Okay, I’ve read the entire thread, and I’m not unaware of issues like identity theft. Can someone explain - as if I’m a very stupid child, or a very ancient little old lady - just why in hell I should share these objections to a messenger app?
Re-reading again, I’m left with mostly this:
… and I need someone to explain - clearly and without hyperbole or “OMG what if” scaremongering - why that’s a problem.
Okay, let’s say I’m roughly an average U.S. citoyen, and so perhaps I have phone contacts for:
… my family (some of whom might be psychopaths, I dunno) and my college buddies (who may or may not actually remember my face or name) and a few work colleagues (who might be up to some shady shit, but I wouldn’t know, we just sit near each other & bitch about the boss or occasionally coordinate happy hour or a game of croquet after work) and my pot hookup (let’s say I’m in a non-legal state) plus a couple gals from the knitting club, a few neighbors I met via NextDoor app, some rando who replied to a Craigslist ad that one time, my boyfriend, my other boyfriend, my ex-girlfriend (hey, ya never know ammirite) and my cousin’s roommate who wants to sell a car I’d be interested in buying.
So now this app has access to all their info as I’ve entered it into my contacts list. Perhaps I used their IRL names; perhaps I only know their party nickname: perhaps everyone is a variation of “Mrs. McBitchyFace123 Bad Dye Job.” (What, that’s not how you store your mother’s contact info?) Maybe my pot hookup is “WeedGuy CheapButCrappy” or maybe he’s “John Smith, Jr.” in my contact list. My neighbor could be stored as “Weird Fucko Shared Driveway” or he may also be “John Smith, Jr.” just because I know two people with the same name.
Now what? So I wanna use WhatsApp and I have to give them permission to access the info I stored on all those exes, neighbors, losers, family members, random semi-strangers, boyfriends, etc. What bad shit comes from that?