# Are there any stereotypes which you resemble/match?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [March 9, 2015, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612 "2015-03-09T16:50:08Z")\
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**Author:** ![GrumpyBunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bc8723/32.png) [@GrumpyBunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrumpyBunny)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/21 "2015-03-09T20:12:30Z")

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> [@stillownedbysetters](#):
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> LOL!! Indeed we should. I quite often do the Brunhilde/Wagnerian soprano viking costume myself. I alternate with my Killer Tomato costume, but that’s another story altogether. 😉

I love the idea of a Killer Tomato costume, but I like weird stuff. I was a zombie Hello Kitty a couple of years ago (Halloween was a zombie run followed by a party with the runners and zombies). I didn’t anywhere near as many date offers as when I go with the buxom beer Mädchen look.

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**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 8:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/22 "2015-03-09T20:19:31Z")

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I love fried chicken, watermelon, the blues, conservative fedoras, and women with hair the wind can blow around.

So yes, I fit all sorts of old black man stereotypes.

I’m \*not \*an old black man, but that wasn’t the question.

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**Author:** ![Onomatopoeia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/onomatopoeia/32/4145_2.png) [@Onomatopoeia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Onomatopoeia)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/23 "2015-03-09T20:22:46Z")

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> [@bup](#):
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> I love fried chicken, watermelon, the blues, conservative fedoras, and women with hair the wind can blow around.
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> So yes, I fit all sorts of old black man stereotypes.
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> I’m \*not \*an old black man, but that wasn’t the question.

Heh. 🙂 I don’t get the fedoras and women with hair the wind can blow around references. Are those really black stereotypes?

For some reason your post cracked me up. 😃

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**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/24 "2015-03-09T20:38:56Z")

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GIS programmer that just got off his tractor to move snow for the plow truck. Making snow storage really.

I live in one of the most pristine areas in the world for skiing, but hate downhill skiing. Get enough snow every day at the house thank you very much. No need to go in search of it. And get run over by bad skiers. Love where I live though.

Programmer, that knows more about his tractor than his computer (well sort of). My hobby is trying to learn the banjo.

Don’t think I’ve got a label.

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**Author:** ![SecretaryofEvil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e95f7d/32.png) [@SecretaryofEvil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SecretaryofEvil)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 8:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/25 "2015-03-09T20:45:04Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> First tell me what the stereotypes are for E. Indian women in the States. Genuinely. I don’t have much idea.
> 
> I do wear a lot of yellow (read: 22K) gold, if that’s anything.

I used to date an Indian girl, and we had some playful banter about this subject.

Indian girls in America:

Are very career oriented  
Can be a bit stuck up towards people who aren’t career oriented  
Wear lots of jewelry  
Are marriage and baby crazy  
Often get mistaken for different ethnicities, usually Arab, sometimes Latina  
Love films, both Bollywood and American  
Have long gorgeous hair  
Have close relationships with their parents  
Have secret White boyfriends their parents don’t know about

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**Author:** ![Defensive\_Indifference](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/defensive_indifference/32/6502_2.png) [@Defensive\_Indifference](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Defensive_Indifference)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/26 "2015-03-09T20:57:34Z")

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> [@SecretaryofEvil](#):
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> I used to date an Indian girl, and we had some playful banter about this subject.
> 
> Indian girls in America:
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> Are very career oriented  
> Can be a bit stuck up towards people who aren’t career oriented  
> Wear lots of jewelry  
> Are marriage and baby crazy  
> Often get mistaken for different ethnicities, usually Arab, sometimes Latina  
> Love films, both Bollywood and American  
> Have long gorgeous hair  
> Have close relationships with their parents  
> Have secret White boyfriends their parents don’t know about

I _was_ the secret white boyfriend for a little while. Now I’m her husband. My missus doesn’t fit many of these stereotypes, though, except the one about being career-oriented. And that one, boy-howdy does she fit it! (She doesn’t look down on people who aren’t though.) She also has gorgeous hair, but she likes it a little shorter.

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**Author:** ![thelurkinghorror](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7c8e57/32.png) [@thelurkinghorror](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thelurkinghorror)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 10:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/27 "2015-03-09T22:22:13Z")

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> [@Onomatopoeia](#):
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> Heh. 🙂 I don’t get the fedoras and women with hair the wind can blow around references. Are those really black stereotypes?
> 
> For some reason your post cracked me up. 😃

It said **old** black **man**. Although I don’t know if “fedora” is the right word, except that any full-brim had (including trilby, porkpie) is called “fedora” these days. Picture John Lee Hooker.

> [@enipla](#):
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> I live in one of the most pristine areas in the world for skiing, but hate downhill skiing. Get enough snow every day at the house thank you very much. No need to go in search of it. And get run over by bad skiers. Love where I live though.

Me too, although it’s not hate so much as uninterested. There is a big chance that anyone who specifically moved here will be asked if they ski or snowboard. Also, the snow has been extremely weak this year.

I have a beard. And when not wearing contacts I have dark-rimmed glasses. So I don’t know if pointing out that I am not a hipster by saying I did this _before it was cool_ actually makes me 360 into a hipster :D. I like some “hipster” music but I am too out of it to keep up with trends in music.

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**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 11:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/28 "2015-03-09T23:02:27Z")

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> [@Robot\_Arm](#):
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> Software engineer, here; socially incompetent and bad taste in music.

This. Plus I could be the model of the ‘Angry American’.

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**Author:** ![BaldDudePeekskill](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/b5e925/32.png) [@BaldDudePeekskill](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BaldDudePeekskill)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 11:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/29 "2015-03-09T23:58:08Z")

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I’m a very non flamboyant gay man with no interest in Madonna, Musicals or Fashion. I do however have a ‘flair’ for color and love to decorate. But I also love to rip out walls, do electrical work, have a workshop that rivals or exceeds anyone (except maybe my dad and my husband’s father). I like big sloppy dogs and have had many in my day, but now I’m the proud Dogdad of a fluffy white Shih-tzu whom, if I could, I’d carry in a dog-purse of some sort. I am a sucker for Hallmark Christmas movies, but pretty insensitive to romance in my own life. I’m a firm believing Christian, which theoretically, I should not be, as there are so many issues with that. My wedding was very low-key (more Mitchell than Cameron) but I had a full choir, multiple musicians and played the organ for my own Communion Hymn and there was incense…lots and lots of incense. I’m a contradiction of the gay model and I love it!! But my dislike of most gay subculture in no way means that I’m ashamed of my sexuality and I’ll defend myself and my group’s rights whenever necessary

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**Author:** ![BaldDudePeekskill](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/b5e925/32.png) [@BaldDudePeekskill](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BaldDudePeekskill)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2015, 11:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/30 "2015-03-09T23:59:32Z")

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> [@tapu](#):
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> No, but I \*do \*drive an SUV. With a Subaru, I’d be perfect.

How many cats?

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**Post date:** [March 10, 2015, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/31 "2015-03-10T01:03:35Z")

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I am a rather zaftig Jewish mamma who makes one hell of a chicken soup.

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**Author:** ![Arrendajo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Arrendajo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arrendajo)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2015, 1:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/32 "2015-03-10T01:38:25Z")

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Well I’m a librarian, and when I let my hair fall loose from its tight bun and I whip off my thick glasses… actually I’m mostly bald, and male, and I **never** take off my glasses because I can’t see a damn thing without them. I am rather detail oriented and I **really** like things organized, so in that way I am something of a stereotype. I’m also bookish, intellectual, prefer to work indoors, and curious about everything. Sounding more stereotypical all the time.

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**Author:** ![kayT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayt/32/3633_2.png) [@kayT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayT)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2015, 1:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/33 "2015-03-10T01:46:37Z")

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I’m an old lady. I knit. I have cats.

I also have a pretty colorful past and a presently colorful vocabulary, though, so if you aren’t careful I’ll break up that stereotype.

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**Author:** ![RandMcnally](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@RandMcnally](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RandMcnally)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2015, 1:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/34 "2015-03-10T01:52:57Z")

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I have a giant penis.

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**Post date:** [March 10, 2015, 2:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/35 "2015-03-10T02:41:15Z")

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Ridgerunner of far Eastern European ancestry. Despite being brought up to be non-confrontational and preferring it that way, when push comes to shove the old frontiersman comes out and that veneer of civilization just fades away. And it ain’t something I’m proud of.

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I’m confused.

I drive a Subaru, really like women, wear plaid shirts - I am not a lesbian.

I love and grow plants, love and have performed in musicals, yet I am not gay.

I fully support equal pay and marriage for all, yet I am neither a female nor a member of the GL population.

I have lots of female friends without trying to bed them, and yet I am a heterosexual male.

I am old, and have become more liberal as time goes by, and cook sometimes and clean sometimes and so forth…

What is wrong with me???

(OK, I am bald, fat, hairy, and still like to watch football and drink beer and check out the ladies - ya caught me.)

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**Author:** ![thelurkinghorror](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7c8e57/32.png) [@thelurkinghorror](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thelurkinghorror)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2015, 3:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/37 "2015-03-10T03:04:15Z")

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It’s Subaru Forester or Outback. Can’t stereotype WRX drivers as much else but young males.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2015, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/38 "2015-03-10T13:46:25Z")

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> [@SecretaryofEvil](#):
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> I used to date an Indian girl, and we had some playful banter about this subject.
> 
> Indian girls in America:

Thank you! I was hoping someone would come forth. Let’s see:

[ul]  
[li] \*\* Are very career oriented \*\* Nope, not me. I work to live, not live to work. [/li][li] **Can be a bit stuck up towards people who aren’t career oriented** Well, if I am not, then it would be really hypocritical to be stuck up towards others![/li][li] **Wear lots of jewelry** Yes. Less so now, but I always have at least three (small) pairs of earrings, my nosering, two rings, a bracelet, and my watch. This sounds like a lot but most of it is small and subtle. Used to be more! [/li][li] **Are marriage and baby crazy** Nope. Never got married (though I am in a LTR) and will never have babies. [/li][li] **Often get mistaken for different ethnicities, usually Arab, sometimes Latina** Yes. Constantly. Admittedly I am really light-skinned. [/li][li] **Love films, both Bollywood and American** Yes! Totally. [/li][li] **Have long gorgeous hair** I do love my hair, but it is markedly different from Indian girls’ hair on the average. It is thin and curly, as opposed to thick and straight. [/li][li] **Have close relationships with their parents** Nope. Ha! [/li][li] **Have secret White boyfriends their parents don’t know about** No, I never had a white boyfriend, which is one of my few regrets. [/li]  
[/ul]

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**Author:** ![MoonMoon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/moonmoon/32/2959_2.png) [@MoonMoon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MoonMoon)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2015, 1:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/39 "2015-03-10T13:55:49Z")

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Hmmm. I suppose I fit the New England stereotype: flinty, intensely private, dry sense of humor and suspicious of strangers.

Physically, I think it’s pretty clear that my people are Irish, right down (up?) to the giant noggin.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2015, 2:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-any-stereotypes-which-you-resemble-match/714612/40 "2015-03-10T14:18:10Z")

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> [@MoonMoon](#):
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> Hmmm. I suppose I fit the New England stereotype: flinty, intensely private, dry sense of humor and suspicious of strangers.

Ah! That I have. NY, while not New England, is not dissimilar (I am not from the City).

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