# attraction to skinny women, is it repressed bi or homosexuallity in men?

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [December 1, 2001, 4:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attraction-to-skinny-women-is-it-repressed-bi-or-homosexuallity-in-men/96258 "2001-12-01T04:25:16Z")\
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**Author:** ![pesch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pesch/32/4925_2.png) [@pesch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pesch)\
**Post date:** [December 1, 2001, 11:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attraction-to-skinny-women-is-it-repressed-bi-or-homosexuallity-in-men/96258/21 "2001-12-01T23:48:04Z")

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**tallinu** speaks truth. One of the worst dates I had was a double-date with the college beauty queen. Very beautiful, very boring. She was even studying to be an accountant.

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**Author:** ![Johnny\_L.A](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnny_l.a/32/1084_2.png) [@Johnny\_L.A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_L.A)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2001, 12:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attraction-to-skinny-women-is-it-repressed-bi-or-homosexuallity-in-men/96258/22 "2001-12-02T00:01:11Z")

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I like women with small breasts. I prefer them skinny with a little bit of hip, dark hair, and not a lot of makeup. But I’m not gay, and have not even the inkling of the desire to have sex with men.

But the women I’ve been with tended to have a bit of meat on them. One had small breasts and she weighed 200 pounds, and we had much fun. Several times. From California to New Orleans to North Carolina. Although I prefer tiny dark-haired girls, it’s really the person inside I’m attracted to.

Is there a psychological reason why I like small-breasted women? I don’t know. I remember when I was a little kid I saw my sister’s _enormous_ tits once. Maybe I just don’t want to think of having sex with my sister.

Anyway… If there are any petite Doper ladies out there who like filmmaking (which I do sometimes) and flying (ditto) and want to live in the state of Washington, you know where to reach me. =;^)

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**Author:** ![Ravi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/58956e/32.png) [@Ravi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ravi)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2001, 12:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attraction-to-skinny-women-is-it-repressed-bi-or-homosexuallity-in-men/96258/23 "2001-12-02T00:09:46Z")

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No… it’s not repressed homosexuallity. If I wanted to suck cock I would go suck a cock. Every women I’ve ever dated had a poontang, not a cock.  
rande…

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**Author:** ![mancunian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mancunian/32/12244_2.png) [@mancunian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mancunian)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2001, 1:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attraction-to-skinny-women-is-it-repressed-bi-or-homosexuallity-in-men/96258/24 "2001-12-02T01:15:45Z")

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If a man were a closet homesexual, surely to god, to throw the scent off, he would date the most looky like a playboy model he could?

I know I would.

But then again, I would date anything with a vagina and tits :D. (so long as it ain’t too fat :()

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**Author:** ![Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c77e96/32.png) [@Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Speaker_for_the_Dead)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2001, 1:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attraction-to-skinny-women-is-it-repressed-bi-or-homosexuallity-in-men/96258/25 "2001-12-02T01:55:25Z")

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Well, my girl type is thus

Long, straight, silky hair.

Tall, almost as me (5’11 or shorter)

Skinny, with small (B or lower) breasts

Hips don’t matter.

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**Author:** ![alice\_in\_wonderland](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alice_in_wonderland/32/176_2.png) [@alice\_in\_wonderland](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alice_in_wonderland)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2001, 3:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/attraction-to-skinny-women-is-it-repressed-bi-or-homosexuallity-in-men/96258/26 "2001-12-02T03:15:30Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Rae of Dawn \*  
> \*\*She has this theory that men who are attracted to REALLY skinny women are in the closet about their sexuality.  
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Well, here is some evidence that what you say is true:

I’m pretty thin - 5’7", size 4. I used to be 30 pounds thinner. When I was that thin, I went out with gay men. Closet cases, all. Hell, I lived with one for a year.

That’s an N of 3 folks.

However, when I was _WAY_ skinny, I also dated quite a few hard core hetros, so I think that all this proves is that 3 gay men (well, 2 gay, and one bi-sexual that prefers not to have sex with women :rolleyes: ) dig really skinny women.

For the record, at my current weight, I don’t get pursued a helluva lot. I’ve been told this is because I’m intimidating. I think it’s because I’m bitchy… 😃

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