# Anyone Else Have This Happen in a Restaurant?

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 24, 2011, 4:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869 "2011-08-24T04:44:00Z")\
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**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8dc957/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 4:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/1 "2011-08-24T04:44:00Z")

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Today I went to a Golden Nugget for dinner. Golden Nugget is a restaurant chain for the budget minded.

I ordered my steak medium-rare. And the waitress had me sign the check that I had ordered it that way.

She was nice about it, but when I expressed puzzlement, and asked if this was something that the restaurant was doing to prevent people claiming they got salmonella or something, she concurred. She said she had just attended a sanitation certification seminar, and was quick to assure me that bacteria in meat is really only a concern with ground meat, which I knew about anyway.

But then she said something else. She said that some restaurants no longer will cook your steaks anything below medium.

I said nothing to this, but my inward reaction was something like 😕:eek::mad::rolleyes:

Is this the latest trend among the out-of-control health nazis? Or our suffocating lawsuit jammed legal system? Now, I have to sign for my steaks, and maybe in the future, medium rare will be a thing of the past?

What the fuck is going on?

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**Author:** ![Magiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/4491bb/32.png) [@Magiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Magiver)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/2 "2011-08-24T04:48:51Z")

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I blame it on global warming.

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**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 4:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/3 "2011-08-24T04:55:41Z")

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> [@Two\_Many\_Cats](#):
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> But then she said something else. She said that some restaurants no longer will cook your steaks anything below medium.

With hamburgers, yes, but I can’t remember ever seeing it with steak. ETA: The closest is seeing the opposite: a place that won’t cook steaks beyond medium. Darned if I could remember where it was I saw that.

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 5:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/4 "2011-08-24T05:02:33Z")

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> With hamburgers, yes, but I can’t remember ever seeing it with steak

This exactly.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 5:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/5 "2011-08-24T05:08:17Z")

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I’ve never heard of that, and it does sound like litigious over-reaction. Steaks are not the same as ground beef. If medium-rare becomes a thing of a past in restaurants, I’ll just be cooking them at home.

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**Author:** ![Lynn\_Bodoni](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e47c2d/32.png) [@Lynn\_Bodoni](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lynn_Bodoni)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 5:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/6 "2011-08-24T05:44:50Z")

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I’ve never had that happen in a restaurant. And I usually order my steaks rare or medium rare, the way they’re SUPPOSED to be eaten.

I have seen warnings on menus about undercooked hamburger and/or eggs. I’ve also heard of a restaurant that wouldn’t cook eggs as lightly as my brother-in-law likes them (he likes the whites a bit runny, as well as having the yolk completely liquid). And I’ve seen disclaimers on menus that if a diner wishes a well-done steak, that the restaurant will not guarantee flavor or tenderness. But I’ve never had to sign a waiver.

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**Author:** ![Alessan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alessan/32/465_2.png) [@Alessan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alessan)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 7:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/7 "2011-08-24T07:08:27Z")

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Personally, I’d never eat at a place that asks me to sign a waiver.

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**Author:** ![drbhoneydew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d78d45/32.png) [@drbhoneydew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drbhoneydew)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 8:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/8 "2011-08-24T08:20:36Z")

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> [@Alessan](#):
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> Personally, I’d never eat at a place that asks me to sign a waiver.

Me neither. All the nasty bacterial action on steaks is on the meat surface, hence the issues with ground meat - there’s a lot of surface. If you can’t sear it well enough to kill the blighters, even on rare, you’re doing something seriously wrong, either in the cooking or the storage.

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**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8dc957/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 9:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/9 "2011-08-24T09:17:33Z")

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> [@Alessan](#):
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> Personally, I’d never eat at a place that asks me to sign a waiver.

I’d say the same thing, but this place has pretty good food, and I’ve never gotten sick there. They have a bunch of signs on their walls about how long you can park or how many can sit at a table, which strikes me as unfriendly, but I’ve never actually seen these “rules” enforced.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 9:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/10 "2011-08-24T09:31:21Z")

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> [@Alessan](#):
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> Personally, I’d never eat at a place that asks me to sign a waiver.

_gets this mental image of getting her next shipment from TelePizza delivered by a lawyer_

I just had to share it. Now if someone can share the brain bleach, I’ll appreciate it.

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**Author:** ![ecseas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/35a633/32.png) [@ecseas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ecseas)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 9:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/11 "2011-08-24T09:53:41Z")

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I’ve heard of a lot of places who will only serve meant well done for safety reasons. It’s not because of their quality, but rather to cover their ass. I’d rather sign a waiver then have the restaurant dictate to me how I should eat my meat. A lot of restaurants will not let you have doggy bags these days either, for the same reason. ☹ They say " For you safety" but they really mean " We don’t want any reason to be sued."

bah!

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**Author:** ![Alessan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alessan/32/465_2.png) [@Alessan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alessan)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 10:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/12 "2011-08-24T10:01:01Z")

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What I say is “that’s their right” but what I really mean is “I’ll never eat there again”.

I don’t see what cause they have for complaint. No customers means no lawsuits.

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**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8dc957/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 10:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/13 "2011-08-24T10:11:50Z")

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> [@ecseas](#):
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> A lot of restaurants will not let you have doggy bags these days either, for the same reason. ☹ They say " For you safety" but they really mean " We don’t want any reason to be sued."
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> bah!

WHAT??? Doggy bags are a beloved American tradition!

“The first thing we do is kill all the lawyers.” Amen brother.

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**Author:** ![ecseas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/35a633/32.png) [@ecseas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ecseas)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 10:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/14 "2011-08-24T10:20:50Z")

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> [@Two\_Many\_Cats](#):
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> WHAT??? Doggy bags are a beloved American tradition!
> 
> “The first thing we do is kill all the lawyers.” Amen brother.

I’m not American. 😛

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21825_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 10:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/15 "2011-08-24T10:51:02Z")

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If my steak doesn’t moo when I poke it with my fork, it’s overdone. 😃 Not that it’s a huge issue for me - when I eat out, I prefer seafood to steak. Wait - does that mean waivers for sushi, too?

I’ve never had it happen, and I’d be suspicious of a place that did such a thing - I doubt that I’d patronize such an establishment.

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**Author:** ![Labrador\_Deceiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@Labrador\_Deceiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Labrador_Deceiver)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 11:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/16 "2011-08-24T11:48:22Z")

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> [@ecseas](#):
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> I’m not American. 😛

That was obvious to me, as I’ve never heard of the policies that are commonplace in your part of the world.

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**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 12:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/17 "2011-08-24T12:29:18Z")

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It’s a sign of the difference between a high-end restaurant and the bargain joints.

A bargain joint will only cook medium or well-done. A high-end restaurant will not cook any further than medium, a la [this menu](http://raystheclassics.com/Images/Dinner%20Menu%203-15-11.pdf) from a premium steak restaurant near me.

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**Author:** ![pbbth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f9ae1b/32.png) [@pbbth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pbbth)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 12:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/18 "2011-08-24T12:54:47Z")

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> [@DCnDC](#):
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> It’s a sign of the difference between a high-end restaurant and the bargain joints.
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> A bargain joint will only cook medium or well-done. A high-end restaurant will not cook any further than medium, a la [this menu](http://raystheclassics.com/Images/Dinner%20Menu%203-15-11.pdf) from a premium steak restaurant near me.

😕

Yes they will. They don’t recommend it and they say that there are some cuts that simply can’t be cooked beyond a certain point, but they absolutely do offer a well done steak. I’ve eaten there and they had no problem with cooking it well done.

> [@](#):
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> However, we do not recommend or guarantee temperatures above medium or “in-between” temperatures.  
> Any limitations on available temperatures for a particular size or cut are based  
> on the physical limitations of that specific cut.

I’ve actually eaten at a number of very high end restaurants across the country and ordered steak in all of them and never once have I been told that they couldn’t cook it to my specifications. I’ve had a couple of places butterfly a steak to get it cooked properly and that wasn’t a problem, but I’ve never run into anyone who _couldn’t_ cook a steak the way I like it.

As far as the waiver thing is concerned I’m sure the restaurant in question was either sued by someone who believed the undercooked meat made them sick or someone made such a fuss about disease at one point that they decided it would be better to have you sign that you ordered your steak a specific way to cover their ass in court. Not that it would matter anyway. If you can’t get your tubes tied even with a signed waiver before you have children because of fear of lawsuits I can’t imagine that a waiver signed at a steakhouse would make any difference in court.

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**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 12:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/19 "2011-08-24T12:55:55Z")

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> [@Two\_Many\_Cats](#):
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> Today I went to a Golden Nugget for dinner. \<snip\>

There’s your problem right there.

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**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 1:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/anyone-else-have-this-happen-in-a-restaurant/593869/20 "2011-08-24T13:01:15Z")

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I never have this problem with my vegetarian meals.

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