# Ask Dr. Sisters – your sexual questions answered! **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [January 24, 2001, 9:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529 "2001-01-24T09:10:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Badtz\_Maru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e36b37/32.png) [@Badtz\_Maru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badtz_Maru)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2001, 4:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/41 "2001-01-25T04:54:17Z")
Let me explain things a bity further. It probably won’t change anyone’s opinion of what I did, but I can see how what I said could easily be misinterpreted. This was a fairly close friend who I did care about, but who was deceiving herself about some stupid choices she made in her life, when she came crying to me about it I would just say nice things to make her feel better, no it’s not your fault, etc. One night we were coming back from a party and we got on one of those discussions that tends to escalate into an argument, and I got so disgusted with her deceptiveness, both to herself and me, and her naivete that I told her exactly what I thought about a number of things that I had kept quiet about because I always felt like I had to be nice 100% of the time to girls. This did upset her, and maybe I could have gone about it in a different way, but things changed, mostly for the better. I didn’t really say anything to her that I wouldn’t have said to a close friend or sibling in the same situation, but it was a change for me to be that honest with women I was attracted to, and the new behavior was reinforced by women’s reaction to it. Sometimes being honest and confident IS being an asshole, and I don’t really see anything wrong with it. ---
**Author:** ![Badtz\_Maru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e36b37/32.png) [@Badtz\_Maru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badtz_Maru)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2001, 4:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/42 "2001-01-25T04:56:30Z")
It also helps to think of females as inferior creatures, sometimes. 8^) ---
**Author:** ![magdalene](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/df788c/32.png) [@magdalene](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/magdalene)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2001, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/43 "2001-01-25T05:32:21Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Badtz Maru \* > \*\*It also helps to think of females as inferior creatures, sometimes. 8^) \*\* Badtz Maru, why is it that everywhere I go on this board lately, you are saying something that YOU KNOW is going to get you into a fight? It’s going to take the jaws of life to get your foot out of that mouth. Batten down the hatches, my boy. ::tosses Badtz a HazMat suit:: ---
**Author:** ![SPOOFE](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c5a1d2/32.png) [@SPOOFE](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SPOOFE)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2001, 6:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/44 "2001-01-25T06:50:49Z")
> [@](#): > > Horny, but curious. The typical Man-Statement. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![ChiefScott](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58f4c7/32.png) [@ChiefScott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChiefScott)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2001, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/45 "2001-01-25T18:57:07Z")
Being a typical man, I’ll take that as a compliment, **SPOOFE**. ---
**Author:** ![Welfy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e56c9b/32.png) [@Welfy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Welfy)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2001, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/46 "2001-01-25T20:21:10Z")
Dear Dr. Sisters, What is a woman to do if the man’s member is too big? ---
**Author:** ![Diane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/2acd7d/32.png) [@Diane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diane)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2001, 8:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/47 "2001-01-25T20:35:33Z")
> [@](#): > > What is a woman to do if the man’s member is too big? Marry him! ---
**Author:** ![Silo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ac91a4/32.png) [@Silo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silo)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2001, 9:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/48 "2001-01-25T21:26:03Z")
LOL! Diane, you just made me splort my iced tea! ---
**Author:** ![ultress](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/7c8e57/32.png) [@ultress](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ultress)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2001, 12:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/49 "2001-01-26T00:15:28Z")
**badtz maru** the more you post on the board the more the dopers wonder what you would be like if you had gotten enough air when you were born. ---
**Author:** ![beagledave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6de8d8/32.png) [@beagledave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/beagledave)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2001, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/50 "2001-01-26T01:40:38Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Welfy \* > \*\*Dear Dr. Sisters, > > What is a woman to do if the man’s member is too big? \*\* How do you know if it’s too big if you’re an innocent virgin? 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Welfy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e56c9b/32.png) [@Welfy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Welfy)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2001, 2:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/51 "2001-01-26T02:34:37Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by beagledave \* > \*\* > > > [@](#): > > > > \*Originally posted by Welfy \* > > \*\*Dear Dr. Sisters, > > > > What is a woman to do if the man’s member is too big? \*\* > > How do you know if it’s too big if you’re an innocent virgin? 😛 \*\* Hmmm, perhaps this could be more easily answered if “innocent” were taken out and “naughty” was put in place… **Diane** : LOL! Thanks! That was the only time I laughed today. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Badtz\_Maru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e36b37/32.png) [@Badtz\_Maru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badtz_Maru)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2001, 7:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/52 "2001-01-26T07:48:07Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by magdalene \* > \*\* > > > [@](#): > > > > \*Originally posted by Badtz Maru \* > > \*\*It also helps to think of females as inferior creatures, sometimes. 8^) \*\* > > Badtz Maru, why is it that everywhere I go on this board lately, you are saying something that YOU KNOW is going to get you into a fight? It’s going to take the jaws of life to get your foot out of that mouth. > > Batten down the hatches, my boy. ::tosses Badtz a HazMat suit:: \*\* Actually, that example is the only recent occasion I can think of where I said something that was deliberately provocative. It was a joke (see the smiley?). I like women a lot, actually, some of my best friends are women (snicker). I actually do try to see other people as less important than me, though, women and men alike. For a long time I was too concerned about other people over myself. Today there are only a few people I care about more than myself. ---
**Author:** ![vanilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/f19dbf/32.png) [@vanilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vanilla)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2001, 3:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/53 "2001-01-26T15:04:40Z")
WHat if its too big? Go ask pamela Lee I guess. It happened to me once. I was 32 and it was the fourth time I’d ever had sex. It was not fun, it was painful. Why is _Diane_ asking that?😉 ---
**Author:** ![ChiefScott](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58f4c7/32.png) [@ChiefScott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChiefScott)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2001, 2:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/54 "2001-01-29T02:14:08Z")
**Byz** is apparently ignoring my post. ---
**Author:** ![Welfy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e56c9b/32.png) [@Welfy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Welfy)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2001, 3:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/55 "2001-01-29T03:43:19Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by ChiefScott \* > \*\ ***Byz** is apparently ignoring my post. \*\* It’s okay, Scott. She hasn’t answered mine either! ☹ And mine is in great seriousness! Obviously, I know yours is, too… _cough cough_ ---
**Author:** ![Welfy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e56c9b/32.png) [@Welfy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Welfy)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2001, 3:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/56 "2001-01-29T03:48:57Z")
Darn, I feel stupid now. I was thinking of SPOOFE’s post, nevermind, yours is a serious question. Byz, you’d better answer his question, because I want to know what that spot is, too. For what reason? Um, it is for a…ummmmm…research project I am conducting. Yeeesssss…that’s it! ---
**Author:** ![Ankh\_Too](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3ab097/32.png) [@Ankh\_Too](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ankh_Too)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2001, 6:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529/57 "2001-01-29T06:40:48Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Badtz Maru \* > \*\*Um, is there a term for when a woman’s labia minora are so long they hang outside her pussy? \*\* I have heard the term “full blown rose” used to describe unusually large labia minora, lathough it is more often used when the lips are actually spread. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-dr-sisters-your-sexual-questions-answered/51529.md?page=2)