The absolute, hands-down, unambigiously best thing you can do in your college classes: nod.
That’s right: nod. When the prof. is up there, everybody in the class sits there like statues and make no responses to what she is saying. If you nod at the prof., just nod your head up and down as if you are indicating, “Uh-huh, yep, makes sense, got it, keep it coming,” and the prof. will respond to that. In a few weeks, the prof. will be teaching the class to you, acknowledging the rest of the pupils more-or-less to look impartial. I’ve been on both sides of the lecture, and the difference is amazing.
I was probably a junior in college when I learned this, and I applied it and it made a world of difference. It doesn’t hurt to be an all-around active listener–provided you aren’t disrupting the class by saying stuff back to the prof. too much. (You can do that a little, but not much.) But you’re trying to take notes, understand the material, etc., and active listening can be a little difficult. So when they look at you, just bob your head up and down, even as you are writing. Don’t make it look pathalogical, but you want to send a clear and obvious signal to the prof. that you are receiving her message, and you are doing what you can to follow along.
Think about it. You’re standing up there looking at 30 stone-dead faces. Their expressions don’t even change when you ask a direct question! Now imagine there is one student who is acknowledging what you are saying, making eye contact when she can, but actively listening even when she is scribbling furiously in her notes. You have 29 zombies and one person telling you, “I’m following…yep…okay…makes sense…that’s it…keep it comin’…got it…got it…yep…I’m with 'ya…” and you can’t help but respond to that.
This makes a world of difference! I am so confident in this that I simply cannot stress it enough. There is no study aid, no pep pill, no reference aid, no computer program, and probably not a single campus service that will help you as much as this simple classroom strategy.
In the same vein, have a very expressive face. If something doesn’t make sense, reflect it in your face. If you have a sudden understanding, show it (and even make the it-all-makes-sense noise: “Aaahhhhh”. Or however it is spelled.)
Other little classroom strategies that make a world of difference:
[ul][li]Sit dead center in the front row. That one is hard if you’re the only one, but do it anyway. Always do it, unless it will be disruptive to your view because of the class layout. Not only does it look good, it eliminates a whole host of distractions since your entire field of vision is pretty much the prof.[/li][li]Since you’re up front anyway, chit-chat w/ the prof. before class. Not about school, but the weather, a James Bond movie, a joke, etc.[/li][li]Visit your prof. and/or grad. assistant at her office during office hours right off the bat. Just introduce yourself and make a little small talk. Visit frequently. [/li][li]If you have a question, don’t just sit there with your hand up waiting for the prof. to notice you. Just say, “Question!” If the prof. can take it then, she will, if she can’t, she will ask you to wait. Don’t say, “Um, excuse me,” or anything like that. Quick, one word, unambigious: “Question!”[/li][li]Ask questions and make comments, especially when the prof. poses a question to the class. If you don’t know the answer, shake your head and say, softly, “I don’t know.” Since you’re up front, the prof. will hear it, so you don’t have to do it disruptively, but you are letting her know that you are with her, that you are paying attention and following her, etc.[/li][li]When you ask a question and the prof. answers it, say, “Thank you.” After I started doing that I was suprised how shocked some profs. looked after being thanked for what may have been the first time ever.[/li][/ul]
Outside of the classroom: Start doing your reading & homework right away. It may be syllabus week, but the early start can make a difference.
And don’t skip class ever. Unless you are home by doctor’s orders, do not skip class. It’s not so much that missing classes affects your grades, it is that once you skip one class, it is easier to skip a second, and this is a slippery slope that will bite you in the ass.
When dealing w/ financial aid, the registrar’s office, or any any part of the university bureaucracy, always be nice. Even if Hitler came back to life and cannibalized your first born that morning, when you get to the window, smile and say hello, and ask how their day is going. Make it sincere. They can only do so much to help you, but not helping you can be very painful for you. An empathetic, “Looks like you’re having a pretty busy day today,” will really stand out.
Well, have I rambled too much? Good luck!