# Ask The Cougar

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
**Created:** [November 21, 2009, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429 "2009-11-21T18:28:09Z")
**Posts on this page:** 10
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### Author: ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)
#### Post date: [November 22, 2009, 7:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/41 "2009-11-22T19:25:00Z")

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Pbbt. 😉

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### Author: ![Covered\_In\_Bees](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7ab992/32.png) [@Covered\_In\_Bees](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Covered_In_Bees)
#### Post date: [November 22, 2009, 9:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/42 "2009-11-22T21:17:57Z")

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> [@Ellen\_Cherry](#):
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> Something tells me you’d be shocked that your life, especially your sex life, doesn’t end when you start to get a little gray. :rolleyes:

No way! Are you serious? :rolleyes:

Paging [Sense of Humor](http://icanhascheezburger.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/funny-pictures-ceiling-cat-has-a-sense-of-humour.jpg). Sense of Humor needed in MPSIMS.

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### Author: ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)
#### Post date: [November 22, 2009, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/43 "2009-11-22T22:24:02Z")

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Ever get the “wonders”? As in, “I wonder why this young person is interested in being with someone my age”? I remember thinking that on many occasions when I was 40 and dating a 24-year-old. Of course for guys it’s a mid-life crisis or lechery, nothing cutesy like being called a cougar. I still have a sense of bewilderment that it ever happened. Hey, enjoy yourself.

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### Author: ![needscoffee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/needscoffee/32/1076_2.png) [@needscoffee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/needscoffee)
#### Post date: [November 23, 2009, 3:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/44 "2009-11-23T03:19:27Z")

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Have you met his mother yet? I keep envisioning Liz Lemon in 30 Rock (season 2, ep 7, Cougars)when she met her boytoy’s mom and realized it could be her.

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### Author: ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)
#### Post date: [November 23, 2009, 4:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/45 "2009-11-23T04:33:28Z")

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> [@Alice\_The\_Goon](#):
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> But you have to admit that you probably thought the same about older people when you were young. It’s a common misconception- I joke about it a lot because that’s how I deal with my aging issues, but I think it’s perfectly normal for a young person to see a person in their 50’s as fairly decrepit.

As I get older, I’m finding that I think the signs of aging on people actually look good. I like wrinkles and grey hair - young people’s faces are starting to look unfinished and too simple now.

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### Author: ![Crowbar\_of\_Irony\_3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f08c70/32.png) [@Crowbar\_of\_Irony\_3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Crowbar_of_Irony_3)
#### Post date: [November 23, 2009, 7:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/46 "2009-11-23T07:15:46Z")

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Does the 24 years old kid have a preference for older women? I would or I would prefer much more mature ladies. Girls that dissolve into giggles for no reason (at least not discernible to me) drives me up the roof.

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### Author: ![Critical1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3e96dc/32.png) [@Critical1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Critical1)
#### Post date: [November 23, 2009, 8:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/47 "2009-11-23T08:28:13Z")

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nice, I have a girl 24 years younger who has been after me for some time now.

its fun but no nookie yet, its weird

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### Author: ![Euryphaessa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Euryphaessa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Euryphaessa)
#### Post date: [November 23, 2009, 8:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/48 "2009-11-23T08:47:51Z")

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I have nothing of substance to add, but I would like to say that I think **Alice** is awesome.

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### Author: ![Rushgeekgirl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rushgeekgirl/32/3715_2.png) [@Rushgeekgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rushgeekgirl)
#### Post date: [November 24, 2009, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/49 "2009-11-24T21:38:58Z")

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We were 35 and 24 when me and my honey first got together.  
I think it’s been harder on him than me. I got old and run down rather quickly after having a baby.

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### Author: ![Translucent\_Daydream](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/translucent_daydream/32/16170_2.png) [@Translucent\_Daydream](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Translucent_Daydream)
#### Post date: [November 24, 2009, 9:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-cougar/518429/50 "2009-11-24T21:46:01Z")

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Have fun!

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