# Attn losers: Go to Asia and get laid! **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [September 17, 2009, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attn-losers-go-to-asia-and-get-laid/510504 "2009-09-17T21:31:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 62
**Author:** ![leander](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bcef8e/32.png) [@leander](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/leander)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2009, 9:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attn-losers-go-to-asia-and-get-laid/510504/62 "2009-09-18T09:50:41Z")
> [@Isamu](#): > > Word to the wise. > > If you’re considering moving to Asia (well, Japan at least) for the strict purpose of getting laid, think twice. There may have been a time (known as the yellow taxi era) when picking up a quality girl for a casual fling was pretty easy, but that time has passed. > > Also, if you have any specially attractive qualities (good job, cultured accent, witty, etc) in your own culture that mean you get laid at least occasionally in your home country, again, think twice about moving to Japan to get laid. Those little attractive qualities are culturally invisible to 99.9% of Japanese - you are just a gaijin. > > On the other hand, if you are particularly attractive, then you won’t have any trouble picking up, but then neither would you back home either. You’re clearly a local - I am quite interested in hearing more. Like others in this thread, I have heard that Japanese girls (esp in the Ropongi district) are quite keen on sleeping with a gaijin. In fact, I’ve had a Japanese fellow tell me that they are interested in having sex with westerners because of the size of Japanese men’s dongs. Seriously (yes, I was very surprised to hear that from a Japanese man!) So what’s the deal? Any Japanese women around to comment? --- _[View the full topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attn-losers-go-to-asia-and-get-laid/510504)._