# Are you aware of any networks for people shut in their home?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [January 13, 2016, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073 "2016-01-13T21:35:59Z")\
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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/61 "2016-01-15T01:03:11Z")

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> [@ddsun](#):
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> Just to get it out there, are you asking if anyone here wants to talk on the phone with you? I ask because you are not accepting any suggestions, but you clearly hope to accomplish something.

I am not looking for life-changing suggestions. Just suggestions if there may be some sites/services I am not aware of. I tried [Rentafriend](http://rentafriend.com/) but their search is horrible and site sort of useless.

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**Author:** ![bobkitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c67d28/32.png) [@bobkitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobkitty)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/62 "2016-01-15T01:05:22Z")

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I have to wonder if all these threads are indeed a passive-aggressive way of asking exactly that, **ddsun**. Like if he continues to dismiss everyone’s suggestions, eventually someone here will step forward and say “I’ll take the bullet for the rest of humanity! What’s your phone number?”

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**Author:** ![Robert163](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/4af34b/32.png) [@Robert163](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Robert163)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/63 "2016-01-15T01:07:55Z")

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> [@CCitizen](#):
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> I am not looking for life-changing suggestions. Just suggestions if there may be some sites/services I am not aware of. I tried [Rentafriend](http://rentafriend.com/) but their search is horrible and site sort of useless.

did you try reddit?

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/64 "2016-01-15T01:11:51Z")

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> [@bobkitty](#):
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> Like if he continues to dismiss everyone’s suggestions,

I do take many technical suggestions – many sources of software were given to me on SDMB.

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**Author:** ![bobkitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c67d28/32.png) [@bobkitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobkitty)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/65 "2016-01-15T01:26:05Z")

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Please don’t be deliberately obtuse. It’s insulting for everyone.

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**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/66 "2016-01-15T01:32:36Z")

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> [@CCitizen](#):
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> Actually more like $1,500/year from my parents. And a little from my Internship.

Duly noted.

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/67 "2016-01-15T01:41:34Z")

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> [@Ambivalid](#):
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> Duly noted.

Could anyone fill the difference this year?

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**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/68 "2016-01-15T01:44:56Z")

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> [@CCitizen](#):
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> Could anyone fill the difference this year?

Yes.

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/69 "2016-01-15T01:47:23Z")

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> [@Ambivalid](#):
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> Yes.

Who?

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**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/70 "2016-01-15T02:02:40Z")

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> [@CCitizen](#):
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> Who?

Well I know a guy…But I can’t introduce just _anyone_ to him, you know? What might you be willing to part with?

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/71 "2016-01-15T02:04:30Z")

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> [@Ambivalid](#):
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> Well I know a guy…But I can’t introduce just _anyone_ to him, you know? What might you be willing to part with?

Actually, more likely then not, my Internship adviser will pay me something like $2,000 this year from an irregular grant. This along with my allowance is enough.

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/72 "2016-01-15T02:46:56Z")

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> [@CCitizen](#):
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> Could anyone fill the difference this year?

What does green signify? Red being anger and blue being Internet (I think).

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 2:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/73 "2016-01-15T02:51:13Z")

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> [@ddsun](#):
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> What does green signify? Red being anger and blue being Internet (I think).

I ask strangers for $1500 only humorously.

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**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/74 "2016-01-15T02:53:54Z")

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> [@CCitizen](#):
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> I ask strangers for $1500 only humorously.

That shit was gut-busting, to be sure. :):)🙂

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**Author:** ![Slash1972](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/slash1972/32/6461_2.png) [@Slash1972](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Slash1972)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/75 "2016-01-15T13:49:05Z")

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Have you tried a phone sex line? They will be your friend and talk about whatever you want!

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**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 2:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/76 "2016-01-15T14:39:02Z")

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So green means humor? You can’t just drop a new color on us without explaining it.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 3:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/77 "2016-01-15T15:05:11Z")

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I guess I have to ask, what would you bring to a friendship? You seem to think that someone should just be responsible for calling you up and…chatting to you. But about what topics? What are you even interested in? I have no idea, and I’ve read most of your threads.

Besides, let’s say I bite the bullet and call you. Are you ever going to call me? Or is it a one way thing? We apparently can’t ever hang out or do stuff together, and honestly I know lots of people, myself included, who don’t like the phone.

Like it or not, friendship is a two-way street. Sometimes it tilts one way or the other, to be sure, but one person just giving all the time is a recipe for disaster. And eventually, sooner or later, the friendship will end.

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/78 "2016-01-15T18:02:30Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> Like it or not, friendship is a two-way street. Sometimes it tilts one way or the other, to be sure, but one person just giving all the time is a recipe for disaster. And eventually, sooner or later, the friendship will end.

When I had access to people via High School and University I had friends. But I am not interested in many things in which most people are interested – like cars and sports.

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**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/79 "2016-01-15T18:46:39Z")

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I am not crazy – just overweight and without drivers license. My parents are nice but given their age they do not drive too much.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [January 15, 2016, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-aware-of-any-networks-for-people-shut-in-their-home/743073/80 "2016-01-15T18:53:31Z")

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I like cars ok, but I am more interested in them as a work of art or beauty. It took Top Gear to realize I was a bit of a car geek. I just don’t care all that much about what goes on under the hood. I like their lines, and how cool they are, and how fast they can go, and stuff like that.

I am so not into sports it’s kind of funny. Me and my SO were playing Trivial Pursuit the other day and I know maybe a dozen sports facts. It got to the point where everytime he asked me a sports question I started answering Derek Jeter! So:

Where do each of these NFL teams play their home games - list the stadium.  
A: Derek Jeter!

We had a good laugh about it. FTR, I know Derek Jeter plays (played?) for the Yankees. In _baseball_.

I like books. I love book talk, and you can sit in your home and read books! I also love discussing Star Wars until everyone around me is sick of it and I LOVE movie mistakes, provided they are funny ones. That is, I don’t really care that the actors had a can of Coke in their hand one second and not the next, but something like how did the characters in Ocean’s 11 carry all of the sex fliers in there?

I actually hate talking on the phone but I love long, lengthy emails. I will answer every point my friends make.

You see how I did that? I listed some things I am into. So say if \*\*Living Well \*\*\* wanted to email me right now, he might have a list of things to talk about with me. He might have some idea of where to begin!

\*your username is too damn long

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