# Back to the grind in the MMP

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Tags:** mmp\
**Created:** [January 4, 2016, 11:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146 "2016-01-04T11:11:31Z")\
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**Author:** ![anyrose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/54ee81/32.png) [@anyrose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anyrose)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/121 "2016-01-06T16:48:14Z")

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I’m feeling extremely awful today. The usual morning upset stomach (between post nasal drip and reaction to my meds) still lingers on, and the rest of my insides aren’t happy either.

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**Author:** ![The\_Stainless\_Steel\_Rat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/the_stainless_steel_rat/32/5727_2.png) [@The\_Stainless\_Steel\_Rat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Stainless_Steel_Rat)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/122 "2016-01-06T16:59:17Z")

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So,Rose, would you call it a blurfy day? \<grin\>

Get well soon. Winter illness is no fun at all.

Me, I had hopes of a cold, so I could use some of my sick time, but no such luck.

Made my final decision, I will go to China this year (probably September/October) for my retirement vacation.

Want to go along? (lots of yeses here). Got $6,000-$7,000 handy? (ummmm, errr). \<grinning\>

Will set me back quite a bit. Need to plan my budget in the next few months.

**Ruble,** sounds like a job I’d like to do post-retirement; but I’ll have to see if there is anything like it down here in Ali-bama.

Now back to irk…Squirrel!!

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/123 "2016-01-06T17:04:57Z")

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I finally have work to do! And it’s a booger, which is why I’m lunching an hour later than usual - I got all involved and lost track of time. Which is good. Yay!

And I’m learning new stuff, which is always nice.

**Metal Mouse** - you will go see the terra cotta army, right?? I’ll do that vicariously thru you! 😃

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**Author:** ![anyrose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/54ee81/32.png) [@anyrose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anyrose)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 5:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/124 "2016-01-06T17:26:52Z")

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That sounds like an awesome vaca, **Metal Mouse**. Enjoy it.

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**Author:** ![gotpasswords](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/c57346/32.png) [@gotpasswords](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gotpasswords)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/125 "2016-01-06T17:32:44Z")

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Those jungle shipping people… I’m mildly grumpy that they’ve tweaked their algorithms that govern what happens between my clicking Place Order and the dog barking at the UPS guy.

Used to be that probably 99% of my orders shipped from Fernley, NV and arrived overnight by ordinary ground service. Now, they know I’m a Prime member and that I didn’t cough up the extra bucks for overnight shipping, so the order sits in a queue and ships the next day so it arrives in the promised two days and not a moment earlier.

Except now, the dog doesn’t bark. Our old dog had been ill for a couple of months and had arthritis. She stopped eating and accepting medications earlier this week, and when we looked in her eyes, she was gone, and only a dog-shaped body was still with us so she had her final trip to the vet yesterday.

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**Author:** ![anyrose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/54ee81/32.png) [@anyrose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anyrose)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 6:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/126 "2016-01-06T18:31:15Z")

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**{{{{{gotti}}}}}**

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**Author:** ![Buttercup\_Smith](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/buttercup_smith/32/473_2.png) [@Buttercup\_Smith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Buttercup_Smith)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/127 "2016-01-06T19:10:52Z")

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**((((gotti))))**

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**Author:** ![swampbear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/swampbear/32/467_2.png) [@swampbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/swampbear)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 8:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/128 "2016-01-06T20:58:00Z")

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Howdy Y’all! Three down and two to go. YAY!!! Dindin (the main course) is bakin’ away as I post. 'Tis Stouffer’s Lasagna. Don’t Judge! It shall be accompanied by a green sallit and garlic bread sticks.

This evenin’ we shall attend an Epiphany service over to the church house. I’m lookin’ forward to that as a few other churches are joinin’ us so that should be good.

**{{{rosie}}}** feel better soonest.

**{{{gotti}}}** I’m so sorry for the loss of your baby. She led a long, happy, love filled life thanks to DH and you.

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**Author:** ![Sahirrnee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sahirrnee/32/13937_2.png) [@Sahirrnee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sahirrnee)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 9:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/129 "2016-01-06T21:04:58Z")

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**{{{Gotti}}}**

It’s been a day.

My mother called and she does not want the available apartment so I can eliminate the stress of moving stuff for a while. Now she doesn’t want anybody to take anything so the house can be staged.

Sah-son and I will get his books tomorrow after the orientation, which may make me late for irk. Unless he goes before orientation, but I have no idea how long that will take.

OAOASO called me yesterday, BS call in which I answered his question, asked if he wanted anything else, he said no, so I hung up.  
Then I get a text from him last night. He wants to know if oldest son’s lawyer can call me. That is the son who stayed with me for a few days. I said ok having no idea why he wants to talk to me. The lawyer wants to talk to me about when he was here with the girl - damn if I can remember her name because it was something like snowflake or scarlet or silence. Anyway, it seems that the girl is accusing oldest son of forcing her to sell her body for money. I don’t know anything about that or why it has come up, but I would say from her behavior that she was very familiar with life on the streets so to speak and I doubt that he would have had to force her. Considering that she was hanging all over him, sitting in his lap, hugging, kissing, and gazing into his eyes as he spoke, she certainly wasn’t afraid of him.  
I didn’t think too much of her - so whatever. If the lawyer calls I’ll say what I know and be done with it.  
Have I ever mentioned that OAOASO has an extremely messed up family? I always wonder how he came out of it.

And I now have a boat sitting out back.  
On a trailer, with no tags, but it’s up against the fence so nobody should notice unless they go look on purpose.  
Several years ago OAOASO and I bought a boat. It was against my better judgement but I let him talk me into it. We were supposed to go out boating together, blahblahblah but of course that never happened. So I said I wanted my half of the money back. There were days I thought about taking a chain saw out there and taking my half of the boat, but I’m way too old for that kind of stuff.  
He has been telling me for a least a year that he was going to give me the boat.  
Today I get a phone call from him, that his friend and nephew are out back with the boat and where did I want them to put it. I could think of a place, which is not in my back yard.  
I said I am not prepared for this, you could have told me it was coming and his response - _ **I told you I was bringing it out there** _.  
Yeah, like the last time was over a month ago.  
So now I have a boat to sell and have no idea how to sell one.

Why can I not have a quiet life?

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**Author:** ![Spiderman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spiderman/32/230_2.png) [@Spiderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spiderman)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/130 "2016-01-06T21:05:29Z")

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> [@swampbear](#):
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> This evenin’ we shall attend an Epiphany service over to the church house. I’m lookin’ forward to that as a few other churches are joinin’ us so that should be good.

Will you havean epiphany @ Epiphany?  
Sorry for the loss, **Gotti** , losing a pup always sucks.

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 9:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/131 "2016-01-06T21:26:53Z")

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Aack - skip the morning and there’s tons of news. A chattery lot today. 😃

> [@swampbear](#):
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> **sunny** you should also wear a pink wig to accessorize the pink frames. 😃

Well, I have a neon blue one. Hmmm, maybe it’s time to go shopping. 🙂

> [@Sahirrnee](#):
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> Stopped by my mom’s, got my Christmas gifts, one nice outfit and another pair of pants and a sweater. Sah-son got dominos gift cards, a few puzzles and stock.

Yay for presents! Boo for drive. Hope selling the boat goes smoothly…

> [@Seanette](#):
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> DH has my bug :(. Ordered dinner from a nearby Chinese place courtesy of a very nice website. Tell website what we want, provide payment info, food appears at the door an hour or so later. Very nice.

Hope you all feel better soonest. And the weather is truly difficult at this point. Not quite driving in a blizzard difficult, but driving in flooded streets isn’t _that_ much of an improvement.

> [@FairyChatMom](#):
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> Home. Whew - those 3 minutes of work really kicked my butt today… 😛

Sigh. I’m in your boat at the moment. Came back from leave and the company had re-organized, moved, and several more people quit. They’ve only figured out the job structure down the VP level. The rest of us are waiting to be told what our job is. Good times.

> [@carnivorousplant](#):
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> [Pluggers Comic.](http://www.gocomics.com/pluggers/)
> 
> Speaking of comics, I still want to see the X-Ray glasses! :dubious:

Not my x-ray glasses - those are classified! 😛

> [@kopek](#):
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> Work is still being interesting; interesting not being a good thing to me. As I understand the events of the last week.  
> 1 - peak ended  
> 2 - temps were released  
> 3 - we got slammed for New Years and met the challenge  
> 4 - A whole bunch of us resigned/quit/said take this job and shove it  
> 5 - Seattle was so impressed at how we did during peak that they raised our volume  
> 6 - someone should have ordered some lube because we are getting \*%^&#$  
> 7 - the “jobs available” sign is out but it will take a month before the new crop arrives
> 
> The bad part is that a lot of us are willing to do what it takes and stay extra hours -------- BUT because peak is over we are limited to 30 hours per week again. Our building manager is negotiating that with TPTB but for now its a real cluster\*%^&.

**Ruble** I have to tell you that you’re a big part of the reason that I still shop with that online company that sounds like a jungle. The more I hear about their employment practices, the more I think I may be supporting a monster… :mad: That would be them, not you. You I don’t mind supporting. 😛

> [@Nava](#):
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> If it’s got a normal amount of stupid I’m ok with that.
> 
> It’s in consulting, but full time, for an IT-consulting firm that’s still in the set-up stages for their Spanish location.
> 
> We’re a good location for IT firms: lots of people with solid technical backgrounds, generally well-educated population, it’s easy to convince others to move here (if you’re smack in the middle and manage to avoid rush traffic, the beach is 4-5h away; definitely a big incentive), the salaries aren’t as high as in most other western-european countries but neither is the cost of living… And a lot of companies have figured out that being in “the provinces” is a lot cheaper than being in Madrid but the pool of people and the services aren’t terribly dissimilar. If you set up in a location with good STEM schools, you can just funnel in their graduates: for example, Gijón has several “programmer farms” feeding off the Mining School and its not-so-famous STEM sisters.

Yay for job, **Nava**! (Why does **Nava** not have a nickname? Have we failed as MMPers?)

> [@FairyChatMom](#):
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> Oh yeah, and I started the day wit Taz peeing on me! Apparently when I’m on my side with my hand on **FCD** ’s back, Taz has to pee on my back. Little jerk. He mostly got the comforter, and I just sprayed Nature’s Miracle on the 2 small spots on the sheet. But it’s so weird - if I stay lying on my back, he’ll plaster himself next to me. If I’m on my side, I’m a urinal.

Cats! :mad: I’m not sure why we have them, other than the cute.

> [@The\_Stainless\_Steel\_Rat](#):
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> Made my final decision, I will go to China this year (probably September/October) for my retirement vacation.
> 
> Want to go along? (lots of yeses here). Got $6,000-$7,000 handy? (ummmm, errr). \<grinning\>
> 
> Will set me back quite a bit. Need to plan my budget in the next few months.

I envy you your retirement, but I think I’ll pass on China. I’ve got a few others places, like the Maldives, that I’d like to hit first. 😃

> [@gotpasswords](#):
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> Except now, the dog doesn’t bark. Our old dog had been ill for a couple of months and had arthritis. She stopped eating and accepting medications earlier this week, and when we looked in her eyes, she was gone, and only a dog-shaped body was still with us so she had her final trip to the vet yesterday.

**{{{Gotti}}}** I’m so sorry. It’s an awful feeling. I hope you can find solace in the good times, rather than the end of her life. My condolences.

And now the Sunny report. Today I am working from home. My car pool buddy ditched me and I didn’t feel like tackling the 4 hour commute solo, in the middle of a monsoon. So email, meetings and other projects are from home today. Tomorrow I have to go in, no matter what, as I’m meeting with my VP. Hopefully the car pool will happen.

I need to go shopping and get a few errands done. We’ll see if I can squeeze that in at the end of the day.

Glasses report tomorrow. No wig. 😃

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**Author:** ![Buttercup\_Smith](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/buttercup_smith/32/473_2.png) [@Buttercup\_Smith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Buttercup_Smith)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/132 "2016-01-06T21:34:45Z")

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Late afternoon blurf. I have been super busy but I see the end in sight. It sure makes the time pass fast when busy. I even sold some tables for the air show and I sold a Disney Cruise with very little effort. Nice commission from that.

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**Author:** ![Catamount](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/catamount/32/2840_2.png) [@Catamount](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Catamount)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 9:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/133 "2016-01-06T21:40:54Z")

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**{{{gotti}}}**

_judges **swampy** _

The part for my wipers didn’t come in today. So now I have to take off irk again tomorrow and go all the way down to Swannanowhere.

I really hate that all the good car fixit shops around here want you to leave your car with them. Yeah, that’s my only car and I live alone. That ain’t gonna work for me. I’m seriously considering taking it to the dealership next time I need work done on it. They’re right down the street from my irk and they can pick the car up if need be.

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 9:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/134 "2016-01-06T21:46:39Z")

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{{{ **gotti** }}} worst part of having a pet. ☹

\*\*sari \*\*- as long as the trailer is sitting and not on the road, it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t have tags. So don’t sweat it. And don’t try to sell it till at least April, unless you just want it gone - no one is buying boats this time of year. I hope you have the titles for the boat and the trailer.

Oh, yeah, home. My afternoon went really fast, and I finished the easier of the two parts I was assigned. I should be able to get the other one done tomorrow. Then I’ll be out of work again… except Jason might let me do the drawings, which would be cool.

I forgot to stop at WalMart and pick up some stuff we ordered this weekend. Dammit. I’ll stop tomorrow.

Steak for supper tonight, and fresh green beans. And instant smashed N.O.T.s, because we like 'em.

C’mon Firday!!

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**Author:** ![Sahirrnee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sahirrnee/32/13937_2.png) [@Sahirrnee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sahirrnee)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 10:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/135 "2016-01-06T22:28:59Z")

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I’ve got two titles and some kind of laminated card - certificate of vessel number- it expired in 2011. The titles are signed but still in the name of the guy he got it from.

I’m not in a hurry to get rid of it, how do I know somebody won’t come by, hook it up and steal it? Shouldn’t I have gotten keys or something too?

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**Author:** ![anyrose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/54ee81/32.png) [@anyrose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anyrose)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 10:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/136 "2016-01-06T22:30:10Z")

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We have cats because purr

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 11:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/137 "2016-01-06T23:03:25Z")

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\*\*sari \*\*- can you run a chain from the trailer to the fence? Not a guarantee, but someone would really, \*really \*have to want to steal it. Or you could just take one of the tires off the trailer and leave it on blocks!

Supper was yum! I just took the comforter out of the washer and put it on the line - it should dry by tomorrow afternoon. I hope. And I’ve put an afghan it its place on the bed. Stoopit cat.

I have to say, so far, the response to my party has been underwhelming - two, maybe 3 confirmed. Guess that’s what happens when you live in the boonies. If I don’t get any more in the next week or so, I’ll just take the hint and save myself the effort of cleaning house. At least that’s better than having a dozen people say “I’ll be there” then only 3 show up…

I forgot to buy my powerball ticket. Someone else might win my $450 million… :smack:

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**Author:** ![Sahirrnee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sahirrnee/32/13937_2.png) [@Sahirrnee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sahirrnee)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 11:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/138 "2016-01-06T23:47:42Z")

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I’m planning on coming, depending on weather of course.

I guess I need to get a chain and a lock. He said the keys are in the boat but there is no battery - so like that will stop a thief? It’s not like they will start it up and steal it that way.

I didn’t get a power ball, then again I never do since I moved up here.  
I don’t even know if the convenience store a few blocks down sells them.  
I need to get out more.

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**Author:** ![EmilyG](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/emilyg/32/364_2.png) [@EmilyG](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EmilyG)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2016, 11:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/139 "2016-01-06T23:58:13Z")

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**Moooom,** I wish I could come to your party, though if I fly out there on Saturday morning and then the party ends up being cancelled, then I don’t know what I’d do. 😛

Besides, I don’t know what’ll happen if I admit this here on the message board, if the authorities/government can find out and hold it against me, but I don’t currently have any of the anti-anxiety meds I use to soften the inevitable panic attacks I get while flying.

I would have liked to come to the party, though. I like parties.

Yeah, I’m a shy, socially-awkward, quiet person who also likes parties. Yes, I’m an oddball. I am the oddest ball.

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [January 7, 2016, 12:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/back-to-the-grind-in-the-mmp/742146/140 "2016-01-07T00:03:08Z")

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**MG** I understand completely about meds and flying. I am the same way. 🙂

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