I am a 48 year old man who drinks a lot, and I’ve been drinking since I was a teenager, and yes, I have noticed this phenomenon, that wine gets ME drunk FASTER than anything else and seems to keep me drunk LONGER than anything else.
Why? I have no idea, but I have a few guesses.
I personally think it is an individual thing and varies from person to person. I think people like me absorb the alcohol in wine better than when it is in the form of vodka or whiskey or rum, etc. I think somehow the alcohol in wine passes into my bloodstream attached to something in the wine.
I have done lots of experimenting with this through the years, and time after time, I come to same conclusion-- wine works better for me. I’ve even timed it and found that wine makes me feel drunk 10 minutes faster than vodka. And it doesn’t wear off so fast.
Ultimately, it comes down to what you like and what is most affordable for you. I find that I can buy red wine fairly cheaply, and it provides me a lot of pleasure for relatively very little money. Carlo Rossi merlot is fine. I also like Livingston Cellars merlot, and even the big boxes of wine are fine. The boxed wine tends to last longer after being opened because less air gets to it.
I still keep hard liquors on hand for guests, and for making various mixed drinks like bloody marys, egg nog, and Irish coffee, etc., but for ordinary drunkeness, I just sip a glass of wine.
One thing I noticed is that with wine, I drink it by itself. I don’t add anything to it, and because it doesn’t burn my throat, I don’t drink any water when I am drinking wine, so it doesn’t get diluted like the hard liquors do. Another thing is that I don’t feel the need to eat when I am drinking wine. So, I don’t get the munchies and food doesn’t enter the picture and reduce the absorption of the alcohol until I am quite drunk already.
And one more thing. Wine does not cause me any hangovers. Rum and tequila cause me hangovers.