cjgurl, as I understand things, during the sacrament of Marriage, a bond which did not previously exist is created between two people. Baptism has been hazier through the years and is still subject to different interpretations among different denominations, but even this Episcopalian would argue it’s creating a bond between the person being baptized and God.
I’m not sure exactly what happens during Holy Eucharist, but, while I don’t believe the bread and wine become literal, DNA-containing flesh and blood, I do believe they become more than just the sum of their physical and tangible components.
Basically, to me, when Christians bless something during a formal church service, we are adding something intangible to it which wasn’t there before.
On a more down to earth note, I know I’ve been on my old church’s prayer list for a new job. By ritually reading my name aloud, along with other people’s, they have been trying to influence a physical change in the real world which results in a specific outcome. Sometimes, as in my case, it works. Sometimes, as in the case of someone else on the list who recently died of cancer, it doesn’t. By the way, since you’re new here, I should warn you I’m a pretty unorthodox Christian. Welcome to the Board, though.
Lothos, I’d like to agree with you, but what I know of human nature gets in the way. It’s a very fine line, isn’t it? Objectively, I know I’ve done a lot of spiritual growth the past 7 months which I wouldn’t have done otherwise. As a devout Christian, I am therefore forced to assume, by me, if no one else, that it was God’s will that I be unemployed for so long. To be completely honest, though, when I pleaded with God, there was probably more “Help me!” in it than “Thy will be done.” It’s an interesting thought, though.
CJ