# Bad, bad, bad Beckinis

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [April 25, 2021, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743 "2021-04-25T15:46:52Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![mixdenny](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mixdenny/32/2962_2.png) [@mixdenny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mixdenny)\
**Post date:** [April 25, 2021, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/1 "2021-04-25T15:46:52Z")

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Bikinis made from recycled fishing nets. Wonder if they will swim in Arkansas?

> **['Craziest, Coolest Thing': Sac State Student Uses Unique Materials To Sell...](https://www.cbsnews.com/sacramento/news/craziest-coolest-thing-sac-state-student-uses-unique-materials-to-sell-sustainable-bathing-suits/)**
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> Taking fashion frustration and turning it into clever clothing, some Sacramento women are on a mission to cut down on clothing waste.

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**Author:** ![kenobi\_65](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kenobi_65/32/13178_2.png) [@kenobi\_65](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kenobi_65)\
**Post date:** [April 25, 2021, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/2 "2021-04-25T15:48:06Z")

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> [@mixdenny](#):
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> Wonder if they will swim in Arkansas?

Only if the nets had been used to catch catfish. 🙂

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**Author:** ![carnut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnut/32/3531_2.png) [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)\
**Post date:** [April 26, 2021, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/3 "2021-04-26T23:12:24Z")

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But will they hold water?

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2022, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/4 "2022-09-27T16:32:25Z")

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Ahh, they wear daisy dukes and teeny bikini tops, around here. Occasionally the top pops out. (you know, wardrobe malfunction)  
I lost my top at a pool once, diving.  
I made my own bikini tops. The  
material was probably not always the correct kind for swim wear.

The good ol’days.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2022, 4:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/5 "2022-09-27T16:52:47Z")

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I just read the whole article.  
Beckinis, indeed!

This old thread is ‘woo-ishly’ about me.

How’s that happen??

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**Author:** ![VOW](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/vow/32/3043_2.png) [@VOW](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VOW)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2022, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/6 "2022-09-27T23:26:43Z")

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@Beckdawrek

Um.

You’re famous now?

~VOW

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**Author:** ![carnut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnut/32/3531_2.png) [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2022, 11:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/7 "2022-09-27T23:44:09Z")

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If the average consumer throws away 70 lbs of clothing a year and I am way below that average, I wonder who is tossing out more than that amount. Or does this include the clothing designers destroy if they don’t sell them?

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**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\
**Post date:** [September 27, 2022, 11:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/8 "2022-09-27T23:46:27Z")

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@Beckdawrek,

I represent Wolfpup & Associates, attorneys at law and carnivorous predators. We note that the originator of this thread has used your “bad, bad, bad” trademarked phrase in apparent violation of your copyright and exclusive right to use it in thread titles as a unique identifier of your widely recognized and justly celebrated work.

We will be pleased to represent you in a cease-and-desist action against the offending individual or entity. Should these shameful transgressions continue, we will be pleased to undertake further legal action to obtain appropriate enforcement and compensatory damages as appropriate on your behalf.

Regards,  
Wolfpup, Esq.  
Attorney at Law and Apex Predator  
_“We don’t stop until we get blood.”_

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**Author:** ![Kimstu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ecd19e/32.png) [@Kimstu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kimstu)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 12:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/9 "2022-09-28T00:17:30Z")

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> [@carnut](#):
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> If the average consumer throws away 70 lbs of clothing a year and I am way below that average, I wonder who is tossing out more than that amount. Or does this include the clothing designers destroy if they don’t sell them?

AIUI, nope, that 70lbs is all consumer discards. However, it includes “other textiles” besides clothing: e.g., bedding, backpacks, dishtowels, bathtowels, tote bags, any textile that the consumer considers no longer usable or wanted and throws in the trash.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 1:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/10 "2022-09-28T01:11:34Z")

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Yay!! Money!!  
@mixdenny aren’t you loaded?

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 1:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/11 "2022-09-28T01:20:35Z")

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The thing I found telling was the claim that most people have bought an outfit only to wear it once and throw it away.

I can think of exactly one outfit anyone I know buys and wears only once, and they don’t throw it away: a wedding dress. Hell, I don’t know anyone who throws away clothing at all: even if they don’t want it anymore, they try to give it away or drop it off at some sort of clothing drive.

If you do just wear something once, like a prom dress or tux, you rent it.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/12 "2022-09-28T01:53:42Z")

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You can buy handcrafted items from India. Those ladies pick thru dumped clothing and leavings from textile factories.  
And make kantha quilts, bags, rugs. And no telling what all. I’ve purchased something like a 1000 chindi rugs and this last Christmas I was given a Kantha quilt. I ordered some for gifts. Maybe 25.

My carbon footprint is now lowered.(eh, don’t even know what that means) My wedding dress was my Mother’s all the way back to a great great grandma. I still have it.

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**Author:** ![nearwildheaven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90db22/32.png) [@nearwildheaven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nearwildheaven)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 2:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/13 "2022-09-28T02:47:51Z")

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That would also include defective or unsalable merchandise that made it into a store, textiles that were destroyed in a natural or man-made disaster, things that are donated and not suitable to be worn OR baled, etc.

When I was in high school, a strip mall near my home that contained a sewing and craft store caught fire, and that store was one that was a total loss. That would certainly be included in that 70 pounds, were that the amount at the time.

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**Author:** ![nearwildheaven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90db22/32.png) [@nearwildheaven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nearwildheaven)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 2:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/14 "2022-09-28T02:51:01Z")

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Are kantha quilts the ones made from old saris? I never heard of them until recently.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 4:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/15 "2022-09-28T04:44:59Z")

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Yes. And they’re really primitive.  
No batting in between the layers. They make a nice summer time quilt .  
I felt really guilty about having one. I thought they probably made 4 cents per quilt. So I bought a bunch of them.

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**Author:** ![HelenGawn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a88e4f/32.png) [@HelenGawn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HelenGawn)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 5:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/16 "2022-09-28T05:31:56Z")

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A multi-generational wedding dress is amazing. Decades of devoted care.

My cousin’s bride\* wore my aunt’s - her now mother-in-law’s - wedding dress. Which I found odd, rather that wear one from he own family. Moreso because my aunt’s wedding ended in divorce.

\*They’ve now been married 40 years.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 5:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/17 "2022-09-28T05:42:14Z")

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On me the hem of the dress hit halfway between my ankle and knee.  
It looked nice, I thought.  
I’m lucky my Mother or her antecedents we’re close to the right size.  
None of my sisters cared to wear it.  
My oldest sister (the one who is always coming here) has been married so many times I doubt she even changed clothes for the last 2.  
I can’t remember their names, I know that much.

Maybe The Li’l Wrekker will use the dress one day

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**Author:** ![Spoons](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spoons/32/3141_2.png) [@Spoons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoons)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 6:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/18 "2022-09-28T06:53:13Z")

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_I read a note our Becky wrote,_  
_Back in something-and-three_  
_She lost it on the wind,_  
_And it floated here to me._

_She said,_  
_"Folks, you might not understand,_  
_But a long, long time ago,_  
_When it came to a wedding dress,_  
_You daren’t let ankles show."_

_Beck had this crazy plan to_  
_Show her ankles anyway._  
_She had a pair of real nice shoes_  
_She’d show off on that day._

_But there was her family_  
_And tradition, and so she said,_  
_In yet another letter,_  
_And this is how it read:_

_"If my ankles are both’ring you,_  
_Well, that’s just because of me._  
_It’s my day, and you’ll all pull through,_  
_And I’ll be who I want to be._

_But I’m who I’ve always been,_  
_Why not just wait and see?_  
_And between now and then,_  
_Until I see you again,_  
_I’ll be loving you,_  
_Love, Me."_

For you, @Beckdawrek .

Full credit: inspired by Collin Raye’s song, “Love, Me.” You can hear it here:

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/oCF-JMQW3GA/maxresdefault.jpg "Collin Raye - Love, Me") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oCF-JMQW3GA)

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**Author:** ![am77494](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/d2c977/32.png) [@am77494](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/am77494)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 1:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/19 "2022-09-28T13:48:43Z")

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> [@nearwildheaven](#):
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> Are kantha quilts the ones made from old saris? I never heard of them until recently.

Yeah it was traditional in the eastern states of India (especially Bengal) to convert old cotton sarees to quilts. When a cotton saree is worn for a few years, it gets soft - really really soft and comfy like old jeans. And then my grandmother would hand sew many such layered sarees into a kantha quilt. The sewing thread itself was used by unravelling a saree - so it was all around soft.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2022, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad-beckinis/940743/20 "2022-09-28T18:48:17Z")

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Thank you friend.  
It gave me a giggle and a warm feeling.

((Hugs to you))

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