# Are there any 13-year old girls seeking sex with older men who are not police agents?

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**Category:** Factual Questions\
**Created:** [October 23, 2007, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-13-year-old-girls-seeking-sex-with-older-men-who-are-not-police-agents/423763 "2007-10-23T21:37:31Z")\
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**Author:** ![Critical1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3e96dc/32.png) [@Critical1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Critical1)\
**Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-13-year-old-girls-seeking-sex-with-older-men-who-are-not-police-agents/423763/41 "2007-10-25T19:44:47Z")

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I have one ex gf who was 20 years older, and another who was 14 years younger. I seriously don’t think what consenting adults do is anyone else’s business, but I do agree with the deception or control parts of that comment.

yeah thats what I meant

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**Author:** ![brazil84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/8491ac/32.png) [@brazil84](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/brazil84)\
**Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 9:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-13-year-old-girls-seeking-sex-with-older-men-who-are-not-police-agents/423763/42 "2007-10-25T21:04:09Z")

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[QUOTE=Cat Fight]  
But are the _men_ who they claim to be? How many of these real teenage girls are hoping to meet 62-year-old men, and how many think they’re going to meet a 19-year-old named Johnny who writes poetry and is a part-time model (that’s why his profile pic is from a cologne ad, duh)?  
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It’s very common for these guys to lie about their ages; to supply older pics; etc.

I know this because I have visited the “perverted justice” website which is run by a group of vigilante types who try to publicly embarrass these guys.

Which is actually another thing to consider. Probably a lot of the “13 year old girls” are not cops and not girls, but guys who are faking it in order to embarrass other guys. Or to get thrills. Or both.

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> If all they need to turn from fantasizing to pedophile is opportunity, that’s pretty scary), do they send photos first? Do they lie about their age, looks?

If you are curious, I suggest you check out the “perverted justice” website.

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