# Are you ugly?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [February 9, 2005, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132 "2005-02-09T03:45:20Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![aldiboronti](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9fc348/32.png) [@aldiboronti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aldiboronti)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 2:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/41 "2005-02-09T14:18:30Z")

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I too get laid, Shakes.

Got laid.

Once.

In the sixties.

Ah, but I have a fine mind!

Had a fine mind.

Once.

In the sixties.

Aw, sheesh!

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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/42 "2005-02-09T14:22:41Z")

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I’m a big chubby middle-aged white man. It may not be ugly, but lord, it sure ain’t pretty! 😃

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**Author:** ![Kitchen\_Wench](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f08c70/32.png) [@Kitchen\_Wench](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kitchen_Wench)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/43 "2005-02-09T14:22:48Z")

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I fell out of the ugly tree and hit every goddamned branch on the way down. After that, I was attacked by a thorny bush.

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**Author:** ![GomiBoy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b2d939/32.png) [@GomiBoy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GomiBoy)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 2:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/44 "2005-02-09T14:26:58Z")

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> [@aldiboronti](#):
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> Got laid.
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> Once.
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> In the sixties.

For 20 minutes

> [@aldiboronti](#):
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> Had a fine mind.
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> Once.
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> In the sixties.

For twenty minutes.

> [@aldiboronti](#):
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> Aw, sheesh!

Don’t blame me, you brought it up. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Jayn\_Newell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Jayn\_Newell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jayn_Newell)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 2:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/45 "2005-02-09T14:41:37Z")

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I think of myself as pretty, when I look at my grad photos, or in the mirror (unless horomones are giving me acne again). Other photos, not so much–I swear they always catch my bad side. I think I’m pretty–certainly not drop-dead gorgeous, but certainly not bad looking either.

Wish I had the self-confidence to be able to always think I’m pretty though.

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**Author:** ![Susie\_Derkins](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e47774/32.png) [@Susie\_Derkins](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Susie_Derkins)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/46 "2005-02-09T14:51:06Z")

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OK, I just looked at every single pic you guys linked to, and I saw no evidence of the ugly in any of them. If I were at a party and all you guys were there, I’d feel it was a good night. 🙂

FTR, I have the “cute but chubby” thing going on and I have nice curly hair. When I lose weight I get quite a bit of attention, but I like food and television too much so that hardly every happens.

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**Author:** ![susan\_foster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d9b06d/32.png) [@susan\_foster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/susan_foster)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/47 "2005-02-09T15:00:15Z")

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I’d say solidly cute. Very Irish looking - blue eyes, freckles. I’ve had people tell other people (who in turn tell me) that I am pretty. I actually had someone tell me I reminded them of a movie star once - a movie star from India. Something about the face, she said.

Susan

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**Author:** ![plnnr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@plnnr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/plnnr)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/48 "2005-02-09T15:00:36Z")

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People tell me I’m attractive, and I accept the compliment graciously.

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/49 "2005-02-09T15:12:03Z")

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I’m a goddess.

I do okay in the looks department too.

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**Author:** ![Jillyvn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ecb155/32.png) [@Jillyvn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jillyvn)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/50 "2005-02-09T15:22:47Z")

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Meh, I’m not anything to write home about, but I wouldn’t say ugly. I would probably be more enthusiastic if I was thinner, but what can you do?

Oh, right. Exercise.

I’ll get right on that.

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**Author:** ![kelly5078](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/6f9a4e/32.png) [@kelly5078](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kelly5078)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/51 "2005-02-09T15:26:58Z")

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I’m ordinary, not ugly, but nothing to write home about. But I am thin, and fairly young looking for my age (54).

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**Author:** ![Harborwolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c89c15/32.png) [@Harborwolf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Harborwolf)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/52 "2005-02-09T15:37:36Z")

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At work I’ve become the “hot guy.” 😕 I think that says more about the lack of competition in my age group than anything else.

Personally, I don’t think I’m that attractive. I’ve been told I look like Topher Grace or Matthew Fox, so I guess I can be cute.

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**Author:** ![Jenaroph](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e8c25b/32.png) [@Jenaroph](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jenaroph)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/53 "2005-02-09T15:38:45Z")

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No.

It took me a long time to realize that, after being told as a kid (repeatedly, by classmates) that I was; and longer than that to truly believe it, but I’m not.

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**Author:** ![VunderBob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/839c29/32.png) [@VunderBob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VunderBob)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/54 "2005-02-09T15:40:03Z")

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I’m uglier than a mud fence. My mom used to have to tie a piece of steak around my neck to get the dog to play with me. 😉

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/55 "2005-02-09T15:42:11Z")

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You guys are all so self-effacing. I think I’m pretty \*and \* attractive. Not \*beautiful \* by a long shot, but my smile is genuine and I’m a happy person in general, so I’m pretty sure it’s a pleasure to meet eyes with me. And I love my hair & eyes. So average pretty, but pretty nonetheless.

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**Author:** ![tremorviolet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e47774/32.png) [@tremorviolet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tremorviolet)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/56 "2005-02-09T15:45:07Z")

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Eh, I’m pretty average. I’ve got a decent figure and the red hair bumps me up a lot in the estimation of certain guys, but my face is kinda plain and I usually look tired.

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**Author:** ![dragongirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b38774/32.png) [@dragongirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dragongirl)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 3:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/57 "2005-02-09T15:47:00Z")

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I think I’m a little below average. [Here’s](http://img158.exs.cx/img158/8029/sherrieduncan5gq.jpg) a picture, I’m the girl, obviously.

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**Author:** ![overlyverbose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/9dc877/32.png) [@overlyverbose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/overlyverbose)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 4:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/58 "2005-02-09T16:18:22Z")

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My mom thinks I’m a tub and could use to lose about 40 pounds. Then again, my cousin was a model in Milan, so I guess she has unrealistic expectations. I think I’m, eh, okay. Not scary ugly, not particularly pretty. This is [me](http://www.geocities.com/amackay2/ContributorPhotofull.JPG) with a very bad, shiny sunburn and no makeup. Yech.

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**Author:** ![TroubleAgain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e480ec/32.png) [@TroubleAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroubleAgain)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/59 "2005-02-09T17:42:23Z")

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God, you people are nuts. There’s not an “ugly” in a single picture that’s been posted yet. Get a grip. You’re all attractive! (Can’t speak for those who didn’t post pictures, but I suspect none of you are truly ugly.) No, [I’m not ugly–but I don’t think I’m as pretty as people tell me I am, either.](http://home.earthlink.net/~rhondaruss/troubleagain.jpg)

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**Author:** ![VunderBob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/839c29/32.png) [@VunderBob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VunderBob)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2005, 5:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/are-you-ugly/289132/60 "2005-02-09T17:43:30Z")

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> [@TroubleAgain](#):
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> God, you people are nuts. There’s not an “ugly” in a single picture that’s been posted yet. Get a grip. You’re all attractive! (Can’t speak for those who didn’t post pictures, but I suspect none of you are truly ugly.) No, [I’m not ugly–but I don’t think I’m as pretty as people tell me I am, either.](http://home.earthlink.net/~rhondaruss/troubleagain.jpg)

How you doin’? 😉

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