Just wanted to point out… being Buddhist doesn’t preclude being an atheist.
Example: ME. 
Anyways, this is a fascinating thread. I come from the unique position of having once been militantly Christian (as in, I brought my Bible with me to school every day.) I got a LOT of grief. I also totally deserved it; I was annoying as hell (I was 13.) I tended not to judge other people or concern myself with the behaviors of others… but people assumed I was judging them just by nature of the fact I was deliberately setting myself apart. And believe me, the “victim” ideology is there and highly touted. I read magazines for Christian teen girls (courtesy of that wonderful homophobe James Dobson) that declared Christians were universally despised but the more despised we were the more God loved us for it. My church sold books that implored me to actively and openly proselytize–we were warriors for God, we were! We were raised to believe we were a persecuted minority. You bet your ass I was praying at the flag-pole in school. God made us to be martyrs for his Son!
Now I am an atheist. I know nothing with certainty, so technically I would be agnostic, but atheist is a better reflection of my views or reflection on God/god/gods. I live near the campus of a very liberal college, and participate in a very very liberal “college within a college.” During my three year stay in the “freaks and geeks” dorm, I had a bisexual modern Satanist two doors down and a Marxist across the hall. We’re talking some serious diversity here (no, that’d be a lie… we were all liberals!)
And yet… and yet… when I’m mucking about town, I constantly run into issues. When I worked at a local restaurant, 90% of my co-workers just about had brain aneurysms when I told them I was an atheist Buddhist. (This wasn’t something I shouted from the rooftops either… it came when one of the kids consistently pestered me about being saved.) One woman was so upset just by the fact that I wasn’t Christian that she was unable to speak to me the rest of the night. Even my boss laughed at me. One guy then took to singing obnoxiously loud church hymns whenever he was around me. I mean LOUD, right in my ear. And from then on everything was a moral issue. If I snapped that I needed the mashed potatoes right now please, my attitude was a result of my fundamental lack of moral direction because I had not received Jesus Christ as my personal savior. :rolleyes:
And then there are the door-to-door types, the religious proselytizers. They won’t even touch me with a ten foot pole. I’ve had people ask me my religion all friendly-like and then walk away without so much as a good-bye when I tell them. (Part of it is my fault–some parts of Christianity give me the warm fuzzies/nostalgia, and I’m liable to be more willing to talk to proselytizing Christians about my life experiences/spirituality in great detail. This is a MIStaaaaake! They assume that just because I am willing to discuss these issues means I desperately want to be saved–not so!)
And then my MOTHER… at my wedding… at the last minute refused to sign as a witness to our non-religious ceremony until I agreed to pray with her and her friends. My marriage, she said, was only valid until it was sanctioned by God. The wedding had a very small Buddhist component (I mentioned the Buddhist concept of boddhicitta because I felt it embodied the kind of love my husband inspired me to cultivate.) When someone asked her about this, her response was, “Well, that’s how she feels for NOW… we’re working on that. wink wink”
WTF? I mean, WTF?
I am generally opposed to anybody cramming their beliefs down anyone else’s throat, atheist, Christian or otherwise. Personally I’m irritated beyond all belief at all the self-righteous atheism threads that pop up in GD. “Are Christians Stupid?” What a goddamn stupid question. People believe or they don’t… I know, because I’ve believed and I’ve not believed. It’s like turning on/off a light switch. You don’t get to choose what you believe. Some people never second-guess their own beliefs and then there are people like me, who have dramatic shifts in spiritual perspective and constantly worry about The Truth. Either way, it’s just the way people are wired. Intelligence has nothing to do with it. EMOTION has everything to do with it. If you ask me, even atheism is outside of rationality… the only REAL rational response to “Is there a God?” seems to be a throwing up of the hands and a resounding, “FUCK IF I KNOW!” That’s why I lack interest in threads that try to use rationality to validate something as emotional and personal and subjective as belief. In the month or so I’ve been here, I feel certain atheists are much more outspoken and condescending about their beliefs than the Christians.
However, I don’t find that to be the trend in every day life. On a national level there seems to be a growing distrust of atheists and people of other religions… but somehow broader concepts like science and rationality have been tacked on to what it means to be “atheist.” So intellectuals, artists, and SCIENTISTS are being demonized… and the Christians who do that, are of course STUPID… but it has less to do with the fact they are Christian and more to do with mind-numbing ignorance combined with constant societal reinforcement. You could slap those dumbasses into any religion and they’d find a way to be an embarrassment to humanity about it.
So do I feel like a victim? Not really. Do I feel there are true victims of organized religion? Sure. Homosexuals in the United States come to mind. My own experience is a petty annoyance-- I have never had my human rights violated for being an atheist. But there are people who are true victims of discrimination, and I WILL NOT shut up in standing up for their rights.
All of this, of course, IMHO. 