still feel bad when I think about it.

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**Author:** ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2020, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/23 "2020-12-07T17:48:29Z")

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I feel like the Dopefests and Dope Events I went to went well. I hosted I think 4 Dopefests and went to two events that @twickster organized. This was all between 2005 & 2010.

I was suppose to go to another and didn’t take the highways and got lost trying to get to the Princeton area. So I guess that was my only bad one and that was on me. I need _exits_ dammit.

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**Author:** ![Tristan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tristan/32/18058_2.png) [@Tristan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tristan)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2020, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/24 "2020-12-07T17:55:20Z")

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Well yes, but …What Exit??

Sorry, coudln’t resist.

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**Author:** ![BippityBoppityBoo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bippityboppityboo/32/5745_2.png) [@BippityBoppityBoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BippityBoppityBoo)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2020, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/25 "2020-12-07T17:59:15Z")

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> [@Tristan](#):
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> Well yes, but …What Exit??

🤣 love it! Thanks for the Moanday morning laugh. Much needed and enjoyed.

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**Author:** ![pjd](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pjd/32/3009_2.png) [@pjd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pjd)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2020, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/26 "2020-12-07T20:17:43Z")

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What happened to snoopy ?

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**Author:** ![Tristan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tristan/32/18058_2.png) [@Tristan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tristan)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2020, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/27 "2020-12-07T21:11:47Z")

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I have no idea. Seemed like a nice enough guy, but I do understand that he had a bit of an issue with a guy that was at the fest, and who eventually got banned for something or other. Can’t remember the name though.

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**Author:** ![Cervaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cervaise/32/16693_2.png) [@Cervaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cervaise)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2020, 7:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/28 "2020-12-08T07:04:51Z")

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Hello.

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**Author:** ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2020, 5:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/29 "2020-12-08T17:10:31Z")

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Hey Tristan ! Welcome back. I surely remember your name.

The place has changed a wee bit. For one thing, Cecil retired. I mean, he’s not here any more. What I mean to say is, check the Archives on this. The other - much more painful and stunning news in a way - thing to share is that we lost our beloved TubaDiva this year. Quite suddenly, too. Please Search for her memorial threads if you remember her.

Otherwise? The tone seems a bit different and as mentioned above, some of the atrocious behaviors shared verbally are being toned down or straight-out disallowed. More the better, I say.

Here, have a hot cider with some Fireball. Sit back. Enjoy !!! 🙂

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2020, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/another-old-timer-checking-in/927232/30 "2020-12-09T18:22:25Z")

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Hey, Tristan! I remember you… I started hanging out here about when you did, but I lurked for a decade or so before actually getting involved.

When I think back to the Early Oughts here, I’m amazed at how similar things are. Liberal Smartypants Sci-Fi Dorks galore.

Some of the worst ‘Equal Opportunity Offenders’ have been recently banned, and this place is easier on my blood pressure now (thanks, Mods!).

I always start my day by checking The Pit, for the quality of the writing… fresh quips and fresh takes on current events (the Trump [Clusterf\*ck](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/the-trump-administration-a-clusterfuck-in-the-making-part-deux/911083/7429) thread is great for recreational schadenfreude, as is the thread for generic Republican malfeasance).

Come to think of it, I’ve changed more than this board. When I started, I was a Libertarian\* office peon who’d come to work an hour early to load The Dope on our one computer that was connected to a modem. Since then, I’ve helped run an ad agency, taught design at a tech college, and just last year retired… to hopefully make art.

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\*I got better.

 

(thanks to Liberal Smartypants Sci-Fi Dorks…)

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