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My first reply was to lay some groundwork in somewhat clinical terms and were lifted from that website.
Now this is an answer to your question in my own terms. And I am no trainer so please bear with me. Yes you can create yourself anew everyday by taking away from every new relationship and experience all that it offers. Typically most people ‘only hear what they want to hear’ and they take nothing away from the experience, they end up being the same person they were. But it is illogical to expect a new experience not to effect you!
This SDMB is a perfect example, especially here in GD and this thread, I heard Lobsang’s doubts not some desire to wrangle over religion. I heard **Mangetout’s **wonderment of the possibility of creating himself from scratch.
I am a happier person and have been changed now because I know two people who are on a quest of exploration and wonderment.
Thank you.
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I would just like to point out that if this mere “knowledge” is enough to change you, then everyone is constantly changing completely all the time, if for no other reason than that their cells are aging and their senses are being constantly assaulted by the world around them. So clearly, no crystal-gazing or any other odd worldview is necessesary.
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See I chose to be affected versus I could have made an **automatic assumption ** as in: Without additional data point, I expect Lobsang’s will use atheism to compensate for an empty heart and **Mangetout’s ** will use having fun with puns as a clever disguise.
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How is it not an automatic assumption for you to have arbitrarily decided that you know two people who are on a quest of exploration and wonderment? Based on the additional data points I saw, this conclusion cannot be fairly reached, so it is exactly the same sort of leap as the pessimistic projection you give example of. The only difference is that nobody has claimed to have made the pessimistic leap.