It is. I have lived about half my adult life in New York City, and half in Indiana, with one year in DC. I have never had a New York driver’s license, except once, briefly, when my Indiana license was about to expire, and I renewed it in New York. I have never owned a car in New York, but I have owned a car most of the time in Indiana. Indianapolis, despite being one of the largest cities in the US (it’s something like #16) has really lousy public transportation. You can’t just hop a bus and go somewhere, or go down the subway, and get across town almost instantaneously. Buses come on thew half-hour or hour. My car had to go in the shop today, and even though my husband has a car, it’s been a huge hassle, because my son happened to have a dental appointment scheduled today. I just took a cab home, and it cost $10, in spite of being a very short distance-- I would have walked, but it’s been raining.
I really wish we could live with just one car, and use the buses some of the time; you’d think in a city this size we could. When we lived in a smaller town in Indiana, and didn’t have a child, we managed with one car, and a bicycle each.
If we were in NYC, we wouldn’t need a car at all. On the rare occasion that we were doing something like buying a large appliance that was too big to bring on the bus, and too small to have delivered, we’d use a cab. We’d use a cab to go to the doctor, sometimes, and other than that, the buses and subways are great. And then, there are always bicycles.
If a person loses the ability to drive to a handicap, there are things like special door-to-door bus services, and medicabs, but if you’ve been used to total autonomy, it must be hard. If you lose driving ability to a DUI or crashing your car into a tree and not being able to get a new one because you only had collision has to suck, particularly if you live in a town with poor public transport, because not only is getting around hard, but you end up having to explain to people all the time about how you screwed up.