# Are There Mediums Who Will Contact Your Deceased Pets?

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**Created:** [July 16, 2015, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318 "2015-07-16T13:49:50Z")\
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**Author:** ![ralph124c](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/8797f3/32.png) [@ralph124c](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ralph124c)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/1 "2015-07-16T13:49:50Z")

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No, i do not take “mediums” seriously. Most of them are con artists, who relay on cold reading to make their efforts sound real. but in the case of your deceased dog, what would such a medium tell you? “Lucky” is feeling fine and likes his food?

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 1:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/2 "2015-07-16T13:57:23Z")

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They’ll tell you what you want to hear.  
And it’s not most of them, it’s all of them.

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**Author:** ![DrFidelius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drfidelius/32/3447_2.png) [@DrFidelius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrFidelius)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 2:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/3 "2015-07-16T14:02:03Z")

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Sure. They have no qualms about separating a sucker from his money and will use whatever story the mark wants to hear.

ETA: I believe they call it “facilitating” if they claim to speak for your living pet, and “channeling” if your pet is dead. And it’s not as if a pet, living or dead, can call them on anything they say.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 2:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/4 "2015-07-16T14:14:07Z")

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The three types of pet psychics:

1. Those that deceive themselves.
2. Those that deceive others.
3. Those that deceive themselves and others.

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**Author:** ![Onomatopoeia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/onomatopoeia/32/4145_2.png) [@Onomatopoeia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Onomatopoeia)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 2:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/5 "2015-07-16T14:17:15Z")

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> [@running\_coach](#):
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> They’ll tell you what you want to hear.  
> And it’s not most of them, it’s all of them.

I came in to say exactly this.

**ralph124c** , do you believe there are people who can communicate with people who have died? I ask because of your “most” qualifier. If you believe even an infinitesimally small number of humans have this ability, why? How would or could consciousness possibly survive after death? I am always curious as to what causes someone to believe in such things with no proof other than the claims of excellent showmen and women, and with peer-reviewed case studies that have proven many times that mediums are delusional at best and charlatans at worst with no success duplicating their feats in double-blind experiments.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 2:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/6 "2015-07-16T14:26:28Z")

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> [@Onomatopoeia](#):
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> I came in to say exactly this.
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> **ralph124c** , do you believe there are people who can communicate with people who have died? I ask because of your “most” qualifier.

I was going to give him the benefit of the doubt-maybe he thinks that some are just deluding themselves.

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**Author:** ![JcWoman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jcwoman/32/2889_2.png) [@JcWoman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JcWoman)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 2:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/7 "2015-07-16T14:58:23Z")

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They’re called animal communicators and yes it’s a huge sham. I work in dog rescue and have many friends who believe in this shit. I admit I do lose a little respect for my friends who swear up and down that “my communicator” is the Real Deal while quietly disregarding other ones. They’re all scammers. I’ve seen (not directly, I don’t work with these people) them claim to:

talk with lost (but alive) pets directly through the ether or god knows what  
talk with lost (but alive) pets by looking at a photo  
talk with lost (but alive) pets by touching a blanket or toy  
talk with lost (but alive) pets by asking another pet (dead or alive) to “connect” him/her with the communicator

and the all of the above with dead pets also.

Once I tried to help some friends find a lost dog, and in order to recruit volunteers to help us search and post flyers, we posted on Facebook. Several scammers (communicators) messaged me claiming to know where the dog was. They gave us hints like he’s near a blue house, in some bushes, near a McDonald’s. We’d go look and find nothing. When I asked the communicators to come out and help us identify what they were “seeing”, of course none of them would.

Never, EVER waste your money on these people.

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**Author:** ![Dewey\_Finn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dewey_finn/32/4222_2.png) [@Dewey\_Finn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dewey_Finn)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 3:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/8 "2015-07-16T15:25:47Z")

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The problem is that a human medium can’t communicate effectively with a canine spirit. So you need a canine medium. I can hook you up with my brother’s dog, who is brilliant at this sort of thing. She can tell you exactly what your dead dog is thinking. And it won’t cost all that much, given what I’m offering to you.

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**Author:** ![glee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b5a626/32.png) [@glee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/glee)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/9 "2015-07-16T15:48:36Z")

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I enjoy the TV show The Dog Whisperer.  
This guy Cesar has studied dogs for 25 years and solves problems by discussing with the owners (who are usually innocently at fault), then spending time training the dog (and the owners!)

On one of his programs there was an ‘animal communicator’. 😕  
Her dog had been a problem for 3 years.  
Cesar sorted it out in one day.

Why didn’t the animal communicator ask her dog what was wrong?! Because it’s a scam. :smack: :smack:

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 5:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/10 "2015-07-16T17:12:21Z")

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You don’t _know_ that. Perhaps the dog was giving her the silent treatment.

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**Author:** ![Smeghead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f1d935/32.png) [@Smeghead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smeghead)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 5:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/11 "2015-07-16T17:23:33Z")

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There’s a lady on my local community’s message board who works as a pet psychic, and claims to be able to communicate with your animals without even having to leave her house - she can chat with them at a distance. One day she posted an urgent message asking for help finding her cat that had run away.

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**Author:** ![glee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b5a626/32.png) [@glee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/glee)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 5:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/12 "2015-07-16T17:33:45Z")

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> [@QuickSilver](#):
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> You don’t _know_ that. Perhaps the dog was giving her the silent treatment.

For three years?! That’s a grumpy dog. 😉

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**Author:** ![Knorf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/58956e/32.png) [@Knorf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Knorf)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 5:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/13 "2015-07-16T17:56:07Z")

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> [@Czarcasm](#):
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> The three types of pet psychics:
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> 1. Those that deceive themselves.
> 2. Those that deceive others.
> 3. Those that deceive themselves and others.

That’s really only two kinds.

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/14 "2015-07-16T18:06:44Z")

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> [@Knorf](#):
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> That’s really only two kinds.

Toilet paper over (dog)  
Toilet paper under (cat)

😃

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**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 6:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/15 "2015-07-16T18:07:01Z")

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> [@Knorf](#):
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> That’s really only two kinds.

Perhaps he’s a Spanish medium, who deceives everyone in town who does not deceive himself.

Regards,  
Shodan

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 6:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/16 "2015-07-16T18:07:07Z")

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> [@Knorf](#):
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> That’s really only two kinds.

Not really. The third type are those that believe they have a special ability that needs to be “augmented” with cold reading(and sometimes hot reading) because their powers just don’t seem to be clicking that day.

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**Author:** ![Knorf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/58956e/32.png) [@Knorf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Knorf)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2015, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/17 "2015-07-16T18:12:50Z")

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Shodan gets it.

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**Author:** ![TennisMenace](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f05b48/32.png) [@TennisMenace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TennisMenace)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2015, 5:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/18 "2015-07-18T05:10:42Z")

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> [@ralph124c](#):
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> No, i do not take “mediums” seriously. Most of them are con artists, who relay on cold reading to make their efforts sound real. but in the case of your deceased dog, what would such a medium tell you? “Lucky” is feeling fine and likes his food?

I would like to believe all dogs go to heaven, but I think that may be far fetched. I definitely would love to hug my faithful dog- JoJo- again, but do I think he would be able to communicate to me in words through a medium?

Hardly. :eek:

This is a funny thread, right? Not really meant to be taken literally, right? The irony though for me is that I recently brought this topic up with my wife as we were participating in our daily walk. I asked her, “Honey, do you think JoJo might be waiting for me in my room in Heaven?” I must say, her response saddened me when she said, "dogs don’t have souls, but maybe cats are there (she loves cats). "  
TM

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**Author:** ![Nefario](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/59ef9b/32.png) [@Nefario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nefario)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2015, 12:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/19 "2015-07-18T12:31:38Z")

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> [@dewey finn](#):
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> the problem is that a human medium can’t communicate effectively with a canine spirit. So you need a canine medium. I can hook you up with my brother’s dog, who is brilliant at this sort of thing. She can tell you exactly what your dead dog is thinking. And it won’t cost all that much, given what i’m offering to you.

🙂 🙂 EXCELLENT!

And I know a great pet chiropractor…

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**Author:** ![ralph124c](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/8797f3/32.png) [@ralph124c](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ralph124c)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2015, 2:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-there-mediums-who-will-contact-your-deceased-pets/725318/20 "2015-07-18T14:58:36Z")

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> [@Czarcasm](#):
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> I was going to give him the benefit of the doubt-maybe he thinks that some are just deluding themselves.

Of course, no one believes dead pets can be contacted. The thread was started to understand if some people thought the services of a medium would work.

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