Accept that behavior, grabbing, pushing … as “abuse” alleged by a single woman by this individual as something that he did during a period in his twenties when he was admittedly in a very bad period. (As per her so was she.) It still has morphed by you to plural “women” and by LHOD into potential felony level abuser, kidnapping …
It grows beyond any actual allegations made. And who knows? Shoes might yet drop. Oy.