# Any of you people take it in the... **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [April 26, 2001, 11:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458 "2001-04-26T23:47:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![thinksnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thinksnow/32/2849_2.png) [@thinksnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thinksnow)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2001, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458/61 "2001-05-02T20:17:43Z")
This thread got me thinking, trying to remember exactly who I might have engaged in such activity with. Right now I can think of three women: one is my ex-fiancée, one is a friend and the third was a random woman I met in a bar on my birthday a few years ago.[list=1][li] **My ex:** we never actually got all the way there, just to the head a few times and then only a few inches on one occasion. We were always lubed and most often, she would be astride me, controlling the pace. I don’t know if it was because she was tiny, ~5’1" or so, or just couldn’t relax, or whether she just didn’t like it, but we never got full entry or even short strokes. Interesting side note: it was the only time we would have sex without condoms, which was nice.[_] **My friend:** we had gone to a Christmas party and had an altogether great time the night before. Being my normal randy self in the morning, we were spooning and after about twenty or so minutes of the playful stroking between her legs she adjusted and I slowly slid myself into her. She was very wet from the forplay and I wasn’t guiding, rather just pushing in slowly. Another twenty or so minutes of slow grinding sex and she looks over her shoulder at me with a smile and says “Well…that was deviant. If we ever do it that way again, I want to be on top.” I had no idea that I was taking her anally, so I don’t know what to tell you other than it felt great, but so had the sex the night before (both times, and also a few minutes later in the shower :D:eek::D) She told me she liked it on occasion, but reiterated that she liked to be on top, controlling things.[_] **Random girl:** we met at my friends Irish pub and hit it off. We did the whole sexual pyramid: head, vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, vaginal intercourse, head. It was a true random hook-up and it was pure, raw sex. It was not the gentle, caring, slow and deliberate insertion of my ex or my friend, it was hard-core ass-pounding and she was thrusting back onto me as hard as I was into her. That was little different from regular vaginal sex, actually, except for the mental part, which was exciting. [/list=1]I think, for me, anal sex is exciting because it’s not something I get to do very often (hell, sex is exciting for that reason! 🙂 ) It’s also exciting because it requires a much different technique, a slower, more deliberate stroke. I totally agree with the women that keeping the hands busy is a great addition here, from reach-arounds to cupping the breasts to dancing my fingers across her lips and chin. Similar to regular rear-entry, light biting, kissing and sucking on the neck and ears helps, too. But I digress…[/li] \ As for myself, I’ve been rimmed once and have had two women insert a finger in my anus during oral. The rimming was exquisite. The first girl to use her finger on me got a lot of jumpiness as I never really relaxed. The second woman, well, it was pretty mind-blowing. I went out and bought a string of beads later that week. [sub]Haven’t gotten to use them yet, though.[/sub] ---
**Author:** ![MikeG](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mikeg/32/4329_2.png) [@MikeG](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MikeG)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2001, 9:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458/62 "2001-05-02T21:02:38Z")
::must…stop…reading…:: Feh, I have only tried it once, for like 10 seconds and the ex wife swore never again… still looking for a new person in my life…maybe I should make this a criteria? 😉 Well, what do you expect from the guy who has only gotten head three times in his life? [sub]ok…2-1/2 times…damn…[/sub] ---
**Author:** ![tiny\_ham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tiny\_ham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiny_ham)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2001, 12:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458/63 "2001-05-03T00:31:29Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by heembo \* > It was a thought that crossed my mind, and it appears it should have remained there. I suppose I should run all of my thoughts through the “Sensitive Women of the Straight Dope Message Board Thought Approval Committee” before posting anything in the future. Looks like this is another area in life where I have fucked up by speaking my mind (and, for those of you who don’t already know this, I am NOT perfect). Heembo, could you do me a big favor and get off the cross? I can’t see the band. Nobody told you ever that you should run your thoughts by anyone OR that you should refrain from posting your opinion on any variety of topics. In fact, I’m sure that at least two of us said exactly the opposite. My words were “POST WHATEVER YOU WANT” The key is this: **BE PREPARED FOR DISSENTING OPINION**. I think there should be a line of savory, salty candy bars…but I know no one would agree with that. Does it mean I don’t suggest it? Hell no. I’m just ready for the backlash. Not having 100% of people agree with your speculation, or even more so, having them PROVE it’s wrong (regardless of whether you thought it was right or not) doesn’t mean we’re going to put you in the corner, it just means that you were off the mark. All of us have been off the mark at some point. So ease up. We understand. jarbaby ---
**Author:** ![jab1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ee7513/32.png) [@jab1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jab1)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2001, 2:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458/64 "2001-05-03T02:10:32Z")
I’m thinking of getting a tattoo on my butt that says “Exit Only.” Just for emergencies… ---
**Author:** ![thinksnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thinksnow/32/2849_2.png) [@thinksnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thinksnow)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2001, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458/65 "2001-05-03T02:24:22Z")
Sooooo **jab** , you’re not really planning on living up to your name, huh? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![heembo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f6c823/32.png) [@heembo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/heembo)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2001, 5:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458/66 "2001-05-03T17:13:55Z")
> [@](#): > > Heembo, could you do me a big favor and get off the cross? I can’t see the band. Jarbaby: What’s good for the goose, is good for the gander… Heembo ---
**Author:** ![tiny\_ham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tiny\_ham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiny_ham)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2001, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458/67 "2001-05-03T17:51:57Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by heembo \* > > > [@](#): > > > > Heembo, could you do me a big favor and get off the cross? I can’t see the band. > > Jarbaby: What’s good for the goose, is good for the gander… > > Heembo You’re right. I consider our argument over. Come over here and kiss me on the mouth…with tongue. 😃 jarbaby ---
**Author:** ![heembo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f6c823/32.png) [@heembo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/heembo)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2001, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458/68 "2001-05-03T19:03:06Z")
> [@](#): > > You’re right. I consider our argument over. > > Come over here and kiss me on the mouth…with tongue. > > jarbaby Jarbaby, if I weren’t engaged to be married, I would gladly take you up on that offer! 😃 Would you settle for a big hug and my unending adoration? [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-of-you-people-take-it-in-the/63458.md?page=3)