# At least have the balls to say it to my face

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [May 10, 2003, 3:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256 "2003-05-10T03:02:44Z")\
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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/1 "2003-05-10T03:02:44Z")

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It has come to my attention that I have annoyed several people here with my “nonsensical phrases” and “insessant posting”.

I’m soooo sorry about that.

But you know, would it fucking kill you, to maybe TELL me that, instead of just going behind my back and making catty remarks about it?

Thanks. Thanks a lot.

Suck my twat you miserable bitches.

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**Author:** ![samarm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4da419/32.png) [@samarm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/samarm)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/2 "2003-05-10T03:08:21Z")

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> Suck my twat you miserable bitches.

This is priceless. I would have this as my new sig if it was allowed.

Guinastasia: I have never made comments behind your back, but seeing as the subject has been brought up I’ll throw in my two cents: I thin you sometimes appear to leap into a pit thread, with a very short & sharp remark, without following it up with much substantial argument. I don’t see any problem with it, I’m just saying what I think other people might take umbrage with. Please be gentle with me!

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**Author:** ![Payne\_N.Diaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@Payne\_N.Diaz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Payne_N.Diaz)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/3 "2003-05-10T03:09:41Z")

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FWIW, I have no problem with anything you’ve said. You have good opinions on stuff, and a great sense of humor. If “they” don’t like something you’ve said, tough shit.

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**Author:** ![chique](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4491bb/32.png) [@chique](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chique)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/4 "2003-05-10T03:10:24Z")

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Well…I’ve never actually **said** anything to anyone. I just think it a lot. Is that ok, or do I still have to suck your twat?

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**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/5 "2003-05-10T03:11:36Z")

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Behind your back? Where?

Since you asked, you could probably reduce your signal to noise ratio a bit but, then, who am I to talk?

Haj

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**Author:** ![alice\_in\_wonderland](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alice_in_wonderland/32/176_2.png) [@alice\_in\_wonderland](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alice_in_wonderland)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/6 "2003-05-10T03:12:23Z")

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Um - any chance for a link?

BTW **Guim** ,I’m sure your twat is fine…

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**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/7 "2003-05-10T03:13:03Z")

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> \*Originally posted by hajario \*  
> \*\*Since you asked, you could probably reduce your signal to noise ratio a bit but, then, who am I to talk?
> 
> Haj \*\*

Perfect example. That should be _increase_ your signal to noise ratio.

Haj

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**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/8 "2003-05-10T03:14:32Z")

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I’ll willingly say that your drive-bys annoy the crap out of me. So many times, they’re **wholly** irrelevant.

In [this thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=182923), you say:

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> Not so much a toy, but Darth Vader scared the bejesus out of me.

Right. “Not so much a toy.” So why bother to screech through and post it _in a thread about toys_? Start a thread about movie characters…villains…childhood ICONS, but why did you feel the need to throw your ball into a bin full of blocks?

I mention this because it jumped out at me and as I READ it I thought, “Why the FUCK is she posting that? IT’S TOTALLY OFF-TOPIC!”

Post all you want. I gives a fuck. I personally only even **notice** your posts any more in a sort of head-shaking, clucking my tongue in pity way.

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**Author:** ![Neurotik](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/91b2a8/32.png) [@Neurotik](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Neurotik)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/9 "2003-05-10T03:15:02Z")

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After reading that whole vaginal odor thread in IMHO a few days ago, has sucking twats become a punishment? Because, um, I enjoy it.

I haven’t actually said anything about you, **Guin** , but if your twat still needs sucking…

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/10 "2003-05-10T03:16:35Z")

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Well, I realize I’ve been VERY active these last few months-it’s been a rough time, (not anything I want to get into), and being unemployed, I have a lot of time on my hands. (although I’m also working on other things while I’m online).

So yeah, I know it looks like I’m a loser, but right now, like I said, I’m bored and fucking bloody broke, plus, I LIKE the SDMB, because I LIKE the debate.

But I read a remark about people who had a problem with my posting style. Okay, fine. Well, why not make a Pit thread about it, and tell me. How am I supposed to stop annoying people if I don’t know that I’m doing it in the first place?

Maybe I’m just being over sensitive, but then again, I always have been. Especially when the people saying stuff are people I liked and respected.

_shrugs_

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**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/11 "2003-05-10T03:18:50Z")

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“The people”…how passive-aggressively vague.

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**Author:** ![alice\_in\_wonderland](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alice_in_wonderland/32/176_2.png) [@alice\_in\_wonderland](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alice_in_wonderland)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/12 "2003-05-10T03:18:52Z")

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_Liiiiiiinky link link?_

P.S. I’m sure your twat is still fine.

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**Author:** ![Lobsang](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lobsang/32/4067_2.png) [@Lobsang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lobsang)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/13 "2003-05-10T03:19:06Z")

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> Not so much a toy, but Darth Vader scared the bejesus out of me.

If something like that annoys you **Hamadrad** then I think you need therapy.

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**Author:** ![Lobsang](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lobsang/32/4067_2.png) [@Lobsang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lobsang)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/14 "2003-05-10T03:20:19Z")

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BTW **Guinastasia** I have no problem whatsoever with your posting style.

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**Author:** ![Jessity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c67d28/32.png) [@Jessity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jessity)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/15 "2003-05-10T03:20:35Z")

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Lobsang, you’re getting on my nerves.

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/16 "2003-05-10T03:20:42Z")

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It was a live journal entry. That’s all I’m going to say for now.

By the way, **Hama** do you ever, you know, post when you DON’T have something nasty to say? Because every single post I see of your’s is usually in the Pit expressing your superiority complex.

:rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/17 "2003-05-10T03:22:17Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Lobsang \*  
> \*\*If something like that annoys you **Hamadryad** then I think you need therapy. \*\*

Thaaaaat’s an original one. Going to suggest that I take my Prozac next? Your cleverness is unmatched. Or something.

If something like people being annoyed by her posting…um, “style” annoys **Guinastasia** that much, perhaps SHE needs therapy, no?

(I went ahead and corrected your spelling of my handle. No extra charge.)

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**Author:** ![alice\_in\_wonderland](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alice_in_wonderland/32/176_2.png) [@alice\_in\_wonderland](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alice_in_wonderland)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/18 "2003-05-10T03:22:58Z")

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Humm. An LJ.

Well, that does seem sort of mean in a junior high sort of way.

Oh well. I guess I wouldn’t worry too much. There are lots of people who like you fine. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/19 "2003-05-10T03:23:36Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Guinastasia \*  
> \*\*It was a live journal entry. That’s all I’m going to say for now.
> 
> By the way, **Hama** do you ever, you know, post when you DON’T have something nasty to say? Because every single post I see of your’s is usually in the Pit expressing your superiority complex.
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> :rolleyes: \*\*

Not very frequently, no. I’m so glad you took enough note of my posts to notice! I didn’t know you were a fan!

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**Author:** ![Lobsang](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lobsang/32/4067_2.png) [@Lobsang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lobsang)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2003, 3:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/at-least-have-the-balls-to-say-it-to-my-face/174256/20 "2003-05-10T03:23:57Z")

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Yes. Take your Prozac **Hamdradyoad**

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