# Ask the guy who's about to radically alter his appearance (long intro)

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [March 17, 2008, 6:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679 "2008-03-17T18:49:30Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![TroubleAgain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e480ec/32.png) [@TroubleAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroubleAgain)\
**Post date:** [March 19, 2008, 8:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/41 "2008-03-19T20:29:53Z")

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I like the buzz cut.

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**Author:** ![Mahna\_Mahna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e47c2d/32.png) [@Mahna\_Mahna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mahna_Mahna)\
**Post date:** [March 19, 2008, 9:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/42 "2008-03-19T21:48:27Z")

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Hmmmm… I’ve normally got a soft spot for cute boys with delicate features, but there’s something about the combo of buzz-cut, eyebrow piercing and slightly androgynous look that’s a little too Annie Lennox for comfort.

Then again, it might just be the angle and pose in the photo, because I don’t see the same things in the before pic at all.

Either way, you’re adorable as hell. 🙂

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**Author:** ![redtail23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/3e96dc/32.png) [@redtail23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/redtail23)\
**Post date:** [March 19, 2008, 9:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/43 "2008-03-19T21:59:22Z")

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Very nice.

Good on ya!

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**Author:** ![msmith537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d9b06d/32.png) [@msmith537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/msmith537)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/44 "2008-03-20T01:44:05Z")

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meh…I say try it out. Hair generally grows back and piercings can be removed.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 1:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/45 "2008-03-20T01:52:42Z")

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My husband just shaved his head, too (well, buzzcut). Must be something in the air. He’s had the same haircut since he was a toddler, I think (short back and sides).

He laughs at your puny eyebrow piercing - [this is his abdomen piercing.](http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d24/Calgaryjimbo/Photo43.jpg)

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**Author:** ![kevja](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/aeb1de/32.png) [@kevja](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kevja)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/46 "2008-03-20T02:21:46Z")

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The new haircut works. The piercing is cool too.

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**Author:** ![Elenfair](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/cc9497/32.png) [@Elenfair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elenfair)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/47 "2008-03-20T02:52:30Z")

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Nice! You clean up well! 😉

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**Author:** ![ForumBot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ee59a6/32.png) [@ForumBot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ForumBot)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/48 "2008-03-20T04:26:09Z")

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[QUOTE=Mahna Mahna]  
Hmmmm… I’ve normally got a soft spot for cute boys with delicate features, but there’s something about the combo of buzz-cut, eyebrow piercing and slightly androgynous look that’s a little too Annie Lennox for comfort.  
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Haha. Someone said I look like Sinead O’Connor tonight. It doesn’t really bother me, I’ve always had some feminine features like long eyelashes, and I’ve taken what advantage of it that I could. On the plus side, I look _killer_ in drag.

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**Author:** ![IrreverentTone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b487fb/32.png) [@IrreverentTone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IrreverentTone)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 5:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/49 "2008-03-20T05:01:35Z")

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[QUOTE=Bridget Burke]  
I try to be tolerant of the younger generation, but: **Polo shirts?**  
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It’s okay, dear. He didn’t pop the collar. And that appears to be a sea going bird on his chest and not an alligator.

**ForumBot** , I really do like the new look, especially the eyebrow ring. It works on you.

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**Author:** ![Buckler\_of\_Swashing](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Buckler\_of\_Swashing](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Buckler_of_Swashing)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 8:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/50 "2008-03-20T08:03:14Z")

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I thought you looked good before - and I think you look good now. Hope you feel good!

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**Author:** ![bbs2k](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e495f1/32.png) [@bbs2k](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bbs2k)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 10:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/51 "2008-03-20T10:26:48Z")

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I thought you looked better with the hair, just MHO. I’m a dude though, so who cares anyways? Good for you embracing the change though.

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**Author:** ![irishgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@irishgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/irishgirl)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 10:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/52 "2008-03-20T10:45:43Z")

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OOH, that kind of haircut just makes me want to put your head in my lap and stroke it…

You’re a good looking guy, whatever you wear or however you cut your hair, or whatever holes you put in yourself, that won’t change.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, I just have to persuade my currently very hairy and beardy husband that he needs a head shaving…

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**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 11:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/53 "2008-03-20T11:04:21Z")

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There’s nothing more irritating to someone such as myself who has stupid looking hair which has almost all gone, as someone with acres of great hair that gets shaven off for no other reason than an image.

😛

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**Author:** ![Idlewild](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8491ac/32.png) [@Idlewild](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Idlewild)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 11:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/54 "2008-03-20T11:12:30Z")

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[QUOTE=missred]  
I kind of like the contrast of the eyebrow ring with the polo shirts. One of my favorite guys at work has the boy-scout-with-a wild-side look…and it’s seriously cool.  
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Yes. Seriously. This. Mmm.

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**Author:** ![NajaNivea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/22d042/32.png) [@NajaNivea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NajaNivea)\
**Post date:** [March 20, 2008, 9:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/55 "2008-03-20T21:26:24Z")

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[QUOTE=ForumBot]  
[before picture](http://photos-c.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v197/124/118/27400307/n27400307_36875798_5246.jpg)  
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😃

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**Author:** ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2008, 4:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/56 "2008-03-21T04:47:25Z")

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I for one applaud our new preppy overlord.

😃

In a small way I went for something similar last year. Some life-changing events, and I realized oh man, I’m 45 and I live in t-shirts. What the hell. I went to Goodwill stores and scoured through the shirts and came home with like 14 polo shirts. ( golf shirts. what have you ). All different brands, colors, logos, non-logos. Like trying on someone else’s look. I figured, get cheap shirts and try out the new look. If I hated it, I wasn’t going broke to find out.

And, it fits and I DO care how I look in them and it’s a good thing.

Ya look fine, dude ! Stick with the eyebrow ring and buzz cut. A great change, I say.

Cartooniverse

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**Author:** ![missred](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/missred/32/14096_2.png) [@missred](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missred)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2008, 8:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/57 "2008-03-21T08:25:59Z")

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I like the look… 🆒

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**Author:** ![Justin\_Bailey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/justin_bailey/32/8792_2.png) [@Justin\_Bailey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Justin_Bailey)\
**Post date:** [March 21, 2008, 9:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/58 "2008-03-21T09:55:09Z")

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Am I the only one that thinks you don’t look “radically” different?

You had long, crazy hair before. Now it’s short.

You have a tiny eyebrow piercing that disappears into your face. When people I’ve known have pierced their eyebrow I stop noticing it after a few days. But it looks cool.

And you went from a t-shirt wearer to a polo wearer I assume? But t-shirts and polos aren’t _that_ different. Clothes are clothes. Some have collars and some don’t.

But maybe it’s just me, because I routinely let my hair grow out shaggily like you did in your before picture and cut it back down to nothing. And as someone who wears t-shirts and polos with some regularity already, it doesn’t seem too weird to me trade one for the other. That’s the difference between what I wore today and what I’ll wear tomorrow to me.

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**Author:** ![Cisco](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Cisco](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cisco)\
**Post date:** [March 22, 2008, 4:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/59 "2008-03-22T16:08:26Z")

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Keep a close eye on that eyebrow piercing. They tend to “work themselves out” for whatever reason and leave big nasty permanent scars on your forehead. I was in high school in the mid-90s when these were incredibly popular so I know a lot of people (including my sister) who have “the mark”.

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**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\
**Post date:** [March 22, 2008, 4:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ask-the-guy-whos-about-to-radically-alter-his-appearance-long-intro/441679/60 "2008-03-22T16:22:04Z")

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[QUOTE=Cisco]  
Keep a close eye on that eyebrow piercing. They tend to “work themselves out” for whatever reason and leave big nasty permanent scars on your forehead. I was in high school in the mid-90s when these were incredibly popular so I know a lot of people (including my sister) who have “the mark”.  
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They tend to work themselves out because they’re a chunk of metal stuck into your flesh. Your body tends to go, “Holy shit! What the fuck IS that, get it out, get it out!” and works it out just like a splinter.

Hopefully **ForumBot** ’s piercer used a surgical steel piece, which is less prone to rejection, as the immune system doesn’t recognize it as an invader.

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