One might level such at me; I used to be a real nasty bitch to people on here who didn’t deserve it, back when I was sick.
I did modify my views on gun rights and ownership over time. When I first started debating it on here 12 years ago my stance was “no new laws, loosen existing ones.” But several things have modified my stance:
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In the endless Sisyphean debates which have rampaged back and forth across this message boards, there has been that occasional 1 in 1,000 pro-gun-control posts which made me think. Not many, but given there have been surely tens of thousands of such, I’ve nonetheless had ample material to consider.
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I’ve grown older. I’ve been on this message board an incredible 45% of my adult life (starting counting from age 18). A lot happened to me in 12 years. Time passes, seasons change, and so do people. I’ve had in my life an accumulated experience which is very large, of people abusing and misusing guns, having accidents with guns, and generally being dangerous, unstable assholes with them. I’ve also seen far too many people who are so mentally unstable they should never, ever, be allowed a knife, let alone a gun - but because they are undiagnosed and not “in the system,” these loons can go and buy anything they want which is legally available.
And to be blunt, some of them really scare me.
- I went through a major life change this last year which changed me. It changed my thought processes as well, washed away 30+ years of horrible depression, and made every day the best doggone day of my life. I don’t approach debates with a “must destroy idiot fucktard” attitude, I want to listen more, and sit and think, and appreciate the argument. I don’t get angry any more, or only very rarely. I don’t drink any more. I love life and I think everything is absolutely awesome, and so I try to listen more to people, or else politely tune them out if they insist on being rude.
I proposed on my board a system of owner licensing (not gun registration) which was 4-tiered and which would be guaranteed to reduce the availability of all firearms by requiring a basic Tier 1 license at a minimum which would be similar to a hunter safety course, with more and more restrictive tiers. Handguns and semi-automatic weapons capable of accepting high-capacity removable magazines (since I know from long experience calling these “assault weapons” is factually incorrect, but I hate typing that long qualifier…) would require a much higher bar to own. I would also ban firearms ownership based on any violent misdemeanors including juvenile offenses (it’s long past time to stop hiding the crimes of violent teens).
It would be give and take, however, in that the Tier 3 and 4 licenses would effectively be a national carry license, and Tier 4 would give a police-level of carry ability. I would also end the 1986 ban on new NFA weapons for NFA licensees.
In short, I propose “register the owner, not the gun” and “restrict, reduce, but do not ban.”
Thus far, no anti-gun or pro-gun person on my board thinks my system is good, which probably means it sucks…well, it’s an idea, what can I say?
As a petite woman who was raped once and could have easily prevented it had she been allowed legal access to a gun (not possible at the time), I am strongly pro-self defense. Bans cannot abide in my opinion until the anti-gun folks who happen to be in favor of such can convince me of an effective form of self-defense a 100-pound woman can use against a 250-pound man who wants to rape, torture, and kill her. It’s not a solution for all women - an annoying large number of women, IME, are simply not mentally ready nor able to use a firearm to defend themselves, and I cringe every time I hear another woman say “I’d be afraid of having a gun…the man would just take it away from me and use it on me.” Well first off sister, good for recognizing that yes, you definitely should not have a gun at this time if the “majesty of the man” cows you so much. And second, guess what, if the man can take the gun from you he can also probably kill you in a variety of inventive and nasty ways.
And tasers, pepper spray, Judo and Jujitsu…not for everyone, and not nearly as effective. While I have successfully used my unarmed combat skills once against a very large male recently in a bar, that’s the exception, and I was trained in that specific technique by my weapons master for weeks - not any 2-hour community college class in “rape escape.” It takes hard work, bruises, and repetition to get the instincts and ability to immediately break free of the grab, pull distance, and punch the motherfucker in the side of their neck such that they run like their feet were on fire and their ass was catching.
And I was lucky, I was in a well-lit place, solid footing (OK, 4-inch heels, but still, it wasn’t like on the grass) with half a dozen of my girls around me who had my back.
And I’m also mildly anti-hunting, which alienates me from most of the pro-gun folks on this message board. I’m not a prohibitionist, but I am definitely not a fan and want some more restrictions on lead in the environment and protection of predators such as mountain lions.
So yes I am firmly in the camp of firearms ownership in terms of self-defense, made available to a large majority of persons. But like myself my opinions have changed, and like myself are likely to change further.