# Are you good at remembering which Doper is which?

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [November 4, 2007, 5:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169 "2007-11-04T05:45:41Z")
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### Author: ![An\_Gadai](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/d6d6ee/32.png) [@An\_Gadai](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/An_Gadai)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 5:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/1 "2007-11-04T05:45:41Z")

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'Cos I’m shit at it. All these names, lots of great commentary, all rolls into one in my head.

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### Author: ![Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hilarity_n.suze/32/6223_2.png) [@Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hilarity_N.Suze)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 5:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/2 "2007-11-04T05:52:56Z")

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Really bad. In fact, I’m terrible. There are a few standout exceptions. But there are also a few Dopers who I regularly get confused in groups of three, that is to say, there are three that I think post similarly, or else they have similar user names. No, I’m not going to divulge my circles of confusion.

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### Author: ![tonedef](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f05b48/32.png) [@tonedef](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tonedef)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 8:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/3 "2007-11-04T08:22:26Z")

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I’m finding it difficulty to remember each doper.  
Generally I’m pretty good at remembering people on a forum with the help of avatars.  
But seeing as there aren’t any here it become allot harder/

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### Author: ![GorillaMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/50afbb/32.png) [@GorillaMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GorillaMan)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 11:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/4 "2007-11-04T11:25:55Z")

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In general, I’m terrible at it. I agree that avatars can make a big difference, especially when scanning a thread.

There’s exceptions. I’ll often find myself in the same thread as others with an interest in classical music, **pulykamell** and **percussion** just to pick two examples. And many of the British and Irish (Dubliners among them 🙂 ) have become familiar through collective and repeated explanation of the correct uses of balls, roundabouts and the English language.

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### Author: ![TheLoadedDog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/35a633/32.png) [@TheLoadedDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TheLoadedDog)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 11:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/5 "2007-11-04T11:37:50Z")

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I don’t think I’ve heard of **GorillaMan**.

Marble Arch

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### Author: ![GorillaMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/50afbb/32.png) [@GorillaMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GorillaMan)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 11:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/6 "2007-11-04T11:39:23Z")

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[QUOTE=TheLoadedDog]  
Marble Arch  
[/QUOTE]

Hee hee. Angel.

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### Author: ![Malacandra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Malacandra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malacandra)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 12:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/7 "2007-11-04T12:02:52Z")

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[QUOTE=GorillaMan]  
Hee hee. Angel.  
[/QUOTE]

_invokes **Pitt’s Tetralogy** _

Swiss Cottage

Yeah, there are a number of Dopers I recognise easily, although some of them constantly surprise me.

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### Author: ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21825_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 12:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/8 "2007-11-04T12:16:14Z")

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I have a hard enough time remembering people I meet IRL, let alone on line. Of course, I’m old and tottering towards senility, so I have an excuse.

As I just did a quick mental inventory, for the most part, those for whom I can match a name and a personality tend to be those who irritate me. I expect that’s more of a defense mechanism, too: ThisUserName always has to same something about _\<whatever\>_ when he posts or ThatUserName can be counted on to jump into any thread dealing with _\<subject\>_ to spew her personal agenda yet again. I learned pretty fast who I don’t want to read.

On the other hand, among those whose posts I enjoy, even those I’ve met for real, I often have a tough time keeping them clear in my head. Even worse, I’ve occasionally merged two into one, forgetting which one does this thing or which one likes that thing. And yes, I do the same with some real-life contacts. I’m sure it’s some sort of disorder that diserves its own telethon and celebrity spokesperson… :rolleyes:

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### Author: ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 1:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/9 "2007-11-04T13:48:23Z")

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[QUOTE=FairyChatMom]  
… I’m sure it’s some sort of disorder that diserves its own telethon and celebrity spokesperson… :rolleyes:  
[/QUOTE]

You’re doing yourself a disservice, m’dear.

I can remember the people I’ve met IRL, the people I interact with online but offboard (IM and email pals), plus a bunch of the people who hang out in the same threads I do (movie musicals and “Dancing with the Stars,” wordplay and puzzles, gardening) – and then of course there’s the folks who really piss me off…

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### Author: ![AuntiePam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f19dbf/32.png) [@AuntiePam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AuntiePam)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/10 "2007-11-04T16:48:05Z")

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Well, I remember that it was **Twickster** who initially recommended _English Passengers_. 😉

I remember names if there’s a running joke associated with them, like ladles, sheep, and lists. I remember posters who share similar taste in books and TV, if I see them often enough in those threads.

But most of the time I don’t even look at who wrote a post, unless it’s particularly thoughtful, funny, outrageous, insensitive, or provocative.

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### Author: ![AuntiePam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f19dbf/32.png) [@AuntiePam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AuntiePam)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 5:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/11 "2007-11-04T17:13:03Z")

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Well, I remember that it was **Twickster** who initially recommended _English Passengers_. 😉

I remember names if there’s a running joke associated with them, like ladles, sheep, and lists. I remember posters who share similar taste in books and TV, if I see them often enough in those threads.

But most of the time I don’t even look at who wrote a post, unless it’s particularly thoughtful, funny, outrageous, insensitive, or provocative.

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### Author: ![Omega\_Glory](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/7c8e57/32.png) [@Omega\_Glory](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omega_Glory)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 5:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/12 "2007-11-04T17:26:07Z")

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I’m too good at it. In fact, I know a couple of random things about several people who posted here so far. It evens out though, because I can’t count the number of times that someone I don’t recognize, but who clearly knows me has come up and started a conversation in real life. I might know lots of information about them, but still not recognized them by face.

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### Author: ![Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helen_s_Eidolon)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 5:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/13 "2007-11-04T17:41:37Z")

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I’d say I’m pretty good. I don’t necessarily remember everything about a poster, but most (not all!) people with 1000+ post counts have an impression and a fact or two next to their names in my head.

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### Author: ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 5:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/14 "2007-11-04T17:44:49Z")

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Actually I think I have a little mental card file notes on over a hundred dopers, from the meek or sheepish to the most gluttonous. 😉

I won’t name any, as I recently learned, that I will forget to name 10 times as many as I remember to name. But, yes, I see many user names and I have some idea of who they are or some of their interests.

Jim

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### Author: ![stretch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a6a055/32.png) [@stretch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/stretch)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/15 "2007-11-04T17:45:35Z")

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I’m pretty good at remembering random things about random posters. So I may remember that someone adopted a dog, remember that someone else has 2 kids, whatever. But there doesn’t appear to be any organization to it.

I tend to remember people with shared interests or people’s pets.

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### Author: ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/16 "2007-11-04T18:44:00Z")

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I am pretty good at remembering Dopers. I will also admit that if you’ve linked to a picture of yourself, and I thought you were cute, I have a better chance of remembering you.

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### Author: ![Plan\_B](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Plan\_B](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Plan_B)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 7:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/17 "2007-11-04T19:02:12Z")

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I’m pretty awful at it. There was a thread a few months ago asking how many names doper names we could remember and I said only one, because it was so obvious and easy to remember. Then I spelled it incorrectly.

OTOH **Sarahfeena** has been supporting me on one thread and giving me hell on another so it’s hard not to notice.

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### Author: ![Liberal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/848f3c/32.png) [@Liberal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Liberal)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 7:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/18 "2007-11-04T19:08:21Z")

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I will always remember **Phaedrus**. And when I have completed my research at Johns Hopkins, I will post my findings here.

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### Author: ![eleanorigby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee7513/32.png) [@eleanorigby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eleanorigby)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/19 "2007-11-04T19:27:40Z")

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I can’t remember anyone, really.

Now that I’ve been here awhile, certain Dopers do stay with me. There are those who are annoying and I tend to avoid. There are those in the MMP who I know (but I also can get them confused at times), because I “talk” to them constantly. There are those who stand out due to their exceptional intelligence or knowledge (but then there again, it helps to have an odd user name).

I also stink at this in RL. I remember your name is Bill and you wore a red sweater. Well, the next time I see you-you’re on blue and I’m lost. It’s getting worse as I get older, too.

**FCM** -let’s start our own telethon!

And I see you guys playing Mornington Crescent on the sly.

😛

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### Author: ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21825_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)
#### Post date: [November 4, 2007, 11:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-good-at-remembering-which-doper-is-which/425169/20 "2007-11-04T23:25:28Z")

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[QUOTE=twickster]  
You’re doing yourself a disservice, m’dear.  
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Not to start an argument, but I promise, this happens to me in the real world: If I run into someone in the “wrong” venue, I’m apt to get confused. For example, if I see a coworker at a store, I might not recognize the person at first. I was at a craft show and I saw my ceramics teacher and it took a few minutes to make the connection.

Heck, at my 10th high school reunion, a girl came up and talked to me with great familiarity. After she’d moved on, I asked who it was - turns out it was a girl I’d known since 1st grade. So yeah, I have these name-face issues…

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