I’ve noticed over the years that if a man draws you a map to get somewhere, there’s about a 95% probability that North will be at the top. On the other hand, if a woman draws a map, there’s a 25% chance that North will be the major direction closest to the top.
I asked a woman once why she didn’t draw the map with North at the top, and she told me that “I draw it like you’re going.” I couldn’t understand what was the meaning of these words, until we went into this subject in more depth later. It turned out that she draws a map so that where you’re coming from is at the bottom and where you’re going to is at the top. I think this is very common in women’s maps.
This came up because she drew a map from my friend’s house to hers, which is South of his. My friend and I got in the car, pulled out the map, and stared at it for about 15 seconds of puzzlement. Then my friend rotated the page 180 degrees, and it was like both our brains found their secret decoder rings suddenly - “Ahhhhh…” She had drawn her house at the top of the page, and his at the bottom.
I recall once driving with my wife looking at the map. I had pointed out to her before we left where it was on the map that we were going. She knew what street we were on. I said "OK - Gaston street is coming up next, and I recall that we turn on it. Which way should I turn? After several seconds, she sheepishly said “I don’t know.” This kind of thing has happened several times. She can’t look at a map and figure out whether to turn left or right.