# Asian girls and white guys **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [May 2, 2002, 9:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/asian-girls-and-white-guys/106940 "2002-05-02T21:04:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![Muad\_Dib](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/35a633/32.png) [@Muad\_Dib](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Muad_Dib)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2002, 3:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/asian-girls-and-white-guys/106940/81 "2002-05-07T15:35:10Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by wolfman \* > \*\*I think the size(body not penis) is being very much gilded over. Aparently I’m the only willing to admit it but there is something subconciously attractive about a small girl. When you are with a really petite chick there is a part of the brain that says “She small and vulnerable, Me big and strong, me protect her, my life has worth”. When a girl 5’ or shorter starts to cry or look scared I am helpless to deny her anything she might want. > > \*\* And if she is in snow… ---
**Author:** ![Tsubaki](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/d07c76/32.png) [@Tsubaki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tsubaki)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2002, 11:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/asian-girls-and-white-guys/106940/82 "2002-05-07T23:37:29Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by China Guy \* > \*\*Tsubaki, was the same true of language classes as opposed to cultural classes? YMMV, but in the Asian language classes, I found many more white men than women studying. Although I would agree that in the cultural classes, the reverse was true. > > Also Tsubaki, most of my female friends that married Japanese men, did so outside of Japan. Some lived in Japan for a while with their spouses, but none wanted to settle in Japan. _One_ of the factors was that they thought their spouses unconciously conformed to some of the Japanese male stereotypes when in Japan, and that they loved the way their spouses acted outside of Japan but much less so inside of Japan. Maybe that was more of a big city thing. Do you have any thoughts on that? \*\* Sorry for the delay in replying, I’ve been busy the last few days. I’m talking about both culture AND language classes. Both in Australia AND Japan. Most of the women I know married Japanese guys who have lived overseas for some period of time. The ones who didn’t knew EXACTLY what they were walking into (ie. a life of putting the family first, putting up with hubby’s unbelievable working hours, etc). You have to remember that by living in Japan, most of the women in WW/AM relationships that I know are LIVING in Japan, and have made a conscious choice to do so. So their men can’t have changed for the bad that much, right? ---
**Author:** ![Ferret\_Herder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47774/32.png) [@Ferret\_Herder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ferret_Herder)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2014, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/asian-girls-and-white-guys/106940/84 "2014-02-02T18:20:17Z")
Reported. ---
**Author:** ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2014, 6:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/asian-girls-and-white-guys/106940/85 "2014-02-02T18:54:28Z")
> [@cbtcad](#): > > My girlfriend is Asian, Korean to be specific. In that past she has only dated white guys, but I don’t consider her a good example because hers family is white (she is adopted). On my part I’ve always been more attracted to Asian girls then white girls. I’m not really sure why I am. _shrug_ I’ve never really experienced any disapproval due to our races, my religion yes, but not our races. My daughter, the FemBot, is a South Korean adoptee. Both parents white. Only be she’s had is white. They are likely to wed. - shrug - fine by me. Could give a damn what shade he is. Just as long as he loves her. ---
**Author:** ![HoneyBadgerDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/honeybadgerdc/32/1033_2.png) [@HoneyBadgerDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HoneyBadgerDC)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2014, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/asian-girls-and-white-guys/106940/86 "2014-02-02T19:00:34Z")
Even though Asian male to white female is not as common once white girls have dated Asian men a lot of them seem to like them. Asian men tend to have a stronger sense of sexuality than a lot of white guys and many women like that. I have heard that Asian men are “stronger” emotionally than a lot of white guys. ---
**Author:** ![Idle\_Thoughts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/838e76/32.png) [@Idle\_Thoughts](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Idle_Thoughts)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2014, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/asian-girls-and-white-guys/106940/87 "2014-02-02T19:34:47Z")
Since this thread is 12 years old, I’m going to close it. Feel free to make a new one if anyone wants to continue discussion. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/asian-girls-and-white-guys/106940.md?page=4)