# Are males being led to the slaughter?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [January 14, 2015, 12:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771 "2015-01-14T00:41:04Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![jimbuff314](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c57346/32.png) [@jimbuff314](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jimbuff314)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 3:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/61 "2015-01-14T03:44:32Z")

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> [@GrumpyBunny](#):
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> I led fifteen men to the slaughter today. Told them it was a meeting.
> 
> MUA-hahahahahahahha! Our **cunning** plan is working!

(sp)?

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**Author:** ![buddy431](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6a8cbe/32.png) [@buddy431](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/buddy431)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 4:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/62 "2015-01-14T04:17:38Z")

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You know, I was ready to dismiss this like the rest of you, but then I realized that my girlfriend has been [feeding me a lot of grain](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feedlot) and hasn’t been letting me move around much. And she bought that [bolt gun](http://www.liveforfilms.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/No-Country-For-Old-Men.jpg) last fall. She claimed it was for her Halloween costume, but if that was the case I don’t think she needed to get a real one. Has anyone else experienced anything like this? I’m really beginning to get worried.

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**Author:** ![Kobal2](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kobal2/32/20_2.png) [@Kobal2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kobal2)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/63 "2015-01-14T04:26:03Z")

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> [@buddy431](#):
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> You know, I was ready to dismiss this like the rest of you, but then I realized that my girlfriend has been [feeding me a lot of grain](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feedlot) and hasn’t been letting me move around much. And she bought that [bolt gun](http://www.liveforfilms.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/No-Country-For-Old-Men.jpg) last fall. She claimed it was for her Halloween costume, but if that was the case I don’t think she needed to get a real one. Has anyone else experienced anything like this? I’m really beginning to get worried.

As long as she doesn’t also buy a [pet goat](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judas_goat), you should be OK.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 4:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/64 "2015-01-14T04:52:30Z")

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> [@Antinor01](#):
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> Those traits don’t say masculine to me. They say decent human being.

I was going to go with “drag queen,” but yours works, too.

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**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 4:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/65 "2015-01-14T04:57:41Z")

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> [@Smapti](#):
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> Sex is what you are born with.

And in the case of most MRA’s, it’s something they never encounter again.

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**Author:** ![susan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/susan/32/17537_2.png) [@susan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/susan)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 5:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/66 "2015-01-14T05:02:18Z")

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> [@](#):
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> Is this the part where we’re supposed to yell “SHAAANNNNE!!!”

Or “KHAAAAANNNNN!!!”

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 5:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/67 "2015-01-14T05:17:06Z")

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The qualities that make men masculine are identical to the qualities that make women feminine. All the rest is bullshit.

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**Author:** ![Trinopus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Trinopus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trinopus)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 5:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/68 "2015-01-14T05:20:04Z")

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Scratching, spitting, and laughing at fart jokes?

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**Author:** ![Jake\_Jones](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Jake\_Jones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake_Jones)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 5:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/69 "2015-01-14T05:31:52Z")

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It was difficult, but I watched this entire video. Everything about it is wrong. Everything in the text is wrong. For every question that started with “Who told you that you are…” my answer was nobody. Nobody ever told me any of that shit about myself. Every affirmation of what “I am” as a man (with the exception of father, which I’m not anyway) could be equally attributed to women. The implication that “I am” is that “They’re not” and that’s bullshit.

There is still inequality between genders. In general, men are still at an advantage in the workplace and women are still at an advantage when it comes to family rights, especially post-divorce financial and parental rights. Both sides can bring out their poster child examples and invoke anger. But this video?

This video is not only insulting to women, it’s insulting to men. To call it drivel would be kind. It’s malicious, divisive propaganda.

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**Author:** ![The\_Holdsworth\_Effect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/848f3c/32.png) [@The\_Holdsworth\_Effect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Holdsworth_Effect)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 5:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/70 "2015-01-14T05:33:00Z")

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Well, yes.

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**Author:** ![The\_Holdsworth\_Effect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/848f3c/32.png) [@The\_Holdsworth\_Effect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Holdsworth_Effect)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 5:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/71 "2015-01-14T05:50:19Z")

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> [@Trinopus](#):
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> Scratching, spitting, and laughing at fart jokes?

well, yes, some of us.

I’ve ZERO interest in watching the video. At my age, I enjoy people for what they are. I don’t poke too much into the details. (Unless they are seeing me in clinic:)- and then, well, it’s clinical.)

The OP wouldn’t last long in my (extended) household- both my SILs and my daughters would set him straight. I’m immensely proud of how they handle these issues. They are all cis gender, which makes life a bit easier, as does being straight, and get their jobs done with none of this nonsense. I have children of my heart (versus of my body) who are trans, or gay, or undecided, and who also have this figured out. Honor. Truth. Faith. Constancy. Strength. Respect. Those qualities have little to do with the dingledangles, or lack thereof. There has been no slaughter, or emasculation.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 6:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/72 "2015-01-14T06:09:41Z")

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> [@The\_Second\_Stone](#):
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> These are deep thoughts. Deep, deep thoughts. Very deep. Perhaps being more polite will destroy civilization. Then again, maybe not. Hmmm. Deep.

Unreachably so?

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**Author:** ![Deeg](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/deeg/32/2955_2.png) [@Deeg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Deeg)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 6:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/73 "2015-01-14T06:35:22Z")

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> [@The\_Observer](#):
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> Level-headed, loving, bravery, honor, integrity, virtuous, strong, charismatic.

Other than maybe strong, which of those attributes is not found outside of masculinity? Are you saying that feminine women can’t be loving, brave, honorable, etc? Yikes.

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 6:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/74 "2015-01-14T06:55:34Z")

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“Chicken Soup for the MRA Soul”?

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**Author:** ![Askthepizzaguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/askthepizzaguy/32/9405_2.png) [@Askthepizzaguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Askthepizzaguy)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 7:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/75 "2015-01-14T07:10:37Z")

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ARE MALES BEING LED TO THE SLAUGHTER?!?!? TUNE IN TO THIS THREAD TO FIND OUT!

Hello everyone, I’d just like to point out that I have this video for you to watch, with no summary of its content. Basically, a context-free homework assignment.

HUMANITY = DOOMED, MASCULINITY IS INFINITE

Also, I’d be interested to know your opinions? Please and thank you.

Later:

Men are dying out. Your children will see the end of the man.

THESE ARE THINGS I KNOW SUBJECTIVELY without reasoning given, but are totally rational statements.

What is masculinity, you ask?

[View this video, and find out](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j2ASM6Om2nc)

Also: must love wimmins.

WAKE UP, PEOPLE. YOU ARE BEING SLAUGHTERED LIKE SHEEPLE

But I am not advocating \*for \*men. I am just saying, I’m masculine and I love women, not dudes.

Also, if it weren’t for men trying to kill each other off, we’d still be in the stone age.

What? You find my random unsupported statements ludicrous?

Well, then all I have to say is this: I deeply love women very much. [More than words.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0R-FGchhwLw)

YOU’RE ALL BRAINWASHED GO AWAY AND LET ME BATTLE MY INNER DEMONS IN PEACE

If you disagree with me, you have a vagina.

But before I leave, let me just say this:

Buttsex.

Woman’s butt = HOLY

Man’s butt = THE DEVIL

That is all.

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**Author:** ![Jake\_Jones](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Jake\_Jones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake_Jones)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 7:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/76 "2015-01-14T07:35:16Z")

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I’ve done a public service for those who couldn’t stomach beyond the first 60 seconds of this video. Be prepared. As **The Second Stone** observed, this shit is deep, yo!

Quoted in full under Creative Commons license with attribution to Andy-Man:

> [@](#):
>
> (Spoken word)
> 
> Feminists killed Kurt Cobain  
> Men my age are all the same  
> They hate themselves then feel ashamed  
> For what they are and cannot change
> 
> Little heads filled up with lies  
> Raised only to apologize  
> For thousand year conspiracies  
> In gender studies histories
> 
> But down at home, drugged up at school  
> Made to sit still and follow rules  
> They’ll follow what their teachers say  
> Let’s see how well the girls behave
> 
> Men chastised, demonized, healthy males pathologized  
> A man is just a dirty ape  
> Longing, lust, desire, all rape  
> Your body is a loaded gun and all that it has done is wrong
> 
> (Text over video)
> 
> Who taught you to hate yourself?  
> Who taught you that you are “privileged”?  
> Who taught you that you are stupid…  
> Useless…  
> Brutish…  
> And emotionally inferior?  
> Who taught you that you have a damaged Y chromosome?  
> Who taught you that you are inherently flawed?  
> Who taught you to be ashamed?
> 
> It’s time to open your eyes to what you are…
> 
> You are the inventor  
> You are the builder  
> You are the engineer  
> You are the worker  
> You are the designer  
> You are the dreamer  
> You are the scientist  
> You are the warrior  
> You are the soldier  
> You are the defender against tyranny  
> You are the sportsman
> 
> When many give up…  
> You don’t
> 
> You are the explorer  
> You are the thinker…  
> The Artist…  
> And composer
> 
> You are the leader  
> …the bringer of change  
> …and the radical
> 
> You are also the father  
> And you are needed
> 
> It’s time to start believing in yourself again  
> There is a future…  
> And you’re in it
> 
> * * *
> 
> (An Andy Man Production)  
> Creative Commons license:  
> [www.andy-man.net](http://www.andy-man.net)
> 
> * * *
> 
> Men’s Rights are Human Rights

It’s even more ridiculous when you put the words into print.

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**Author:** ![Bridget\_Burke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7cd45c/32.png) [@Bridget\_Burke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bridget_Burke)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 11:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/77 "2015-01-14T11:01:45Z")

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> [@Broomstick](#):
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> Well, at least the OP stuck around for a few replies instead of an immediate duck-and-run.

But then he\* did\* duck & run.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 12:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/78 "2015-01-14T12:01:53Z")

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> [@The\_Observer](#):
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> Meh, I had a feeling this thread would turn into this. I’m out. Do with it what you want. I’m out, bye.
> 
> Just want to say before I go
> 
> I think men and women are of equal value. No sex is better than the other.
> 
> The love between men and women is an essential aspect of the universal self.
> 
> Homosexuality is evil.
> 
> God is real.
> 
> The universe is God.
> 
> I love you all. :o
> 
> - bye

Bye Felicia!

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**Author:** ![GrumpyBunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bc8723/32.png) [@GrumpyBunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrumpyBunny)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 12:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/79 "2015-01-14T12:52:13Z")

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> [@Kobal2](#):
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> Nonsense. You can reliably find them in any gay bar.

Muscley and in leather, no less!

> [@](#):
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> Jake Jones:
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> > [@](#):
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> > _(quoted drivel)_  
> > Feminists killed Kurt Cobain

Pretty sure it was a self-inflicted shotgun wound to the head that killed Kurt Cobain.

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**Author:** ![GrumpyBunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bc8723/32.png) [@GrumpyBunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrumpyBunny)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2015, 12:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-males-being-led-to-the-slaughter/709771/80 "2015-01-14T12:55:39Z")

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> [@Trinopus](#):
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> Scratching, spitting, and laughing at fart jokes?

Nah, Sarah Silverman and Lena Dunham do that as well.

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