# Are the "quiet" girls really more wild in bed? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [January 13, 2014, 3:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664 "2014-01-13T15:42:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Megacannon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/bbce88/32.png) [@Megacannon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Megacannon)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 3:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/1 "2014-01-13T15:42:03Z")
See topic title. I assume most of you have heard the expression that the quiet girls are actually the wildest ones in bed. I’m curious about the truth of this matter. ---
**Author:** ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 3:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/2 "2014-01-13T15:42:42Z")
Some are, some aren’t. ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 3:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/3 "2014-01-13T15:44:34Z")
My experience is that it’s not true. Or at least not true often enough to justify the meme. ---
**Author:** ![Elemenopy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b5e925/32.png) [@Elemenopy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elemenopy)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/4 "2014-01-13T15:46:15Z")
😉 Rowr! ---
**Author:** ![Doughbag](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/aeb1de/32.png) [@Doughbag](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doughbag)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/5 "2014-01-13T15:48:32Z")
Eh, yes and no. Some wild girls are called wild for a reason… ---
**Author:** ![leahcim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/b4bc9f/32.png) [@leahcim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/leahcim)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 3:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/6 "2014-01-13T15:49:46Z")
In the interests of making this a GQ answer, I demand a grant to conduct an _exhaustive_ research program. ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 3:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/7 "2014-01-13T15:54:09Z")
> [@leahcim](#): > > In the interests of making this a GQ answer, I demand a grant to conduct an _exhaustive_ research program. Or we could move it to the Pit and decry the notion that far too few quiet girls are porn stars in bed. ---
**Author:** ![Vagabond](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/258eb7/32.png) [@Vagabond](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Vagabond)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/8 "2014-01-13T15:57:26Z")
I’ve met a few quiet/wild ones, but just a few. In my experience the party girl dancin on the bar is the one who will be knockin the picture off the walls later.😃 ---
**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 3:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/9 "2014-01-13T15:58:20Z")
In the absence of controlled scientific studies, let’s move this to IMHO. Colibri General Questions Moderator ---
**Author:** ![Gary\_T](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Gary\_T](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gary_T)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 4:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/10 "2014-01-13T16:00:16Z")
It would be a mistake to assume that just because a person is “quiet,” he or she won’t be excited/exciting in bed. It would also be a mistake to assume that just because a person is “quiet,” he or she will be excited/exciting in bed. There’s no useful correlation here. ---
**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/11 "2014-01-13T16:02:50Z")
This calls for a resurrection of the “Promiscuity Girls” thread! ---
**Author:** ![John\_DiFool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_difool/32/19543_2.png) [@John\_DiFool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_DiFool)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 4:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/12 "2014-01-13T16:21:27Z")
Nice handle/OP combo… ---
**Author:** ![Learjeff](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/94ad74/32.png) [@Learjeff](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Learjeff)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/13 "2014-01-13T16:43:11Z")
I haven’t managed to find a significant statistical correlation, but research continues. ---
**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/14 "2014-01-13T17:15:37Z")
What does “wild in bed” mean? I think it’s like driving - anyone who’s slower than you is incompetent, and anyone faster than you is a maniac. For just “let’s do it!” I’d say wild girls are wilder than quiet girls. For how strange things get after we’re in bed, I’d say there’s no correlation in either direction. My experience 20 years out of date because I’ve been with my wife that long. ---
**Author:** ![Maastricht](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a88e57/32.png) [@Maastricht](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maastricht)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 5:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/15 "2014-01-13T17:21:46Z")
OK Cupid did some [research. See Chart 2.](http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/10-charts-about-sex/) ---
**Author:** ![all\_timestamps\_displayed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/958977/32.png) [@all\_timestamps\_displayed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/all_timestamps_displayed)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/16 "2014-01-13T18:08:15Z")
Anecdotal, but nope. Quiet girls are generally not more wild in bed. As with all things it’s not true 100% of the time but most of the time, certainly. ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 6:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/17 "2014-01-13T18:15:14Z")
> [@bup](#): > > What does “wild in bed” mean? Growling, clawing, urinating, killing and devouring a gazelle… ---
**Author:** ![Rachellelogram](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rachellelogram/32/8689_2.png) [@Rachellelogram](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rachellelogram)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 6:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/18 "2014-01-13T18:24:07Z")
I’ve heard that crazy people are the best in the sack. Never heard any such stereotype about quiet people. I’ve never had sex with a crazy dude though, so I can’t really speak to the truth of that either. ---
**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/19 "2014-01-13T18:26:24Z")
> [@VinylTurnip](#): > > Growling, clawing, urinating, killing and devouring a gazelle… Like I said, if someone drives slower than you, they’re incompetent. Gazelle snuff hasn’t given me a stiffie since I was 19 or 20… ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2014, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664/20 "2014-01-13T18:33:35Z")
> [@VinylTurnip](#): > > Growling, clawing, urinating, killing and devouring a gazelle… The first three don’t sound so bad… [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-the-quiet-girls-really-more-wild-in-bed/678664.md?page=2)